...not a highly doctored writhing-on-the-bed impressionistic done in the style of early rap videos or a watered down soft porn style, but just a clip of the provider walking on the beach or down a city street, or into a hotel room, then I am seldom disappointed if/when I have a session with her.
A lot of what a person "looks" like has to do with how they move, the everyday dynamics of how their body reacts as it encounters the world. That can't really be captured in a photo. More, with a good photographer, a photo can give an image that of a beautiful alluring subject in ways that are entirely different from their actual beauty. And if the photo looks good to the provider, maybe especially if it is an entirely new "look," the provider will naturally consider using it. That can still happen on a video shoot, but to a much lesser extent. And these can usually be done without displaying facial features that would compromise her security or out her. I think most hobbyists will "know" when seeing a video if they are getting a glimpse of what the lady actually looks like (although I admit we never actually "know" anything), and if there are any general clues that can be shared it would be watch the ones where she is basically fully clothed and that are shot in a fairly straight ahead undoctored style.Both ladies and gents are welcome to chime in. I know no provider could "prove" exactly how she looks in the flesh for a multitude of reasons. Someone will always claim the media was doctored and a person in the living, breathing flesh can be much different than a photograph of them.
I will divulge that this question is of a personal interest to me. A group of "gentleman" in my local area have claimed to have seen me and that I am grossly overweight and I am misrepresenting myself (I am a size 2 and they are claiming I am size 12+). I know this is born from the fact that they do not like my donation structure and are trying to potentially manipulate my business by spreading lies.
I have been active for about a year and in that timeframe I have had three sets of professional photos taken. I also have a video that was professionally done. In the video I am in a multitude of positions: standing, sitting, bending over, kneeling so it gives a fair representation of how I look. There is no airbrushing, you can clearly see stretch marks, a dimple or two in my butt, and a small scar that I have. I also have a Twitter and routinely post selfies with no editing other than cropping the photo. Is there anything else I could reasonably do? Have I done enough? I know I will never convince these "gentleman" but I want to make sure potential clients have a fair representation to view prior to deciding whether or not to see me. Thanks!
For some reason, some here, get their rocks off by being a bully.. I never understood that at all..
Stay with it.. They will get tired of their agenda and move on.. Don't let it bother you..
Agreed. You can have a cleaned your 5 star hotel room and have one piece of lint on the ground and someone is quick to write "her room was filthy!" lol
There are some people who are always going to have a problem with something no matter what it is.
A size 2 and they say you are a 12 is a big difference.If you have enough reviews that state what your body type is along with pro,selfies,and a video that is all you can do.Having a twitter acct and updating with new selfies should help if there is a question.Guys reading that will be able to see through bs especially if you have reviews that state you are slim/thin.
Potential clients search for providers not just on whatever site you are talking about but many different sites.
So I don't think the opinions of a group of guys who are mad your rates are too high for them is going to have that much effect on your business.Especially if you have all that you mentioned for viewing and for a guy to make an informed decision.
-- Modified on 1/6/2017 7:13:59 AM
You have done all you can do, The video is about as much "proof" as you can offer. there is no way a revealing video can make a size 12 appear to be a size 2. You've done your part there, the only other thing that you can do is really beyond your control and that is to rack up a bunch of positive reviews that dispel the ugly rumors
Some people have nothing better to do than try to ruin someones reputation. For what reason i don't know but it's sad. Don't let it get to you....sounds like youve done more than enough to give an accurate representation.
a picture of a chick on a scale, where you can see the weight.
That should clear up everything, of course the image could be doctored.
... and if you have a penis, don't hide it.
I will divulge that this question is of a personal interest to me. A group of "gentleman" in my local area have claimed to have seen me and that I am grossly overweight and I am misrepresenting myself (I am a size 2 and they are claiming I am size 12+). I know this is born from the fact that they do not like my donation structure and are trying to potentially manipulate my business by spreading lies.
I have been active for about a year and in that timeframe I have had three sets of professional photos taken. I also have a video that was professionally done. In the video I am in a multitude of positions: standing, sitting, bending over, kneeling so it gives a fair representation of how I look. There is no airbrushing, you can clearly see stretch marks, a dimple or two in my butt, and a small scar that I have. I also have a Twitter and routinely post selfies with no editing other than cropping the photo. Is there anything else I could reasonably do? Have I done enough? I know I will never convince these "gentleman" but I want to make sure potential clients have a fair representation to view prior to deciding whether or not to see me. Thanks!
