For those on social media, what is the weirdest social media interaction you've had with an escort. Alternate question for escorts, what is the weirdest social media interaction you've had with a client (or potential client).
I'll start. Last year, a random escort followed me on instagram. No big deal, I followed back. I saw that we had a common follower and I do follow a handful of escorts on there. A couple weeks go by, she screenshots one of her ads on instagram, which says no African Americans. My instagram profile pic is me, an African American, with another African American. Thought it was weird that she would use her escort instagram to follow someone she would never see. I quickly unfollowed after that.the weirdest (and worst) interaction will come when an escort starts inviting everyone else you know on SM, like your entire family, friends, work mates (and boss) will get invites from these escorts claiming you asked them all to follow her on it.
I mean, I'm not even a member of any of these sites yet I still get 3 to 4 invites a day, half from people that I have no idea who they are. I can only imagine how many would come were I a member.
What I find strange is that horror stories from hobbyist have not for the most part been aired on this forum. Somehow I suspect they would rather not say, but I imagine more than a divorce or two or three has already ensued thanks to the tenacious digging these sites do to try and connect people via their algorithms.
100%. Unless all of your friends, family and business associates already know you're a whore-mongering pig, why would ANYONE enjoying this lifestyle want to put their real ID on social media? (except for the hookers themselves, of course). I have heard plenty of horror stories from guys on social media regarding their contact with other women. If someone wants to fuck you over, it doesn't matter whether you're married or not, they can find a way to do it through social media. I would never consider subjecting myself to that. Only the hookers I have dated on the outside know my real first and last name, and NONE of them know I am CDL on TER. I have never even come close to having a problem because I stay completely off of social media in my real life. I don't even lurk. TER discussion boards are my only "social media."
but of course that's because like you, TER and similar sites have been the ONLY social media that I have ever been a part of, and this is coming from someone whose friends, family and business associates already do know I am a whore mongering pig. I make zero effort to hide the fact I frequent prostitutes, well except to LE of course, but I still won't subject myself to the intrusiveness of Social Media. Barely a day goes by that I don't receive some kind of invitation from someone I barely know, or in some cases people I can't stand and can't stand me, to join them on linkedin or some such site. The last thing I want is for some social media platform mining my contact lists for people I haven't spoken to in a decade.
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The linkedin invitations from people I have long forgotten are the most annoying. I get two or three a week and 75% of the time, I can't recall how I know these people, whether its personal or professional, or just some random person that got my email address from some other source and we have actually never met at all. No thanks to all of that. The other 25% are acquantances who are social media junkies that I have no interest in becoming BFF's with on social media, so I NEVER respond. Like you mentioned on another thread (at least I think it was you), once you respond, you confirm its a good email, so even telling them to take you off of their list can do you harm.
>not a day goes by
You know Gaga, you can setup email filters in most new-ish email clients/services that'll let you block/archive/delete emails automagically as they come in. I haven't had a linkedin invite in years, because if someone mentions linkedin that's not in my contacts (as in, the email is coming from their personal email, not some other site as a facsimile of them) it auto-archives the message so I never see it.
I keep all of my inboxes squeaky clean this way and never have to look at the endless list of emails.
p.s.
Hi everyone, I'm not dead, just really fucking busy.
That only seems weird because you seem to be making a category error. I will demonstrate with an example ... many older escorts often say "no men under 35" or some other minimum age limit. You wouldn't find it strange that they might still follow and be friendly with men under 35 -- or assume they hate men under 35. Or that every experience they had with men under 35 was unpleasant. One would more logically conclude that bad experiences were just more frequent with men under 35. (And every crime statistic backs that up. Younger men are more violent and anti-social than older men.) I'll leave the parallels to be drawn as an exercise for the reader.
I have a real world facebook account with friends, family and a couple of sex worker friends. The two ladies are real friends and we know each other very well. There is trust and I am on their real world facebook pages. I've met their families etc.
I also have a twitter account, but that is with my anonymous handle. I mostly stay out of drama there, except when some foolish woman steals photos of my friends.
It sure beats the boredom that has set in here.
...but I agree it's not weird. What would you do if your assistant did this? 
everything can be just as hot as when the goods are all on display. Great photo!!
If I had an assistant, her job description would include stress reduction. So, I would probably ............
What was the question?
Great pic
...assistant bent over in front of you? Or looked coyly up at you? 
Hehehehe. Of course, I'd give her a raise.
My weirdest interactions are getting blocked for the following reasons
SW: Is it wrong if I eat cake for breakfast?
ME: How much cake did you eat?
SW: Posts a sexy pic that is noticeably digitaly altered
ME: You are a smoke show. Why do you need to edit your pictures?
SW: Trump SUCKS, I hate Trump, bla bla bla
ME: Gave couple of reasons why trump got elected. ( I got blocked by bunch of girls because of this comment )
SW: I hate TER, I hate P411, I hate EROS.
ME: You do know you can delist from those sites?
SW: Met a guy from tinder and we hooked up and he was rude after we fucked.
ME: Stop looking for mr perfect on tinder.
SW: Living it up in Dubai
ME: Don't forget you are in a totally different country and think twice before doing anything wild.
SW: Don't need no mansplaining
Why do SW share their opinions, and get upset over a John's opinion when it does not correspond with her's?
It's not like either side values the other's opinion outside of the bedroom.
Had a provider hand me her phone to show me pictures of her kid, on her facebook page. Didn't even attempt to hide her real name. Was scrolling through the pictures and some of the sexy ones on her facebook were also on her provider website.
a few times a reverse image search has led me to an escort's real life identity. It used to amaze me how often a provider used the same pic on FB, model mayhem, or twitter, or their photographer featured uncropped pics on their social media site. In the case of the photographer using it, the girl would invariably like or comment on the post or tweet, revealing her real ID.
Once, after I alerted a provider of this indiscretion, she went BSC thinking I was trying to scam or expose her. I only responded with a roadmap of how I came across the info and a wish good luck.
that no good deed goes unpunished.
Inventor of the first machine gun.
They probably didn't pay any attention to your SM profile. Escorts probably don't look at any profiles until they recive a valid date request.
I had a girl offer a show more than experience and we had two friendly dm's before i ask one question about limits of show and she immediately accused me of wasting her time. I then stated back that i was simply wanted to have some idea of what show consisted of and she told me either pay up or i would never find out. I will never know.
She of the "We have to pass the bill so we can find out what's in it" quote. lol
Like you, I would have been very happy to "never know"
That is to say, anything you'd be remotely interested in.
And she has the nerve to claim that you wasted her time?
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And curt reply just scream scam artist to me. Probably covered everything, including DFK with a dental dam. Lol
A bit of drama today on Twitter. A provider was accused of stealing a deposit from a client by another provider. A LOT of back-and-forth tweets between the providers involved in the issue.
Ironically, one of the providers that defended the accused provider had unleashed fury many months ago against another popular provider that stole deposits.
How did I miss this on Twitter? Any hint would be appreciated...
Steph XO
The person that brought this situation to light is a cool person known as the sexy swinger on Twitter
Don't know what's going on this month but there has been another fight on Twitter over a deposit.