......provider tells me she was hoping to finish me off with just a BBBJ because she's had a busy day and is a bit sore. How would you all react? Note this was from a highly reviewed agency girl.
.........been offered IMHO.
is put it in a review where it belongs, with the appropriate point deduction.
Then the next time she is tired or sore she will know to stop working.
Got me out of many a jams.
I should be paying him, but I'm not too keen on the snowball deal. 
..... pretty much. That's like being sluggish or sleepy in a session and can't put in your full effort. If you are not up to it don't take the appointment.
As well. It down right pisses me off cause it was a 40minute drive just to hear I am kinda tired and it hurts.this was a girl I was seeing for some time.thankfully I didn't pay up front so just got a hj/bj with facial finish (which she said she rarely does...*rolls eyes*. She tried to get her full rate, but fuck that.ladies if you are to sore/tired to work just pick up the phone and cancel and stop thinking about the money you are losing out on.that action will probably garner a response of ok, get some rest and thank you for saving me a drive, instead of showing up and there being animosity between the two of you.
If she told me up front in the begin, I'd request a rain-check. If she told me once our clothes were off, I'm not sure, but I wouldn't demand that she do something she was uncomfortable in doing. If she told me once she started to work on the BBBJ, and she figuratively "had me by the ball," then she would have me literally by the balls, until she was done with the deed. Then, I would write a review reflecting my experience.
I cannot ever imagine saying that to a client. No way! I see one or two guys each day that I work and that's it. I understand that agency girls might see more gents in a day than an Indy. They need to find a good lube that is water based and easy to clean off. If you stayed lubed, you should not get sore. Take care of your VaJayJays ladies! LOL Keep'em moist, and keep'em clean!
You'll never know the truth with an agency gal... if it was the agency overbooking her, or if she asked for lots of appointments.
Do not threaten a bad review if they don't make it right. Either write the review or not. I suggest writing it, and give all the appropriate details and rate accordingly.
If the agency makes it right, then be sure to say that too.
saw a Porn Star two years ago, she is on multiple ads, really good reviews, payed good amount. Starts the BBBJ, and after a minute says 'oops, didn't bring the cover' so really goes aggressive on the BJ, I mentioned it's ok to go get it, but she keeps the BJ going and it becomes clear she's wants to finish me her way, she basically ignored me - was clear she had nothing but providing a BJ in mind. A lesson learned.
the PSE's have been the both best and worst sessions for me, and I'm really surprised by the some of the PS reviews of a some ladies (granted some with great looks) on performance, when some are just downright not providing a PSE, let alone FS.
LOL...kind of ruins the fantasy, doesn't it? You were most likely # 3-10+ for her that day. How'd DFK and DATY taste? For them, it's a business and you are only the most recent customer.
I think bookings should be limited in order to serve the client better but too many of the ladies run their business like it is McDonalds in order to profit from the volume.
I once spent an afternoon with a provider who then went on two more calls that evening. One of them reviewed her (the third call) and glowed about how "special" their time was together and how "exclusive" he felt from her attention. LOL. I wonder how he'd feel if he really knew.
Only early day time appointments for me unless I know the lady. It's a business. It's about money...period.
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I think bookings should be limited in order to serve the client better but too many of the ladies run their business like it is McDonalds in order to profit from the volume.
I once spent an afternoon with a provider who then went on two more calls that evening. One of them reviewed her and glowed about how "special" their time was together and how "exclusive" he felt from her attention. LOL. I wonder how he'd feel if he really knew.
Only early day time appointments for me unless I know the lady. It's a business. It's about money...period.
...how "exclusive" he felt from her attention. Well, that's the point isn't it. Sounds like in this case she did a good job. I'm sure he knew (as we all do) that she had probably seen someone other than him that day.
Now to the point, I agree with a previous poster that what she did is unacceptable because she should have done whatever it took to not get in that situation.
Using a lot of lube as the above lady suggested sounds good. Someone should clue her in to the idea.
Not a good practice and the lady should cancel the appointment i she has been too 'busy.' I would hope that she or her agency would be willing to accommodate some extra time on a future appointment.
I guess you're getting enough pleasure out of wandering the boards using various aliases, trying to involve people in your foolishiness, fantasies and non-issues. Even babies get tired of annoying people. Solve your own problems -- you have gotten tons of advice from knowledgeable people and still you are playing games. Even jerking off is better than what you're doing.
Now go back and take your meds please!
...The OP paid for FS, wanted FS and didn't get FS. I don't know what was in the provider's mind when she only informed him there'd be no FS until after the envelope was put down and things had progressed pretty far. But even if it was completely un-intentional, it boils down to a situation that's a virtual Bait-and-Switch. This just shouldn't happen. Ever.
Was there nothing else you could possibly think of that might have been pleasurable to you other than (I’m assuming) vaginal penetration?
Yeah…I understand some guys are highly focused on specific acts….err…’menu items’. And, they have a have plan going in, with expectations as to how things are supposed to go, and if things don’t go exactly that way then all is lost…….travesty.
I also understand you may be looking at this gals pussy as the ‘commodity’ you’re paying for. But, this woman is not a machine. And, it’s easy to say she should just not work if she’s had a rough day, and is feeling tender and sore.