It's a start....but while in the military I've seen extremely fit people go well over their max and people with a belly well under it. Some ladies gain in their midsection, while others carry their fat in more desirable places. The scale only tells so much.
fuck em..simply put
You have done everything in your power to give a fair representation of what you really look like.
I looked at your photos and you don't look close to a 4 lol so you're clearly dealing with idiots.
And a 12...thats the average size of an american woman 12 or 14 I know women who are 14s and look amazing. So don't trip on them.
Reviews Selfies Videos
thats all you can do
You've done all you need to do in order to disprove the lies with accuracy in your marketing.
Forget the liars and those who can never be pleased, and focus on the rest.
...not a highly doctored writhing-on-the-bed impressionistic done in the style of early rap videos or a watered down soft porn style, but just a clip of the provider walking on the beach or down a city street, or into a hotel room, then I am seldom disappointed if/when I have a session with her.
A lot of what a person "looks" like has to do with how they move, the everyday dynamics of how their body reacts as it encounters the world. That can't really be captured in a photo. More, with a good photographer, a photo can give an image that of a beautiful alluring subject in ways that are entirely different from their actual beauty. And if the photo looks good to the provider, maybe especially if it is an entirely new "look," the provider will naturally consider using it. That can still happen on a video shoot, but to a much lesser extent.
And these can usually be done without displaying facial features that would compromise her security or out her.
I think most hobbyists will "know" when seeing a video if they are getting a glimpse of what the lady actually looks like (although I admit we never actually "know" anything), and if there are any general clues that can be shared it would be watch the ones where she is basically fully clothed and that are shot in a fairly straight ahead undoctored style.
First of all, how did Madison see your pics when you are aliased? It's too late to post your ad links or you'll out yourself.
If it IS affecting your business or if guys are calling but backing off maybe you can address it in a positive or humorous way in your Local Ad Board ads.
- "Please check out my video and you can see that I am really a size 2 and not a size 12. Must have been a typo! ..."
- "My videos clearly show my size 2 body. Even if they were using Base 3, 12(base 3) = 5(base 10) is still an overestimate. Ask my tailor!"
- "I'm a size 2. See me 6 times and 6 times x size 2 is still a size 2, not a size 12."
- "I wear size 2, weigh x pounds and I'm y in height; my BMI is z. You can subtract $5 for each pound over x pounds but you have to bring your own scale."
Just something to downplay those specific negatives without, one hopes, fanning the flames.
I will divulge that this question is of a personal interest to me. A group of "gentleman" in my local area have claimed to have seen me and that I am grossly overweight and I am misrepresenting myself (I am a size 2 and they are claiming I am size 12+). I know this is born from the fact that they do not like my donation structure and are trying to potentially manipulate my business by spreading lies.
I have been active for about a year and in that timeframe I have had three sets of professional photos taken. I also have a video that was professionally done. In the video I am in a multitude of positions: standing, sitting, bending over, kneeling so it gives a fair representation of how I look. There is no airbrushing, you can clearly see stretch marks, a dimple or two in my butt, and a small scar that I have. I also have a Twitter and routinely post selfies with no editing other than cropping the photo. Is there anything else I could reasonably do? Have I done enough? I know I will never convince these "gentleman" but I want to make sure potential clients have a fair representation to view prior to deciding whether or not to see me. Thanks!
I've always liked a simple "standing from the back" pose.
It shows the overall shape and figure. (Even partially covered)
Or the same type from the front. Showing your face is a plus, but
Not always necessary... fairly accurate Height and weight is good.
I say keep it simple and real. (And current)
Men are simple. They like it, or not.
"Real recognizes Real
ignore them. Misogynist trolls love to use hyperbolic rhetoric to really try to dig into the psyche of women and have them feeling disconnected from and resentful of their own bodies. I see this far too often, for example taking jabs at an escort and saying she looks a whole 3 plus decades older than she really is. Or in your case, saying you have a larger body size than you really do. (As if there is really anything wrong with a sex worker who isn't thin charging what they see fit.)
Like others have said, you've already got all your bases covered with professional and self shot images, including videos. Pull a Beyoncé and twirl on your haters. And remember to regard those who have met with you and have been affirming.