A mix is good, but a good long cock and ball massage can feel damn good.
Tbh lol. I would suggest the latter with me hahah.
The latter is better....with no hands...my preference.
arm is still recovering from acrobatic hand positions, so I don't blame you.
See....got to have skills ,never know
But handies with warm lotion, oul, or even wet soapy water is fun ive heard..
I love bj's but a hj with dirty talk is pretty freaking awesome!😉😉
I know very few providers who are great at both. My ATF is (one reason she's my ATF) and she loves doing both. She has a bit of an S&M streak and loves doing tease & denial. I love tease & denial HJs by an expert.
...... I have been fortunate to have had the pleasure of some amazing proponents of both skills. Two of my favorite hand job experts, don't live in my city, so I cherish the time I spend with them, even more.
One will edge me for a couple of hours, using many techniques.
The other uses a great pumice soap to tenderize me. Kidding. She has a great cream and powerful hands.
Sigh....
This is a great low energy maneuver during rest or recovery time. It isn't vigorous so it doesn't wear your arm out as much so you can do it to him a long time and it feels great.
He's laying on his back. You are laying next to him on your side, facing him. You just have to be able to reach with your top arm down to where your fingers just reach beyond his balls. So that should determine if you have to scoot down a little from face to face if you are shorter.
There are two basic motions, they can be mixed and matched.
1.) The finger and palm stroke slowly up and down the cock shaft. You can curl your fingers a bit around the shaft, or just use your palm from tip of cock down to the balls.
2,) Here you have your wrist and forearm resting on his cock so that your fingertip can cusp the balls. You then pull your are up and down so it rubs the total length of the cock while also rubbing the balls with your fingers.
I've never had massage lotion used doing this, so I don't think it is necessary. But that's a possible variation.
It feels like heaven, yet it doesn't ever quite get you to the O state (well maybe it would when I was younger.)
And would not think about paying nearly as much for HJs!
I love good blowjobs, and intercourse, but I never cum from those.
A mix of 3BJ and HJ has been my go-to combo for the last couple of years for getting me across the finish line. Due to age and meds, it seems the orgasm can be elusive when performing the usual penetrative acts (regardless of tightness or which access point we're using).
The up side is that I'm still able to maintain an erection for 2-3 hours of playtime, so my recent fave and I have gotten to the point where she knows we can play at length (!) and then go for the finish line with a vigorous 3BJ/HJ flourish.
But my all-time fave finish is a 3BJ with CIM...hmmm, excuse me, I need to send a text 
I like the bbbj, handjob duo accompanied by some dirty talk. If the dirty talk is just right it will result in a mind blowing orgasm for me. The trick when I'm in Vegas is to find a mature, busty, brunette who excels at bbbj and cim and know how to talk dirty between the BJ and hand job. If I could find that woman she would be at the top of my list each time I visit, which is about 5 weeks per year.
I prefer the ComboMeal myself..........something powerful and erotic about having a handful and a mouthful of hard cock...I'm pretty much going to get every drop no matter which..............mmmmmmmm
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He means 3 B's, as in BBBJ.
i prefer a wet mouth over a wet hand any day...
Whether you're talking about a covered HJ or a bareback HJ.
..... with her wearing vampire gloves
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Covered HJ? Now that's a real safety gal. Lol.
I've had some great experiences with both so I have no preference.
As for the handies, it's usually when the lady is trying to get me off for the second time and refuses to give up. Those are some of the most amazing full-bodied orgasms I can remember for some reason.
I mean, if I wanted that, I could just jerk my own self off.
It was useful for this one girl I met who was a total buzzgirl. Just had her jerk me off instead after a some weak ass CBJ.
Agree 100%! I shot myself in the dick about a year and a half ago, when I saw on a local board that a young hottie was visiting the provider desert in which I live.
Even though her reviews stated CBJ, I was desperate enough to think that would work for me. Turns out, she made a 250 mile one-way trip to my area and didn't bring any covers (second strike against me -- always have a couple in my pocket now).
So no cover, no BJ (safety girl!) and now we're down to HJ with hotel lotion (no kissing either, being a safety girl). That sorta kinda worked for about 10 minutes of no heat whatsoever and then my Dino Dick (TM pending) just wilted. Third strike and I was outta there!
95% my fault and I learned some more valuable lessons -- GFE, no CBJ and always take a cover and one-use packet of lube. Be prepared!
I've seen a lady who provided me with the best hj that I've ever received. She used to give massages so she had excellent control of her hands. She definitely knew how to work both the cock and balls in unison.
A woman who starts with spirited bbbj, then spits a good amount and strokes while giving me a dirty look can finish me off even if I'm trying to hold out. I'll bet that maneuver has an acronym I'm not aware of.
Depends on the skill set of the provider. I've had providers who have given crappy blow jobs, and some who have given amazing hand jobs. All things being equal, a good blow job beats a good hand job.
