If a client couldn't perform because of an erection problem would that be a reason to Black List him?

No. In my opinion that would be the same thing
as making fun of someone with a health or handicap
situation.

If a person were a gentleman, and was not disresptable to the woman, then there is absolutely no reason to be black-listed.   In fact some women would want to see that person again.

OTOH, if the person became angry, abusive, or in general not a nice person to be around because of his inability to perform, then it could merit inclusion on a black list.  

There have been times when my Mr. happy is not totally up to the task at hand, and other measures are taken to satisfy me.   But I never blame any of that on the woman.

What is the background to this story?

Not unless you try to demand your money back or cause some other sort of trouble over it.

Seriously, if it is merely an ED issue, I would not see a reason why you would get blacklisted, as long as the provider is not blamed for your problem.

continue trying with no regard to the time or maybe if it was say a 2hr date and she has been trying since the first 15min NON stop! Yikes! LOL
I wouldn't call it BlackListed but she might mention it to other girls.
Just a thought



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Some Men & Women may not be aware that with ED and problems of such, part of problem is mental and informing a provider, will save you the trouble whether she is experience with this delicate nature.  I have found men responding to Roleplay when they have this problem. you become their doctor so to speak, but if your good at this, it could end in climaxtic results.

I've been called Dr. FeFe myself, hope this helps.

After frustrating a couple of ladies, I found that simply telling them right from the start that completion for me may or may not happen the second time around is a big help. I let them know that even though I may not reach a second destination, I still enjoy the second journey. Not only does it help take the pressure off of the lady, but has helped with me not feeling inadequate, and sometimes that second destination actually does happen.

a lady did Black List a guy cause he couldn't get it up when he was with her that she should be Black Listed instead.  How about some background on where this question came from. I had a customer 30 or so years ago that was in his 80's that used to joke about being on the Warm Up Team and we could take over when she was ready.

Viagra can help but if my head is not there it is difficult.  When I am comfortable and turned on I never need it.  It is not the woman's fault.  It is in my head.  Recently I have started informing providers about the effects of my SSRI inhibitors and how they delay ejaculation.  I still enjoy sex and orgasms just as much but I don’t lose it with a hot woman in mere seconds.  I started telling them so they don’t think it them not turning me on.  Quite the contrary, I am able to enjoy them longer and time my own orgasm.