See if the providers who listed you still have profiles.

Otherwise write to TER administration, or write to the gals themselves if you have their emails.

my whitelist looks like it was deleted... i had atleast 4 referrals on there and now there's just one.  anyone else have this problem?

when she gets mad at you or you do "something" to piss her off, she pulls her whitelist of you.
Like that's a real blow, "oh no, "wendy wetpants" took away my whitelist, what am I going to do"?

Whitelisting doesn't really mean anything. They give them and take them away as they feel like.

Some providers will also remove their whitelist referral if you have not repeated with them within a certain time frame, e.g. 1 yr.   However, that time frame can vary from provider to provider.