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Asking provider questions and trying to be discrete at the same time
StevenTylenol 74 Reviews 1130 reads
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This one has been driving me nuts for years. Since I'm a total GFE..sometimes PSE pervert, doing sessions for an hour or hour and half, I need two things to get me going, without the help of a pill, DATY and DFK. Basically, I need her to be the girlfriend for the entire time. Not too much to ask when paying the big bucks upwards of 800 to 1200. The problem I keep having is some girls even though GFE, when they show up, they aren't into the DFK part of the package. And it's deff not my looks or body that would turn anyone off. All the girls love my looks...All I know is many girls who balk at the DFK, find  to be too intimate, even more than the DATY. That makes no sense to me..Most of the time, with some exceptions, when they say no go,, right then and there, it squashes  the deal for me and my Tommy Lee Junior is done for the entire session, or he works partially and can get through the BBBJ and thats about it. Not fun when you've spent lots of $$$... I know it's all psychological with me and being the sensitive schmuck that I am, thats just what I need. So how does one approach this subject matter maybe delicatley with any girls, or you just don't and take that risk? I try to stick to the booking agent I use in a few cities areas, LA ad NYC but then when i travel a lot to parts not represented by here, in this case Vegas next month, for 4 weeks. I'm on my own and the work involved these past few weeks  in finding  the right matches is taking too much of my time. Other than the porn star girls...

Stick with reviewed ladies and read the reviews. You can usually get an idea of not just if they kiss, but how into it they are, by reading reviews.

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and filter for "kisses with tongue" and BBBJ, and it will eliminate the girls that don't do both.  If you book a girl that has DFK and BBBJ in her profile, when you book, ask her if the services listed in their TER profile are current or out of date, just to be safe.  This gives you confirmation of her menu without having to ask about specific services which tends to make providers uncomfortable when you are a new customer.  

 
If you confirm the profile info is correct, and she still doesn't allow DFK, you may have an oral hygiene problem.  DFK is YMMV depending on whether your mouth and breath are clean.  

You won't know how passionate or sensual the young lady might be till you meet her. The agencies will tell you, "Sure she's GFE". Or her TER profile will read as if she's perfect for what you're looking for...but in the end, its the roll of the dice.  
I know of a young lady, who on her TER profile reads that she's the perfect GFE date, Her early reviews reflect that. But a strange thing happened. As she got more reviews, her price dropped, and her kisses became LFK with a hint that kissing wasn't her thing. So someone, such as yourself would or might book her, only to find out she wasn't all that.
Assistance and or bookers will tell you what they want to hear. I prefer talking directly to the person, if I can sense that I'm actually talking to that person. I'll throw out code words or sayings to let them know that I'm a passionate/sensual rascal and if that will be a problem...then say so now.
I see alot of non-reviews ladies and I go into a "feel them" out conversation. You just have to have that sixth sense. I guess I've been around this for so long that I can pretty well sort out the fakes from the "holy shit it was great" girl.
Bottom line, dissect the reviews, don't assume because her profile reads that she can be your one night girlfriend. Its a process. and of course....YMMV

StevenTylenol,  
  Come see me in Atlantic City, NJ. My prices are fairly cheap & I'm sure I can accomidate you.  
Email: [email protected].

I cater to LA & LV by request. I always have and always will because that’s how I continue to make new friends. I love kissing & being pleased if you’re orally gifted! lol Smile for me!  

I would gladly whitelist you after we meet. I find it funny you have more reviews, than I do & absolutely not 1 provider has whitelisted you here.

-- Modified on 5/28/2024 12:58:41 AM

Just ask the questions you need answered and if they don't give you a direct response, don't hire them.  To be honest, I have a discussion about my sexual menu no matter how much the provider costs because so many providers have their own definition of what FS is, what GFE is, and have their own boundaries, etc. I have learned early on to do this via text/email and in person before I put the money in their hands. If you read twitter and reddit, providers brag about kicking guys out and keeping their money over "boundary crossing." Things like this happen because clients don't communicate their wants and needs beforehand. A provider should not be telling you, what you can and cannot do to her after you have already paid her. A client is stupid of he does it this way.

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