I'm a really nice talkative guy. When I show up to a MP here in Hawaii I treat everyone with the utmost curtisy and respect. I'm clean strong and fairly handsome. I try to not only get my moneys worth out of an encounter but it also fullfills me for the woman I'm with to do the same.I'm in a profession which makes me extremely sensative to human emotions and psychology. I can spot a scam coming a mile away. Yet at least 50 to 60 percent of the time the women I'm with mistake my kindness for weakness and try to pump me for all the cash or gifts etc. they can squeez out of me. I gladly pay the rates here and if I get good service tip well but as I said instead of being thankfull I'm not a dirty obnoxious slob who won't pay, I feel the "this guys a mark, so I'll milk him for all I can get" vibe out of so many women. I don't know why these women do this because I will never go to see them again if I'm treated this way, with this much disrespect. The only reason I can think of is that these women are only in the MP's for a short time and aren't concerned about a client base. And yes. Hats off to the private escorts "you do get what you pay for" It's just that some of us can't sip champaign on a budweiser bugget

Did I miss the question in your post?

I think it's wrong you are treated like that and I think you may have identified one of the reasons why.  

I may be wrong but I expect that women in parlours are seeing many clients per day so it may not always be realistic to expect her to get physical fulfilment from a session.  It's nice that you are considerate but this is worth bearing in mind.

I guess one answer is to stick with the girls who treat you with respect.

I feel your pain carrol because I treat people the same way. Wondering if nice guys finish last even in this realm??

Hey, I like a good Budweiser but it's never going to taste like champaign.

...no wonder the French are so damn testy.

Hairdressers, soccer players and that gay wedding organiser from Father of the Bride drink champaign.

Sad but true...

These ladies work entirely on tips, so it's really not surprising to hear that they are on the look out for any situation which might seem to offer them more. They ladies work their asses off on a high volume level, 'get 'em in, get 'em on, get 'em off' basis and I don't envy them in the least.

I agree that it sucks to be treated as you have been, but I really don't think it's a sign that 'nice guys finish last' or anything of the sort. I think it's more a sign that 'nice guys shouldn't look for GFE in massage parlours'.

Why not save your $$, and get one really great GFE SP experience for every three or so lousy MP experiences you're currently getting?

Morgan

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Stick with well reviewed and received independents. They will not be rushed. They will not squeeze every nickle out of you. What's on the website is the dontation, and they are usually intelligent and talented. Also, some of us give nice backrubs, too. Wink!

Hugs,
Ciara

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I thought that when I was younger, but as I've aged, I've found that being polite and doing good were rewarded eventually.

My experience with regular and Asian MP's has been fairly sucessful.  Maybe I just live a charmed life.

Too bad U live so far away Ciara

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LOL.

I'm only kiddin man, I don't mean any harm. Who said Americans lacked humour? I doubt it was guvnor Arnie.

You people make me laugh.

...I've had:

crappy escort experiences
crappy MP experiences

average escort experiences
average MP experiences

outstanding escort experiences
outstanding MP experiences

It's all rather random.

However, I prefer the escort model. But if you really get around the birds are eventually all the same.

Couldn't we have spellcheck on these boards?  Besides exposing the obvious, spelling in these posts just drives me crazy:  

curitsy
moneys
sensative
squeez
thankfull
champaign (champagne)
bugget  

Geez