I recently made doubles dates for every night of a visit to Dallas.  Some were excellent, some so-s- and one was a nightmare.

The date that turned into one of the worst encounters I've ever experienced was to last 10 hours, starting at 6pm with a meet and greet, followed by a baseball game and a Karaoke outing and more time back at the hotel.  The seats were prime, row 3 just behind home plate. Gametime was 7:05pm. Both girls are well reviewed here and on Eccie.  My review will be submitted soon.

I let them know the room number at 5:00 when I checked in, and they said that they were just about to leave their home in Dallas, about 20 minutes away.  At 6:00 I got a message saying that they were delayed, and would be there soon.  I wasn't too worried about making the opening pitch, and would have been happy if we could be there by the 3rd or 4th inning.  I didn't hear from them again for at least an hour, again saying they were having car problems, but had a driver coming to get them.  Several more text messages over the next hour or so to the same effect.  They finally showed up at my room just before 10pm, as the final pitch was being thrown.

Now, I realize that I should have made other arrangements by this time, but I hadn't been able to reach them and definitely didn't want them walking in on me and another provider.  Once they arrived, things got much worse.  Both were stoned out of their gourds.  One could barely stand, and the other would not shut up for more than about 15 se3conds.  They eventually had a fight that resulted in one of them storming out leaving a bunch of broken glass behind in the bathroom, where they had their fight.

Needless to say, my review will not be positive.  I tend to give others a lot of leeway, especially in the hobby, and I realize that I was a wuss in this event.  I'm just not sure how I should have handled this.

The providers I saw the next night said I should have just called them after the 1st inning and they would have been right over.

I would appreciate any feedback from you experienced mongers and providers as to a better way to have handled this situation.

So, that is one lesson we all should take from this.

As for how to have handled it on the fly?

Cancelling after they were one hour late would be fully justified.  After two hours it was crazy not to cancell, they were giving you the mushroom treatment (Keeping you in the dark and feeding you bullshit.)

Live and learn.

You should have cancel when it was more than an hour past appointment you did say it was suppose to be 10hr date.Oh well if they showed up if you had another lady there it is not like they would knock the door down.Definitely been thrown out when arrived high no time to wait and then wait some more while there is a catfight in the bathroom.

[a] You have the correct answer in your post. Trust you instincts, Don't second guess yourself. By the way, no one can "walking in on me" if they don't have a room key, now can they?
[b] The moment you realized you had a couple of zonked-out whores in your room. Which maybe should have been before you let 'em in. Professional providers are ladies that are due all consideration and respect by a gentleman.A person's behavior defines who they are. "Well reviewed" or not, those two (based on your story) don't meet the criteria.

By the way, you might have just considered going to the ball game on your own, and making alternative plans while enjoying a cold one.


HalfHour

Your comment is refreshing.

I'm thinking about half the post like this show a similar dichotomy. Frankly, I thought the post was total bullshit - I don't believe it happened.

Often, I wonder why so people post serious responses to things like this. In my case, after seeing the pattern, I decided that I'll just go with the flow and respond to the posts as written. When in Rome...


HalfHour

What you really need is the ability to make situational decision based on situations. You have analysis by paralysis issue, seek help.

Think about it this way; Penis enlargement pills doesn't really work but some still buy hoping it would. You kind of did the same thing.

What is it stupid questions on GD baord, has it become a psyco babble board innstead?

For outcalls, a hobbyist could use a 2 call system similar to what some providers use for incalls.  At 5:00 pm you could have given the ladies your hotel (but not room number), with instructions to call for the room number when the ladies arrived.

Getting played by a couple of providers and asking the "obvious" on the boards afterwards?  Seriously, there is no issue here whatsoever.  At least you commented that you should have cancelled the evening...but you didn't.  And then allowed drunk/stoned gals in your suite with the added benefit of a "catfight" and broken glass.  Too bad a neighbor didn't call for security...that could have been an interesting conversation.

You don't comment on if you paid these ladies.  I certainly hope not

But I suspect you gave them something for the "entertainment" that they provided you with.

As mrfisher pointed out...stick with gals you have seen on these long dates...but I suspect you knew that going in!

between the money you have, and your decision-making ability.  sorry to answer question with question, but come on.  your description of events basically frames your question as "how do i keep drunk idiots from controlling me if i also want to get laid and conspicuously feed my ego in public?"  think about it.

And once it is clear that the schedule is blown (rather than you!) definately cancel.   A date...  let alone a doubles date...  with someone you've never met?  Way too risky for me.  I want a couple of hour dates to know we are compatable...  10 hours with someone you don't like sounds like a sentence, not a pleasure.

Definately after an hr especially you tried to contact them and for duals on the first date is out of your mind stick to the regulars first and mix the others for hr try

Not okay at all! I'm sorry that happened to you. I'm glad the ladies you saw on the other nights were improvements (even the ones who were only so-so); I'd hate to hear that a really bad experience was your only impression of Dallas providers!

I don't have much to add that hasn't already been said. Sadly if you give some people an inch, they take a mile and break glass in your bathroom.

After an hour had passed you should have cancelled. You didn't do this so when they showed up high as a kite you should have thrown them out. And yes you were a total and complete wuss!

-- Modified on 6/29/2011 3:16:50 PM

There is reason and your smart ass can figure out what ir is.

1st hour and you should have never let them in once you realized they were f'd up. If you had text your boss and said you were going to be an hour late and then finally arrived 4 hours later....what would become of your job? Many ladies fail to realize that type of behavior is what gives the rest of us a bad name.