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Men who hide their information during screening
CallofBooty 1201 reads
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I do realize the need for discretion on both ends but why do quite a sum of hobbyists hide their information during screening? Ladies are inviting strangers into their homes or to the mans house and safety is very important. I just had a potential client create a fake name, say he works for a 3 letter agency, not all names are obviously listed on their employment database and his was not there, masked his true phone number with google voice, and has zero information on him for me to look up during screening. He only had 1 actual reference from a high end lady which turned out okay despite him being so secretive. Any person can behave just to get 1 good reference under their belt to look legit. I find it hard to believe a lady would invite a man into her home with no information on who he is and disregard her own personal safety. It happens much more than it should. If it wasn't for screening, I would've seen a man who was just released from prison for a 24 year sentence last year.

 If the lady has many current and active reviews on being safe to see, why the need to be so secretive with information? Just curious.

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Posted By: CallofBooty
I do realize the need for discretion on both ends but why do quite a sum of hobbyists hide their information during screening? Ladies are inviting strangers into their homes or to the mans house and safety is very important. I just had a potential client create a fake name, say he works for a 3 letter agency, not all names are obviously listed on their employment database and his was not there, masked his true phone number with google voice, and has zero information on him for me to look up during screening. He only had 1 actual reference from a high end lady which turned out okay despite him being so secretive. Any person can behave just to get 1 good reference under their belt to look legit. I find it hard to believe a lady would invite a man into her home with no information on who he is and disregard her own personal safety. It happens much more than it should. If it wasn't for screening, I would've seen a man who was just released from prison for a 24 year sentence last year.  
   
  If the lady has many current and active reviews on being safe to see, why the need to be so secretive with information? Just curious.

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LasVegan374 reads

using an alias on TER.  Which I notice, like me...........YOU are doing.

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SterlingArch391 reads

Many men hide their information during screening because if the provider goes BSC or does not handle the information properly they have a lot to lose.  I have heard many stories of unprofessional ladies blackmailing over the smallest things such as not getting a 9 or 10 review.  This is one of the reasons for third party verification.

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Posted By: SterlingArch
Many men hide their information during screening because if the provider goes BSC or does not handle the information properly they have a lot to lose.  I have heard many stories of unprofessional ladies blackmailing over the smallest things such as not getting a 9 or 10 review.  This is one of the reasons for third party verification.
That's insane to blackmail hobbyists over anything.Hookers shouldn't keep hobbyists info.I destroyed hobbyists details after appointments.No reason to keep it.

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CallofBooty304 reads

That's true and it makes sense. I have heard and seen ladies go as far as twitter as outing clients and their info for whatever reason not involving robbery or violence towards the girl.  

It sucks for the ladies just wanting to verify the client is safe and who he says he is.

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camote16348 reads

She had my number, gave her the references she wanted as per her request plus she could see my reviews here. Not good enough and she asked for the company I worked with. Gave her that and thought I was good to go. Still a no. All other occasions were set up by email or a phone call with no requests for references and I was able to set/get a date. You should be able to get the information you want so you feel comfortable of course.

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camote16174 reads

Possibly but highly doubtful. My thinking is, if she knew me she would have said no right away with my name an number. But then she asked about the company. Not sure why she would say no after that. Who knows. Just a mystery.  

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SoftlySarah170 reads

Maybe she works for the company? You never know. But your best bet is to not take it personally!! :)

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Possibly but highly doubtful. My thinking is, if she knew me she would have said no right away with my name an number. But then she asked about the company. Not sure why she would say no after that. Who knows. Just a mystery.  
   
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FatVern205 reads

Just because terrible things can, and do happen. Does not mean that men should easily give up their PI... Your argument is weak, I get tired of hearing "this could happen" so you should "do this

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AdelleAnderson170 reads

When I think the information I have been given is false or at least vague and doubtful, I have to take a  pass. I can't give my best to someone I am nervous about-  and I always want to deliver my  best service.
Give me your junk and I will be happy to make your other junk happy. Lol.

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