Ok i'm obviously not a prude by any means but why do we HAVE to give every step by step detail about what happens during a 'date' with a provider...i mean i understand that when you are researching a provider that you want to have a rough idea about what to expect but step by step?   I guess it just feels like i'm in a high school locker room telling the guys of my conquest (which back then...most guys were pulling shit out of thier ass's)

I don't feel a need to spell it out, i'm not writting for penthouse for god's sake.  I would just like to convey the basics that we hobbyist need to know...appearance, attitude, skill.  If a girl doesn't do certain things then i'm more than happy to mention that. (as i'm sure they are)
Ok guys before you jump down my throat, i'm not saying that you shouldn't say whatever you want and tell all if that's your thing, hell I enjoy reading a lot of them myself.  I just don't like that i can't get my reviews approved unless i give a step by step preview.

This isn't your sand box. Sorry

You can write a very nice review, be honest, and still be tactful. I think most of the reviews you're talking about are the ones that seem to be the reviewer actually reviewing himself. You know the one who feels the need to tell me how big his cock is, and how long he can pound away at a lady, and of course, how much she loved it.

I have heard this a lot from my lovers. Some of them will not post reviews because they don't want to have to list the alphabet soup. I still think TER has the best system, flaws and all, but there are a few other boards out there that you can write the sweet simple reviews that are very valuable too. I don't know if it is OK to list them here so I won't.