OK,

If married guys didn't fuck around, these girls wouldn't make a living.  And why do you care if she has an SO who knows or doesn't know?  None of your business.

No. I will not be sharing with him 'this' part of my life. I was doing this long before I met him (which is very recent) and it was a complete fluke we met at all. It's far too soon in the relationship to even think about sharing such a thing for me personally as we are just feeling each other out. I certainly hadn't planned on meeting anyone, nor was I looking and I don't know if 'that' time will ever present itself. If it ever does. Being this is all new to me personally, choosing to combine the two worlds now that I'm a part of it for the first time is an interesting dynamic indeed. And certainly a different viewpoint when you have feelings for another while still 'here'. Taking it day by day I think is all you really can do in new relationships, whether you're a part of this world or not. I only see one or two gents per month as it is, so for me, it' only matter of those one or two, not twenty or thirty lol.  

They will be nice and talk to you but they don't give a shit if you are attached or not.  OKAY, I am stretching a bit, they may actually like that you are attached b/c it means two things:  (1) less likely to become a stalker;  and (2) you have something to lose.

Interesting way to put it Pangloss lol.  

Walking that line is tough...or so I hear  

No. LOL. Why? Are you jealous?  

IMO, there's no reason to discuss or divulge anything at all about your life. I told one lady I was a waffle iron repairman and spent the entire relationship acting like how I thought such a guy would act. I tell some that I'm married, others that I'm engaged, some that I'm nursing a broken heart, and even when I skirt close to the "truth" and tell them I'm single I don't elaborate about what that means. During screening they get whatever information they need, the rest is my own fantasy to makeup for the most intriguing and intense session. I doubt if they disclose much about themselves.

Regarding providers and their SO, it isn't your concern. She is the one hiding what they do or not. It is between them. I known what my wife does at the brothel and am fine with it. Other women may be hiding it. That is between them and not your concern. Just like your relationship with your SO is not hers. You didn't make an promises to her SO, and she made none to yours.  

I'm married, and I dont discuss my marriage. I feel like that's my personal business and I would never ask any personal questions either. I have worn my wedding ring in the session and no one's ever asked.  

Do they have a pimp? Who really answers their emails? How much information remains ( all of it in case you weren't aware ) about our sessions and email communications? How safe is my electronic communication given everything is IP saved and when a pro flips will she give up everyone in her book ( ABSOLUTELY. ) It gets worse if you want it to. For example a provider has her account hijacked by another provider who contacts and solicits me ( you ) let alone has total detailed notes of your activities, preferences and potentially personal data that could be problematic. Fortunately there are laws that protect us from blackmail and extortion but having had a taste it is unpleasant even in victory.

If most of you guys were not married, I would have no business lol. I have built up a great rapport with many of my clients. All of them are in a sexless marriage. No touching, no rubbing, not even looking at their husband's privates (one of them starting shaving down stairs and I asked what will your wife think when she sees you suddenly starting grooming that area and he responded, she doesn't even look at it) yet these men still want and need loving and affection so that visit us. I am more than happy to assist (wink) so if you are married and seeking attention, for a hour or two, then I came help you. Your status is unimportant to me as we are not starting a dating relationship. I won't ask you to leave your wife/so/however but I will be here for you when you need me to.  

We all have personal lives and I do discuss mine to a point. I don't care if a hobbyist is married or not or, wants to discuss his personal life with me.  That is totally up to him and I don't judge people for that either way. We are all here for an escape from reality so if they don't want to think about their personal life during out time together we don't. It is just that simple for me!

I woke up this AM thinking I would delete this post. But here has been some great takes on this issue.

thinking about this way too much IMO. Why not just enjoy it for what 'it' is and nothing more. You are obviously here seeking something and if that something is working, then just go with it. Now if it's not, then I would question it and maybe there's a different underlying meaning there you should dive into.  

have the best of 'both' worlds at the same time.  

Sad but probably true.  I once posted that if I ever have the opportunity to enter into long-term relationship, I would want it to be with a lady from the hobby.   Many reasons:  not hung-up about sex; probably understand how important the physical aspect is to a guy; the ability to be honest and say "this is who I am, this is what I have done," and not be judged for it.   Of course, everybody thought that where I was going with that was having a relationship in which I was permitted to play but that is not necessarily where I was going.

a client contacts me and in his FIRST email, or as soon as we meet eachother, he has a disclaimer:  I see escorts because there's not enough action at home.  I choose to see women this way rather than having an affair and going though divorce which would disrupt the wellbeing of my children."

I suppose it's pretty harmless as far a lies go, but if you don't consider it a lie, I can only wonder just how "untrue" a statement needs to be before you consider it a lie?

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Bash the clients. Well done.

in her mouth.  Attitude has a lot to do with performance and I for one, value performance over appearance, at least by a little bit.  I much prefer to spend my hard earned $$$ on ladies who might have an 8 in appearance but a 9 or 10 (if that is possible) in performance.  As long as Jr. gets a rise, the rest can happen naturally.

Interesting. So, your wife joins you sometimes.  I will have to start another topic

Who?  

How so lol?

that means alot coming from you.  

The general rule of thumb is that only 10% of guys write a review.

Posted By: _Taylor_

that means alot coming from you.  
   
 Don't think about me as your fucking #116  
   
 T xoxoxoxoxox

but no, not even close. Nice try crankypants. A bit grumpy I see these days and quite the lurker...don't worry tax season is almost over. You could always pay a nice lady and get laid to bring a pretty smile back to that face

You should ask USG that question...I don't know if he reviews everyone he sees.

