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When I was new to P4P, I did some . . . .
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overnights and weekends, but I found out as I learned more about the biz that there are plenty of providers that are willing to go along on a luxury Hawaiian vacation to the Four Seasons or Ritz Carlton for a week without getting paid for their time.  I give them a $500/day spa allowance and unlimited room service for food while I'm playing golf.  They can lay on the beach all day or drink margaritas at the pool bar.  We go out at night to the best restaurants, or I will have the concierge set up a private table on the beach at sunset and they will serve the meal there.  I will also spend one whole day showing them around the island and doing a little shopping near the beginning of our vacation so they have some resort fashions to wear during the week.  I pay for everything except their time.  They get the same treatment I would give a civvie girlfriend I was taking, but with the knowledge that I'm not stuck with her when we get back to California, and vice versa.  

I’ve been a travel companion to a couple long time friends & blessed to be flown first class to Cabo, and Hawaii for a few days it was literally a fun vacation!

Some of them went on longer off the clock because we hit it off. I took one girl to the Metropolitan Museum of Art, after which she insisted on buying me dinner.

MrMisunderstood66 reads

All you can afford makes perfect sense 😂

And actually, all you've proved is you don't know any better than posting on a month-old thread. Then there's the fact you have no idea who the girl was and what I can afford.
I guess that's what it means to be an alias stalker.

MrMisunderstood56 reads

And I bet you reply. But here are the same old stubborn facts. You’re cheap. You’re broke. You have no life as you live on the boards. And every “friend” you ever thought you had has kicked you to the curb.  

My over under on your reply here is 36 hours.

CurlyW-NatsFan75 reads

I book real cheap overnights with my SBs all the time..  Although, I have lot of anxiety of sleeping next to another person, so I have to sleep in another room.  Otherwise, I will be staring at the ceiling all night long..  

 
I still don't understand how people sleep next to each other..

CurlyW-NatsFan59 reads

Nope.. Only kid..  Always had a private bedroom since I was like 3 or 4.. Before that I don't remember.  Never even had sleepovers with friends or anything.

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My prices are usually what they are in my ADS. Unless the client is seeing me for multiple hours.

Steve_Trevor70 reads

with my ATF, I flew her out to meet me when I was out of town for work for a few weeks.  It was a great weekend.

One of my favorite ladies has a three hour dinner and play package.  Whenever I see her I partake!

And once went for a whole week to Bali.

 
Ah, the good old days when I had money to spend like that.

CurlyW-NatsFan52 reads

You must be a sweeheart to be around..   I don't think I can handle that much company.

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RwYvWF5j0a8
Most people live on a lonely island
Lost in the middle of a foggy sea
Most people long for another island
One where they know they would like to be
Bali Ha'i may call you
Any night, any day
In your heart you'll hear it call you
Come away, come away.
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Bali Ha'i will whisper on the wind of the sea
Here am I, your special island
Come to me, come to me
[...]
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If you try, you'll find me
Where the sky meets the sea
Here am I, your special island
Come to me, come to me
Bali Ha'i, Bali Ha'i, Bali Ha'i !!

Posted By: mrfisher
Re: I've done some 2 or 3 night weekenders...
And once went for a whole week to Bali.  
   
Ah, the good old days when I had money to spend like that.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jKnlF2bjPBc
Anybody besides me fall in love with France Nuyen?
Maybe it was just a lot of happy talk.

83 now.  I wish I could say she is still hot, but I can't.  Many hotties of that era did not age particularly well.  Best example was Bardot.  Yikes!!!

Bali H'ai isn't Bali, imp. Bali is real. It's in Indonesia. Bali H'ai only exists in "South Pacific." And the scene in the background is the spectacular Hanalei Bay on Kauai. Oh, and it doesn't look like that any more.

"Dites-moi, pour-quoi?"
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"Knock, knock."
Who's there?
"Sam and Janet."
Sam and Janet who?
"Sam and Janet evening, you may see a stranger,
You may see a stranger across a crowded room,
And somehow you know, you know even then,
That somehow you'll see her again and again.
...
Who can explain it, who can tell you why?
Fools give you reasons, wise men never try."
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Of course I know that Bali H'ai in SP is fictional (as are many of the locales in Michener's Tales of the South Pacific). The background scene of the photo was identified as Bali = "Bali holidays":  
http://img.delicious.com.au/8oPAHC0g/w759-h506-cfill/del/2022/05/bali-holidays-covid-information-you-need-to-know-before-you-go-168690-2.jpg  
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Juanita Hall, who plays the Polynesian "Bloody Mary," is actually African-American-Irish without a smitch of Pacific Islander in her. Not even Filipina. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Juanita_Hall Cultural misappropriation!! Call the cops!
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Although Sam and Janet Evening is probably to best known and most popular song from SP, another important song that many people do not even know is from SP is:  
You've Got to be Carefully Taught
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AAls_gUhlQw
You've got to be taught
To hate and fear,
You've got to be taught
From year to year,
It's got to be drummed
In your dear little ear
You've got to be carefully taught.
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You've got to be taught to be afraid
Of people whose eyes are oddly made,
And people whose skin is a diff'rent shade,
You've got to be carefully taught.
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You've got to be taught before it's too late,
Before you are six or seven or eight,
To hate all the people your relatives hate,
You've got to be carefully taught!

Posted By: inicky46
Re: What are you doing answering 7-month-old posts? Besides...
Bali H'ai isn't Bali, imp. Bali is real. It's in Indonesia. Bali H'ai only exists in "South Pacific." And the scene in the background is the spectacular Hanalei Bay on Kauai. Oh, and it doesn't look like that any more.
And after all of that, I close with:  
There is nothin' like a dame!
Nothin' in this world!

