For those who like to stay overnight, how do you handle this question?

Here's some options and my comments on each:

1.  The gal always is allowed to decide.  (Being raised as a gentleman, this is my modus operandi.)

2.  Home field decides.  If it is her hotel room or apartment, she gets to pick.  Same if it is the guy's hotel or home.  (This has a certain logical quality to it - not that logic should be the end-all and be-all ever.

3.  The client gets to decide.  He is paying and is, after-all, the customer who is always right.  (This certainly will appeal to our free market side.)

4.  Rock-paper-scissors:  (Can't beat this one for fairness.)

5.  Twin beds.  (That's no fun.)

6.  Decision goes to the winner of a nude mud wrestling competition.  (Sounds like great fun, but would be a bit messy and besides, who is going to be the ref?)

Any others?  

I always sleep in the middle of the bed. That leaves both the sides (left and right) pretty much open.

If she can't fit in the area left over (i.e. if she is oversized, I can just sleep on top of her..)

Even for an hour date, although in that case you are pretty much sharing the same space on the bed for your time together.  Still, I am accumtomed to holding a women froma particular side when we are snuggling and I always try and arrange things that way even in those short dates.  Comfort zone thing.

But being that hung up on "my side" probably just makes me old and set in my ways bud.  Really though - I don't even know if I would be able to sleep on the "wrong" side after all these years.

Was just taking a small break. But was still lurking...

I usually go with #1 unless the bed is against a wall on one side, then I ask for the outer side since I don't like being against the wall.

And mud wrestling?? sheeesh, then I need 2 girls (to wrestle each other of course) and after that I get to be in the middle of the bed..... I always believe in treating both the winner and loser to the post match "protein shake".............

Whatever she decides is just fine with me.

Every lover worth his salt knows the answer to this one.  If a man is right handed, he should sleep on the left side of the bed.  Thus his dominant hand is on top and available to caress and stimulate his partner.  If he is left handed, he should sleep on the right side of the bed.

If we are talking about an overnight, it's wherever you pass out from all the sex and booze. Hell if it was good enough I'll sleep on a table while icing down my giggle berries.

MM

But if I really want to get good sleep. Give me the twin bed! LMAO
When I lived with a girl we would spoon all night. Cuddle and snuggle.
We slept like shit! Eventually we slept back to back.
Or butt to butt rather.
Ever have a girl rest her head on your arm for 6-8 hours?
Yea, it's cute and all but no thanks.
My arm would be numb for the whole morning!

...whichever one of us can shoot the farthest decides!  lol

The question is moot. It's "survival of the biggest". I sleep where I want to sleep, anyone else in the bed can make do with what's left. Lesson learned from the Dice Man himself:

"How come I always have to sleep in the wet spot?"

"Hey, Honey, you could sleep on the floor if you want to. Look at the dog over there, he ain't complainin' "