I have seen women (providers and civvies) who I thought were attractive but not DDG, but over time in getting to know them and their personalities, I found them much more attractive. Did they actually get prettier? Probably not, but my mind is telling my eyes they are. I either start overlooking flaws or even finding the flaws appealing. By the same token, some women have become much less attractive in my eyes after getting to know some bitchy or nasty personalities.

However, I can't say I have ever found someone more attractive because of what they used to look like in the past.

The closest I ever came to that feeling was running into a woman who I'd met in my freshman year of college, who was this gorgeous Sophia Loren type, and who I got to know pretty well, but never dated. I was in an ongoing relationship, and I think she was, too. Don't remember that. Also, I had that feeling you talked about, of her being out of my league, and we were both pretty serious students.

Anyway, I met her probably ten, twelve years later, and we were on a more even par. At that time, in my own circle, I was considered a catch for a brief window of time. She hadn't changed much except she'd put on a little weight. Her waist was maybe two or three inches up, but she was very good looking. Same high cheeked alert expression on her smooth, olive complexioned face.

As the evening wore on, she seemed to look more and more glamorous. I think it was because I kept flashing on what a knockout she used to be. I got a goodnight kiss, but there was no promise in it. We were still just friends.

Saw her briefly a few days later for lunch, and haven't seen her since. Her name was Jeanne R. Never heard anything about where her career went either. Can't say I did a tumble, no more so than I did over a dozen other women who I had a little more to do with.

Did she make you happy?  
Turn you on?
I have been through that too, some couldn't see their penis,  20lbs and could finally see his penis again. I rocked his world!  
I am constantly improving myself. As every lady in this life style should.  
I Am glad  you experienced a great time.  
Kisses
Elle Vegas

Remember the seasoned ladies know what to do

You know most fat girls used to be skinny.

Same logic, none.

 
Why do you need to see what she looked like years before you fucked her, hours after you fucked her.

Just curious what that does for you?

I know a number of gals who are middle age and then some; and having known them for some time I often have been at their homes where I could see photos of them from 10 - 20 years before, and there's no question that their looks back then where a digit or two higher on the 1 to 10 scale.  In fact, one them was a Playboy centerfold model.  They had the centerfold up on the wall and framed.

But, they are all hot cuties, and while it was kind of nice to see what they had looked like, I don't think that affected my attraction to them.

...a lady's looks will "grow" on me as I get to know her better especially if I like her a lot and she has a great personality. Over time I will notice little things about her appearance that make her more beautiful to me.
 When I first meet her I would say she is pretty or attractive while later I would describe her as gorgeous.

I don't advertise my 20's so why do they care who I "used to be"? I've done that on FB with guys I've dated IRL, and they used to say I was teasing them by showing them pictures of a hot 24 year old and get pissed at who they chose today. Lol.  

I look good, but 26 ain't happening again unless he pays for surgery lol. My tits look better now than they ever have. Idk wtf happened but they're awesome. You want the womanly tits & ass? This is the time to get it.

Now, I'm told I look late 20's, but late 20's for me looked like 21.

Any time I've shown a guy old pictures, it's blown up in my face.

Now, next year I may look completely different. I look different every year. Courtney last year was bleach blonde chin length with straight bangs. Over my life I've had every conservative color, length, style, cut, etc. I even change up make up technique. As an artist, that's just how I roll.

Next year, (most likely fall,) long dark hair and other secrets I'm not going to say lol. I'm planning another over haul, without the surgery.

Instead of showing old pictures, being all insecure about who I am now, I'm going to rock my current self so I can rock the men who like me for me. If they're not into me, it's their fault for choosing me, not mine.  

Xo

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You're right. It's very odd!!...

Seriously, there are a few gals who have grown on me as I've seen them over time. But, a woman I saw who also had some modeling/TV, etc. credits from a few years ago... I thought she looked better now than before. DDG then, DDG now.

if it's a cool one , shines through .  

18MDC D4

Yes. I lived in LA for a few years.  Hooked up with a 35 year old advertising as a 27 year old.  I liked her a lot, so saw her several times for repeat sessions.  She was exceptionally good and pretty IMO.  She was more supple than most, and she just loved posing for photos.  Completely uninhibited. One day I was going through my personal porn collection and, voila! I recognized her.  SO, on my next visit, I printed out the link photo and showed it to her.  I commented that she was so photogenic that she would be good as a model.  At that point she reveals that she used to model for hustler and some other mags as well as doing internet porn modeling.  I half jokingly told her that she was so good that she should consider doing porn movies.  She then reveals her 'stage name'.  I looked it up on the web the next day and surprisingly, I find that she has been in many many films!    As you say, OMG she's absolutely gorgeous, like... out of my league type of gorgeous. Perfect body. Gorgeous face. 100% my type.  The only difference in my experience is that I still considered her perfect for my type even at age 35.  Alas, I moved out of LA.