Does anyone ever ask that they limit the oil/lotion to the nether region and just do more of a back-rub/etc.? Or, does anyone bring their own oil/lotion with them?

In one of my experiences, the Provider used a lot of oil and flower-scented lotion. It was pleasant, but soooo difficult to get the smell out with the shower afterwards. Anyone know of some quick-clean-up, unscented oil or lotion that a Provider wouldn't have a problem using?

For my next trip I was thinking of just asking for a 'dry' back rub and then only having lotion for the 'finish'.

Also, for the 'finish' does anyone give instructions to the provider, or do you just stay quiet on the technique being used? I'd like her to try a particular way instead of just playing "how fast to a finish."