What advice is out there for the first timer?
What should be done to prepare in the way of cleanliness?
What are the method one might expect to be used? Fingers? Gloved hands? Dildo of sorts?
Are there services available where the massage is done at the same time as a HJ or BJ?

Experience from both sides is appreciated.

That's just plain common sense.

The gal should have short fingernails, and for her sake should have a condom on her finger or use surgical gloves.

And yes, to have it done while getting a HJ or BJ is that much more pleasing.

I'm fine with fingers.  I don't think I'd like the dildo thing, but I'm sure that there are some who do.

Anything after this will be a piece of cake  LOL

Hey bpm....I dare you to try this?  Gay...I think NOT  

Most men use an enema the day of, and don't eat for at least 6 hours prior. If I know I am having anal, I don't eat at all the day of. After he leaves, I pig out and fart bwahahhaaha. JK.

So yea..she might want to have a glove or two on  LOL

But if shit happens...it becomes scat.  And some love that type of play!

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Just try and avoid the end with the pine tar still on it.

Just an FYI on that  

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But with your attitude...Oh my  

Here's a quote:

We live in a world where one must often sacrifice health for pleasure and vice-versa; for instance, if we want one six pack, we must forgo the other – that sort of thing.

In the rare instances where ultimate health and ultimate pleasure can be combined, you know we’re going to be all for it – even when they come together in seemingly unlikely ways. In this case, the rare instance would be prostate stimulation through prostate massage – which, while being the key to some mind-blowing experiences, is also part of maintaining a man’s peak sensual health. When it comes to peak sensual health, men may be hesitant as far as their prostates are concerned, but the benefits speak for themselves.

Here are five questions about prostate massaging that any man might have on his mind:
 
What exactly is my prostate?
The prostate is a walnut-sized, semen-storing gland located at the root of the penis, just below the bladder. When the prostate is massaged, stagnant semen is released and voila…your prostate is cleansed. When ignored, as is often the case, semen becomes stagnant in the prostate, creating a buildup of bacteria which can cause swelling.
 
So how will this benefit me?
Regularly prostate massage reduces the risk of prostatitis, prostate cancer, genital pain, symptoms of erectile dysfunction and frequent nighttime urination. In addition, it improves overall erectile function and increases seminal fluid and circulation. While the health benefits of regular prostate massage are long-lasting, you might be surprised at all the other positives in store.

But won’t it hurt?
When done properly, it’s the exact opposite. Many men experience intense, long-lasting, even multiple orgasms and intense ejaculation when their prostate is massaged. While many men focus solely on external pleasure points, male biology’s best kept sexual secret often gets left in the dark (or more colloquially referred to as a place ‘where the sun don’t shine’).
 
Wait…I will actually enjoy massaging my prostate?
Assuming you like mind-blowing sex: yes. It’s time for men to stop envying women for their ability to experience intense, long-lasting orgasms. The prostate (sometimes called the P-Spot) is the male version of the female G-spot, and when stimulated enables even more intense orgasms otherwise unattainable by the more standard penile friction.
 
Okay, you’ve got my attention. So how do I do it?
You can use a finger to massage your prostate, but first you need to find the prostate and manually stimulate it by repetitively moving your finger back and forth. This can be a little tricky, so to take the job off of your hands (literally), we offer Billy, a gentleman’s prostate massager perfectly suited to the male form

But then again...this is my Doctor

NOTHING GOES UP THERE BRO! You can thank me later. Now go plow a hot broad while you're watching a good war flick and smoking a stogie. Be a real man.

In Chi town there is a great adult toy store "The Pleasure Chest" that has these workshops... very informative.

As for 1st time prep.
buy an anal duoche, and do the 3 S's () shit, shower, shave, then use the douche the morning of til you run clean. or about 4 hours before. in addition to a little soap on your finger to finish.. rinse...
don't eat anything.
gloves to be safe.

Then Enjoy!!

massage with BBBJ (cim, nqns,) and HJ will be outstanding.
just the beginning.

a good prostrate massage.      
Dude, all that old Jism building up in your prostrate is bound to cause some medical condition that could be avoided,  and instead your electing to have surgery to fix    have your balls cut and all that....  
all the while there were cheaper, more pleasurable options.   LMAO!!!

Ladies chime in here so he won't have to do exhaustive research.

You can have your stogie and watch full metal jacket and cuddle, afterwards..
 

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tight-ass lmfao...

I cum like a freakin' hose  

Its the sexiest thing out there....Right after DFK...

Whats wrong with you BPM

just happens to land in your mouth, jizz boy!

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a prostate massager toy, it vibrates.... its ok I guess... but honestly I like doing it with my fingers, I can feel the right  spot better, and I like feeling the clenching when they cum...  

It is hot...  

Also there is a technique to doing it right... you dont just stick your finger in and do nothing or fuck the guy with it... you truly need to focus on the prostate...  

If you dont know what your doing, you can hurt a guy..

I have been told it can be awesome, but the girl only teased me that she was going to do it. I don't normally eat much anyway so not eating would not be a problem, and if I knew I was going to cum like a garden hose you can bet I would do a thorough cleaning.  

MM