But life in any profession is rarely that simple. Sometimes you don’t get to stop working just because you’re tired. Maybe the guy before you pounded the crap out of her. I suppose she could have canceled on you last minute. And then you could have an entirely different complaint.
Gawd forbid, I’m not suggesting you should ‘settle’ for not ‘getting your money’s worth’. OTOH, providers are actual live human beings, and sometimes shit happens, and sometimes with just a little bit of creativity, there is a way of turning a sows ear into a silk purse that you might .like just as much.
If not, you can always call the agency and register your complaint, vow to never see her again, and write a scathing review.
This is a service industry, right? If she's not up to the service, call the hobbyist and postpone, explain you are tired; recommend another girl; tell him up front that she is tired and only up to BBBJ.
This has happened to me as well in the recent past, and I did not express my EXTREME disappointment by verbally berating the Provider or asking for a refund. My tact was that I told her if she was tired then we should end it early (2 hr session) and next time she should let me know ahead so that we can reschedule (politely). She was a regular and had given some great sessions in the past, so i was disappointed because I liked seeing her. But, I haven't been back and have officially crossed her off the dance card.
Yes, you do work long hours in any job, and I have worked 18 hour days, but when your performance is affected by your lack of sleep or exhaustion, you go home and rest. You realize you're not at 100%, and that your work product will suffer. This will cost you business (and clients).
What a white knight, pussy response.
The OP came in expecting sex, he didn't get it. I'd be pissed. I wouldn't try to insist on having sex with someone who clearly was an unwilling participant. They have a word for that, it's called rape.
I would have accepted the BBBJ and after the session, I would have demanded satisfaction from the agency. No way would I just take this lying down, well I might take the BBBJ lying down, but not the ripoff. lol and IMO this is a ripoff
You accept the BBBJ, and then cry foul? How about being pissed, walk out and then complain to the Agency. I don't see you have a case if you stay and take the counter offer of a BBBJ versus FS.
I would have more respect for your position if you just stated you would walk the fuck out.
I would be very disappointed... I would politely tell her so. I have had disappointments in sessions with Favorites. How soon (if ever) I rebook, reflects on my experience. The lady should know this. If you were really that disappointed, then vote with your feet.
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"This has happened to me as well in the recent past, and I did not express my EXTREME disappointment by verbally berating the Provider or asking for a refund. My tact was that I told her if she was tired then we should end it early (2 hr session) and next time she should let me know ahead so that we can reschedule (politely). She was a regular and had given some great sessions in the past, so i was disappointed because I liked seeing her. But, I haven't been back and have officially crossed her off the dance card."
So are taxi drivers. If a taxi driver is to tired to do his/her job yet showed up anyway would you defend him/her? It is his/her job to be rested enough to do his/her job. I wouldn't get in with a driver not able to do his/her job properly. Singers cancel performances all the time do to voice issues, why should this be different? I rather get a refund for a performance then be ripped off buy having a performance that is sub par. Would you be satisfied if you paid $300 dollars for front row seats to your favorite singer and he/she just lip sank because his voice hurt? I doubt it.
I have been canceled on at the last minute and while it sucked it would still be better than being ripped off. I would be understanding and book the appointment for a latter date or settle for the BBBJ if the situation was explained to me in advance but to get me going then to inform me thats a no no. I would likely demand my money back and walk out. I also would never be back and would write a scathing review. The agency would also get a ear full. A ripe off is never acceptable.
Providers get paid top dollar for there services and need to be at there best to demand the money they make. I expect taxi drivers who make much less an hour and are human be ready to do there job or stay home why should I less out of a lady in this profession? Please explain.
Nothing in my book, and hopefully, you just let her do that, and enjoyed. Yes, if you review her, you should probably deduct a point from performance over this, and mention why explicitly. At least she was honest with you, and it seems that she would have let you f*ck her despite being sore.
...then GREAT. She should have told me upfront that she was sore and not ready for FS. I would have made a U turn out the door.
agencies in the lower rate range make money on volume so they book as many as they can and sometimes the girls have no choice but take the session anyway...you should contact the agency.
"all money exchanged is strictly for time spent together, anything that happens is between 2 consenting adults...blah blah blah"
Chalk it up to experience and scratch both the lady and agency off the 2011 task list.
Lot's of other great ladies out there and more new ones everyday.
Did you receive FS? I don't see anywhere that you said she didn't go ahead and finish with intercourse as you desired. You say she stated she was tired and sore and had hoped to finish with BBBJ. Some other posters have assumed from your question that she did not have intercourse with you. I ask for two reasons, 1) I don't like to assume & 2) I was searching reviews considering whether I wanted to see some ladies that have been recommended to me and I found a recent one that has wording very much like your OP (when asked for the cover she stated she was tired and sore and hoped to finish him with BBBJ) in which the reviewer states she reluctantly put on the cover and had intercourse in the CG position. The reviewer finished, cleaned up and left early.
I'm not saying if she did that makes the situation any better. Not sure it matters in the long run if she finished with intercourse, but I believe it's important to know whether she did or not.
This post doesn't mean I'm changing what I said in my earlier response.
So...did she go ahead and give you FS?