I can guarantee the background is Hanalei Bay on Kauai. There's no other place that looks like it and I've been there a few times.

overnights and weekends, but I found out as I learned more about the biz that there are plenty of providers that are willing to go along on a luxury Hawaiian vacation to the Four Seasons or Ritz Carlton for a week without getting paid for their time.  I give them a $500/day spa allowance and unlimited room service for food while I'm playing golf.  They can lay on the beach all day or drink margaritas at the pool bar.  We go out at night to the best restaurants, or I will have the concierge set up a private table on the beach at sunset and they will serve the meal there.  I will also spend one whole day showing them around the island and doing a little shopping near the beginning of our vacation so they have some resort fashions to wear during the week.  I pay for everything except their time.  They get the same treatment I would give a civvie girlfriend I was taking, but with the knowledge that I'm not stuck with her when we get back to California, and vice versa.  

CurlyW-NatsFan64 reads

That's a really great way to present the proposition. If you were to explore SB world, you will find really good success with it.

They are easy to get together with, but hard to stop seeing without a lot of drama.  Pros don't have the illusions about what the relationship is about like SB's do.  SB's tend to think I'm lonely and like their company.  In reality, it's only about the sex for me. It's an imposition on my time for them to want to spend our meetings doing anything but fucking, so I lose interest pretty fast no matter how beautiful she might be or how good the price is.

I've always tried to avoid attachment like that.  Up front I say I am mostly about the sex.  That is a bad selling point and I lose most of them at that point.  The ones I get are in it for the dough instead of the Pretty Woman fantasy.
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But even then once you see them they want frequent meet ups and advanced cash.  That's why I can never swear off pros -- even with their strict time limits -- the meters always running.
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The one benefit I found with SB's is that many of them are willing to do BDSM.  

at the beach. I've done a few 24 hour and all day or overnight dates.  

That being said, I still prefer dinner or long lunch dates so the even longer dates are few and far between.

But usually when I travel, it's 2 hours. Home base, LA is a total hit and run

worried52 reads

All I need them for is an hour, maybe 90.  Any more than that is too much work, especially they don't speak any English and/or cause any trouble while on vacation.  

Once was two days each in Napa Valley and San Francisco.

The other time was four days in London.

Same lady each time.

London is a great city.  I love just walking round looking at the buildings. Visit again soon there is a lot of fun to be had here!

And happened to be the worst experience with a provider ever...

...Dec 23-Jan 2 2014 private beach Turks w amazing woman i met in Lisbon the summer before...WORTH EVERY EURO/DOLLAR!!!

CurlyW-NatsFan53 reads

Jesus Fuckin' Christ you need a shrink.. Not a hooker... LOL

:)....maybe so.....she/me invited a few of our friends over for a day or two of fun w us over those days....i still see her a few times a year...AND she  is now a SHRINK!!! and married... her partner's name is Anna....really.....

OldCodger77 reads

All of my extended visits have been with my ATF who I met the first time in 2011.  We developed a special bond and have met every time I could get away - first as a snowbird in Palm Springs where she lived, and then for extended visits several times   I flew her to my home town a couple of times  and put her up in a local resort while my wife was away visiting relatives.  The other times have been when I had a conference to attend and we would shack up in an AirBNB arrangement.  I wrote a review about one of those escapades in November of 2014.
She has retired now, but will still meet with me UTR.  In fact, I'm flying to Houston tomorrow for a 3 day conference (which I will attend the conference meetings sparsely) and she will join me there for 5days/4 nights.  We have all the sex that I'm capable of, but then we do a lot of other fun stuff also.  The sex is great, but it is enhanced by our relationship/chemistry.  
I have to go pack my suitcase now!!! :-)

I guess in this case, its “was booked for”.. but nevertheless, a 3 hr appointment turned into a funfilled 3 days. I actually dont think i’ve had one THAT memorable again, to this very day.

5 days…. Obviously not at an hourly rate.  And we had a blast together

...a trip to St.Lucia back in 2012, very fond memories.

I was always afraid that after two hours the fantasy would wear off.

7 days to Costa Rica..  
Wondering around, playing around, visiting the volcanos, beach. It was wonderful

CurlyW-NatsFan66 reads

Dayum biatch !!!! Lot of girls have 90 min..

PussyPuller63 reads

Lol, You never disappoint. Your posts always put the coal back on the shiny diamonds of this world.

g-man99966 reads

When I was a n00b, I would find a lady I really liked and book her for 12 hours. What happened?

After exhausting myself with sex, I'd be lying there watching Jerry Springer for the rest of the afternoon at $500/ hour!  

No more than 3-4 hours from now on!

3 day to a nude / swingers resort in Mexico. What fun that was! I wish I could find someone who is willing to do that again. Fond memories.

ShuxAwe70 reads

With the right companion of course.  I wouldn't do that with just anyone. I had an amazing time and actually have another planned that I can't wait for.

Several three and four hour sessions, and only with providers I've dated extensively. Did a weekend trip and that was a disaster. An expensive lesson.

Couldn’t sleep with the broad. Fucking clingy and couldn’t sleep without a pillow between her legs. Lesson learned at least morning sex was nice.

To which said provider literally talked my ear off for about a good 45 to 50 minutes of that before anything meaningful ever happened.  Never again, IMHO it was/is a waste of time.  

I have booked just about everything from 30 mins to 3 hours.  Still have not found “the one” who I might book longer.  In the end, I really felt anything longer than 1 hour is kind of a waste for me.  I know that sounds bad saying hanging out longer is a waste, I don’t mean that towards the lady…it’s a waste from my end.

Here’s to hoping I do find the elusive ATF!!  I know she is out there somewhere.

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