Posted By: _Taylor_

but no, not even close. Nice try crankypants. A bit grumpy I see these days and quite the lurker...don't worry tax season is almost over. You could always pay a nice lady and get laid to bring a pretty smile back to that face  
   
 T. xoxoxoxoxox (to you too)  
   
 (forgot to add...does that mean he's fucked close to 1300 women then (according to your percentages lol)???  
 ya know gents don't write reviews for all the ladies they see either

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Tricks bash hookers so why not the other way round? She knows what she is doing and as for me,  I can bash away because this tag has nothing to do with my work name. Maybe it's her way of getting rid of the ca ca underfoot.  

and everyone else here, but only 'I' know the true # lol. And I'm good with that.  

'he' like many others have NO IDEA of the Johns 'I' see

you're here under an alias, she's not.  So you're right that nothing you say is able to hurt your business. Minnie, OTOH..........Look, there are a lot of guys who don't use this site or read the board, and I get that.  But as for those who do, she's got a pretty odd way of drumming up business.

I don't 'drum' up business here. Get it????????????? Yet?????????????

when you claimed way back when that you don't see anyone from the boards.  For example, you have reviews from MasterZen, LovetoDaty, Spartan and FatElvis, all of whom post on the boards. And I've also been told by several guys how you exchanged PMs with them, quite anxious to see them.  And they had no reason to lie to me about it.
Anyway, I have no desire to argue with you about it.  You'll just make a fool of yourself as usual and I'll get bored.  I was talking to h+t, not you.  She may be a MHB but at least she's smart.
PS: I didn't say you drum up business here.  Quite the opposite.  Your reading skills are poor.

She calls the Philly guy names for continuing to see the local ladies. funny thing is I love Philly and even though I only go now 1-2xs a year, I manage to meet some really cool guys there.

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I actually haven't been 'here' for about a year now. If you honestly think I was going to let you (and others) enjoy bashing my business again like you enjoyed a little too much last year....you're fucking crazy.

Go the fuck away. I'm not kidding. STOP CHECKING UP ON ME ALREADY. GOD DAMN. STOOPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP.  
 

It means I did not click on the post above and have no interest in what you're trying to say.  Got it?

Complete with all-caps yelling, reverting to your "stay the fuck away from me" line after stalking me and accusing me of "checking up" on you, after catching you in a bald-faced lie.  Are you aware you have reviews here and all I had to do was click on them?  Checking up?  Hardly.
You are out of your damn mind, Minnie.  Get a grip.

I am actually some place where people act like human beings to one another. As in nice, cordial, pump each other UP not down continually to make themselves feel better out of their own insecurities. It is a place where there are no reviews, no grading of women like we are prime beef, no backchannelling of lies and bullshit from one guy (and girl) to another.

Feel free to talk to me not him. No worries on being #116. Rarely do I see ladies over 55. To each his own I guess.

If you'd check you'd find that's harly the case, though you wish. But you are an easy target.

It sure didn't take much for this Tardlor meltdown did it? Pitiful.

Well, the idea occurred to me when my own waffle iron went on the fritz and I discovered the insulated wire had gotten frayed somehow so I fiddled and tinkered around, cut and stripped the wires and reconnected it to the plug. I thought, there aren't any shops I knew of that repaired waffle irons and maybe if I opened one I could get whatever business there might be. Of course, there wouldn't be much business, and most times I would just suggest they buy a new one. Say for $80 plus $150 for shipping and handling. Handling would include going out and finding an $80 waffle iron. So...in a sense I became a waffle iron repairman for a brief time. What is a waffle iron repairman other than a guy repairing a waffle iron?

"I'm too ugly to get many women to date me and to boring to keep the rare few who do interested for very long." Just wondering.

My wife and I enjoy an open relationship with some rules. She is bi and enjoys pussy as well as dick. Between me and her job she gets lots of dick, but not so much pussy. So she joins me from time to time and on occasion sees a provider on her own.

They are always in a rush on breaks from work ect.

that they "understand " this a bit more  and can be less dramatic when scheduling, I totally agree with that statement.
 Less drama, more money, quicker at the sessions, No otc, no tryin to stay over for a grand, for an entire 24 hours, aagh, the single ones have too much time to kill for me!
 i waNNA ACTUALLY MAKE SOME MONEY THEN GO SPEND IT .  
SANS A CLIENT AS MY COMPANY,                  NO OFFENSE.

Some hookers just feel like telling it how it is for them and letting the chips or should I say tricks fall where they may.

Easy to find where anyone advertises.  There are so many tools to find anyone.

Get used to it.

are you reading and posting on TER?

And denying you know Rod Tidwell after he white knighted for you is just plain mean! I'm sure he's softly sobbing in his pillow after reading what you wrote.

They are to busy LOLing AT you!

Sigh....

Sorry, I am not one to walk in with a woody wanting release. I need time to chat to unwind... By the same token, I AM time conscious and NEVER want to overstay my welcome and have no issue chatting on my time/dime. Then again, that part of my brain that wants to know the time, so I don't intrude, also interferes with me being able to "enjoy" the session. So it is a two way street.

Your experience rings true for a lot of people. Somewhere between work, kids, laundry, dinner, clening up and life in general we seem to give up on a basic act that in the end meets not only a physical need but a mental one as well. I for one love sex and having with new parnters is a real turn on for me. To feel basic lust (so to speak) is very exciting for me! Whether we get it from out parnters (if you have one) or from someone else it is a need that most people need to have met.