has anybody ever married a provider

I have read of such cases in this board.  As for me, I know that if I was not married already, I would marry some of my providers in less than a blink of an eye.
I think that every woman should be a provider for at least a year of their lives.  The experience has to be incredible.

Not a chance I would consider it.  Most providers, as proven by many studies have been emotionally scarred by tramatic events in their lives.  80% have been sexually abused in their childhood.

In addition, women are not built to be providers, their sex drive is not the same as ours.  Their are a lot of stresses that come along with being providers... not knowing if the next guy that comes thru the door is LE or if he is a physcho.  All that daily stress in a person's life, IMHO, would make that person not an ideal candidate to be a wife.  Also, would you freely admit that your wife was a former provider???  And do you know many employers are now requiring background checks on both the applicant and his wife??

To each his own and maybe I'm being a bit shallow when I say this, but personally I don't want a gal that has been with every tom, joe and harry because he has a few dollars in his pocket...

the guys are kind, polite, respectful, and bring me to orgasm! LOL

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Sorry, couldn't pass that one up.

No sexual abuse here..I just love lightening the wallets of guys who are driven by that pesky little hormone...testosterone. Gotta love biology.

And because we can "function" with no attraction /desire what-so-ever, sex drive has very little to do with it.

Well, lot's of them are married, so SOMEBODY must have.

what does eom means anyways???? eom

where does that kind of thinking come from

I don't make this stuff up hon...
http://findarticles.com/p/articles/mi_m2372/is_4_35/ai_53390350?lstpn=article_results&lstpc=search&lstpr=external&lstprs=other&lstwid=1&lstwn=search_results&lstwp=body_middle

I have a friend who recently retired and married a client. And I know MANY others who have done the same. At least the provider doesn't have to cover up her past to her husband : )

If you look at who they surveyed, almost 200 of the 237 participants that participated where street workers.  That likely skews the data, don't you think?