It's 6 p.m.  For the next three hours we're gonna be each other's entire world. We're in a nice sized city filled with cafes, bistros, and boutiques.  We have a four star hotel room with a big comfortable bed and a bathroom with an oversized tub. The weather outside is perfect. How would you like to see the allotted 180 minutes unfold from the knock on the door to conclusion.  

for me.  After literally hundreds of dinner dates with providers, only two involved time ON the clock, and those were when I was a relative Newbie.  Usually, I book two hours and if she's hungry and wants to go eat afterward, I will pay for the dinner, but not her time.  If not, I will go eat with a civvie girl that I don't have to pay.  But in reality, there is no shortage of either willing to do fine dining where I live.  
 

IMHO that time frame is a "tweener" It's not long enough to go out for dinner/drinks or whatever, and it's too long to expect a lady to spend the entire time having sex, and since we are talking "on the clock" time, I don't pay to simply "chit chat" lol

3 hours is perfect for me with a few of the ladies I see. I wouldn't do it with someone new.  

Follows up the sex with some physical therapy or a sponge bath to clean out your "folds"?? That might fill out the 3 hours for you quite nicely...

Why do you think so many marriages fail? Too much of the other person.

I hope you aren't the type to hold a grudge over a few of us "helping" you look stupid.

I think others have commented about three hours not being conducive for playing.  I prefer 60 or 90 minutes for playing, and if meeting for other events such as dinner/movie/show, four or even longer would be preferred.  For the date, I would recommend meeting in the room, play, clean up and head outside for some nourishment and enjoying the great weather.  Time will be an issue as three hours will quickly vanish when enjoying the weather outside so returning back to the room for more fun may not occur or will be an abbreviated session.  Thus, the longer engagement if enjoying the city filled with cafes, bistros, etc.

Let's start with the easy questions:

Out of your three hours, the hour you spend tied up to the bed while she does her laundry should not be On the clock.  

Do you mean being tied up in a decorative way?

......it depends on my mood - much like the music I play at any given moment. There are nights that are perfect for 'lazy' slow burning fucking with a lot of teasing and well paced build up to the climax. Conversely, there are also times when I crave raw carnal off the charts hot sex, dirty and sweaty sex. its probably not so different for guys is it?
With regards pay and payment - the rate that is advertised. It's set at a level that satisfies me. I would hope when someone books time with me it's a rate they are happy paying.
3 hrs is a great option for BCD time - allows for a bit of R&R between each session. Yes, I like stamina - I prefer a marathon over a sprint so I'm not into shorter get togtethers really though I have been in the past...

... all three hours were enjoyed at the provider's incall. We found plenty of fun things to do right there.  In fact, the 3 hours seemed to go like *that*.

Consider her opportunity loss by spending more time with you. If she doesn't book back to back,  spending an extra hour with you should not impact her bottom line. However you must pay all other related expenses and you might consider adding a smaller compensation for her time OTC. Do not allow a perception of any perceived emotions to enter the equation or influence your thinking.

Isn't  that a bit presumptuous on your part?  

I have a couple faves I only get to see once or twice a year. Both located in DC and both do outcall for me.
So yes, I enjoy getting a nice suite and making the effort to create a welcoming and sensual atmosphere for a three hour romp.  Rarely is there any social activity outside the room. And I am always amazed as to how fast the 3 hours slip away when you are with someone truly special.

and to be honest have never once gone out while a girl was on my clock for dinner drinks etc. I have gone after though a couple of times with them OTC and me paying for some ice cream or coffee.

Agreed. She does call that a "Tease and Denial" session. I wondered why she always stresses the denial.

There are too many variables to generalize:  Her services, age, looks, review history, among others.

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picture right out of my mind.  Very nice.  

...it seems we are simpatico my dear curious cat Camille. At least in regards to this. I've found that I'm never satisfied with just an hour. Hence, I've started booking two and sometimes three hours. It allows for us to spread out our enjoyment and exploration of each other over that time to really allow for a more satisfying encounter in my opinion. And yes, sometimes it's slow and smoldering and sometimes it's raw and carnal with periods of R&R in between depending on our mood at the time.

I used to see a girl that was working her way through UCLA.  She had a two-hour rate of $750, and if you wanted to go out to dinner afterward, she would give you another two hours at $75 per hour, which she referred to as "social time."  She only saw one customer a day because she had classes to attend, but was very popular because of this option.  She made the classiest exit from the business I have encountered when she graduated from college.  

Spare me an hour with your girl?  You'll still have two.

I'm sure in your case the feeling is mutual!😬

How can it be presumptuous if her rates are listed on her website?

That's a fun way to spend 3 hours.

You charge roughly $400 hr for a date of an hour or the same hourly rate for a 90 minute date. Your three hour rate is $1,100 which is only a $33.33 discount per hour for your longer date.  

Or my favorite...the "I don't negotiate my rates" canard?

It's even more ridiculous for the overnight stay. Why would I want to pay someone to listen to me snore.

a light lunch date for me.  

Yes, it's all mood dependant I think as to what pace you set. It can change as unpredictably as the weather 😉

So you are capable of reading comprehension.  Good for you!  Because you sure as hell weren't using that skill when you replied to my earlier post.  As others have also stated here, which needs to be repeated for you, is their expectations are already listed on their rates page.  But trying to use the disclaimer on their websites now to try to save face isn't going to help you but kudos for trying.

For the last four years, I've usually done 2 hours on a first date,  then three on subsequent dates (unless her rate is high). With my latest favorite, I've been doing four hours. Her 4 hour rate isn't much more than the three hour and, truthfully, when the four hours are up, I'd still love to stay longer.

I would charge $600 for this 3 hr. Dinner Date. One hour for dinner. Two hours of private time. The advantage of a city is that restaurants are nearby. It's nice to start at the hotel, walk to dinner, windowshop on the way, enjoy yummy food together, walk back to the room, and enjoy the connection that has been created.