Ladies, I would appreciate if you would provide your criteria or examples for selecting a level of recommendation like those used on Date-Check.  Only the OK is visible to the client but behind the OK is the recommendation viewed by other providers.

Or, are you trying to be didactic for the benefit of us guys?

The subject itself though does sound better suited to be discussed amongst the ladies, somehow I don't expect a lot of totally candid or honest answers to this question here.

I'm curious about how the ladies decide on a recommendation level. Just curiosity.

I'm D-C Platinum and I surely hope that I am all ones.  

Capital depreciation, increased labor, etc

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1-Highly Recommend: I "highly recommend" guys that I have a wonderful time with. They cover all the basics (clean, prompt, correct donation etc) and when I'm with them I don't feel like a "provider". They're friendly, they've read my website and reviews and have an idea of my sexual personality, they're gentle, sexually dominant (but not aggressive).. and when our time is up, I (almost) don't want them to go. They share themselves with me, and I get to share myself with them outside of being Taylor Morgan.
 
2-Recommend: For me, this one means that I had a nice (or very nice) time and that I would be very happy to spend time with them again. There were no real negatives that I could point out.
 
3-Your Mileage May Vary: I give this rating when I wouldn't personally see him  again, but a provider with a different personality could enjoy her time it him. He may have been too aggressive for my comfort (but not violent), seeking things I don't offer (anal, kink etc), he made me feel too "provider-ish" ( didn't want to make out, or speak to me much, or concern himself with my comfort)
 
4-Do Not Recommend: I haven't had to give this rating before, I reserve it for guys that are violent, that intentionally bring the wrong donation (or no donation at all), or that force themselves on me in some way.

How do you know that you are "Platinum"? This in not a sarcastic question, but an information seeking one. Thanks

Yeah yeah we all know you johns are paying HOWEVER, this serves as a good indication if a hooker were to book a guy or not. And what is wrong with knowing that in fact some of the johns are not nice guys in some way. You (the general you) can't possibly be that dense not to realize there are some utter dickbags out there some hookers have to deal with..that is until they don't.

But when you get right down to it, the only things most hookers care about are the things you stated...AND you NEVER mentioned looks or performance. When will they get it...hang on....never.

No one cares about looks only if you are not weird clean and respectful full stop.

but I have no desire to strive to become the best john I can be like some of the BSU's here, anymore so that I am going to strive to become the best customer for my barber, mechanic, attorney et al.

I don't get scared about whether or not my attorney thinks I am a great client, why should I have to "strive" to be "the best trick I can be" I am quite happy with my status as "not repulsive" and that is as high a praise as I desire.  

Just like not all hookers are the same, neither are us johns. Some of us do "get it" and don't stress over this topic. It never ceases to amaze me why some make this more complicated than it needs to be.  SMDH.

It's no surprise when they hate everything about that "job".

Always be clean and be a gentleman.

He os gorgeous and that body....wow, just wow.....what were we talking about?????

Love those two veins you can see.

There are fundamental differences between providers and hobbyists.  The former are providing a service, advertising their wares for sale so to speak.  The latter are buyers and justified in doing due diligence.  Further, the reference system, although far from perfect, gives providers a chance to blackball customers who don't meet acceptble standards of behavior, etc.  Also, the women reputedly have a pretty good system of informal information exchange.  Those things should suffice.

I guess you could ask him to start with the tricks too.

Or are you just making more crap up?

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...but I'm sure you know this and are just exaggerating for effect.

...and I agree with you 100%.

And I know I am not many sex workers dream date. I am a lot of work to get to finish. It is a written review I fear. I am not wanting my inadequacies exposed. I have no doubt I wouldn't always have top scores but it is what it is. I used to have a membership there but the site is clunky and P411 had more local ladies. I also didn't like that ladies could review my profile without me contacting them, but that was minor. The lack of locals at the time and how user unfriendly the site was was why I left.

Cleanliness, punctuality, attitude and maybe another one or two things that have nothing to do with much that would make a john puff up his chest...sexual prowess validation , IMHO really does not fit into this equation...most hookers are not concerned about that.  

Because if you do, I am pretty sure something might be mentioned about your abilities. That is what references are for. I want to know more than the guy showed up on time and did not beat or steal

Some hookers will not reveal much other than "yes I saw him and I am still alive and he did not steal my money".  

And I am fine with it being shared that way. I in fact want my hopefully future sex partners to know what they are getting, so I hope they share. In fact on my P411 profile my issues are noted. It is stupid to hide something That is plain once on starts playing down there. I tell them myself before I even disrobe to give them heads up. I am not hiding things from my dates, I am hiding things from those who has no business knowing.

And you seem to be a very cool guy and possibly a great client.  

I don't need a porn novel to choose my dates, and don't get me going on the numbers. What I want is simple: Does she look like her photos if not why, services offered, price, did he leave happy if not why, would he recommend, and notes on her attitude and personality. I don't care how often she faked cumming, how great he was, or the gritty details. And honestly her responses to reviews would more valuable then the reviews themselves.

And I do remember that you're not a fan of this review system. I agree guys should not be subject to comments about their looks, weight and age...unless weight is an issue for a lady.  At the very least, a place like Yelp has a way for the business to add a rebuttal in case some idiot said something untrue out of spite or gave false information that may have an effect on a clients expectations.  

I was curious about how the providers rate and if they have a criteria.  Some providers that you see 10 times or more give you a YMMV while another provider sees you once and gives you a Highly Recommended.