the first time, if you start asking about specific sexual services you come off looking like LE trying to entrap them. What I do, which is the easiest way, is to ask them if there is anything that is not correct in the services listed in their TER profile. This will let them know what might be included in the services you are EXPECTING when you meet without you saying anything graphic or suspicious that you might be LE trying to set them up. If you don't know already, this requires you to have a VIP membership on TER, but it's well worth the cost if you are going to be in this hobby.
How do you know what is allowed or not allowed when seeing a provider for the first time. What things sexually she would be ok with and what not. Is it too forward to ask about services like rimming or anal or anything else?
I mean that is what TER is for. The beauty of this place is so that you dont have to ask the girl directly those questions, as depending on when you ask them, can get you ghosted or worse. . Now some women will let you ask after she verifies you and before you meet. Some, however, will certainly not, as they dont want anything in writing speaking of any sex acts. . And remember, even if your research shows she will do sex act X or Y, it doenst necessarily mean she will do them with you. She may not feel up to certain requests when you see her, your hygiene may not be up to par, etc. There are never any guarantees. . The best time to ask, imo, is after round one, the first time you meet her. At that point, she will likley feel very comofrtable with you, provided you treated her with respect, and at that time, all sexually related questions are almost always received without issue.
When it comes to what not to do, if you know how to gauge whether she is okay talking in more detail or not, there is a way to ask. It’s basically asking for permission. I would only recommend to minimally wait until after screening. At that point, you can ask, “Are you open to discussing services?” That question probably will not get you blocked. But you may get a no. But it also may get you more information such as, if she is okay with it in person before you get down to business.
Robert’s example of after the first session is the most cautious and likely foolproof approach. After you’ve finished and talking about future appointments, she is highly likely to be ready. However, this also means being okay with not knowing and/or getting some of these things in that first session. If you’re looking for a regular, this makes the most sense as it also allows you to establish chemistry. But if you’re more into being a hobbyist and not having a regular, it’s investing more time and money than you may want.
Not everyone deserves notable treatment, so make sure you look good and smell great. Rimming is listed on the providers TER profile. I would recommend using TER as a tool. Research. Read the reviews & providers website before reaching out. Nothing is guaranteed. All providers have the right to refuse services.
… where it says, for example, that I am a yes to both anal and receiving rimming. As others have said, that doesn’t mean they’re automatically available to all clients at every session. Review text can give you more info.
Otherwise, please don’t try to get us to agree in writing to anything explicit before meeting us. I do offer a consultation call for prospective clients who wish to discuss what our session might look like, but this isn’t an option for all providers.
the first time, if you start asking about specific sexual services you come off looking like LE trying to entrap them. What I do, which is the easiest way, is to ask them if there is anything that is not correct in the services listed in their TER profile. This will let them know what might be included in the services you are EXPECTING when you meet without you saying anything graphic or suspicious that you might be LE trying to set them up. If you don't know already, this requires you to have a VIP membership on TER, but it's well worth the cost if you are going to be in this hobby.
I’ve frequently found girls do things not listed.Shocking I know. If her looks and reviews interest you then book a short meeting. Use it as a Q and A session while having fun.
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