He was also NOT a gfe client, or I doubt I would have been into that. When I read some of these ATF stories, they make me chuckle. Most sound like a second wife or GF vs. a damn hooker/john scenario. 6 months to a year was usually my limit on seeing the same person, even if that meant losing money. I get bored rather quickly.

We became pretty good friends during the process. She used to work for Agency and then went indy. I think she moved out of the area, and I was not able to see her after that..She later came back and ran agency. I saw couple of her girls...

Hope she is doing well....

Frequency varies with availability on both parts.  

Some move. Some die. Some get outed/found out. Some have budgets

I travel for business and there are a couple of ladies I see when I visit their city.  Our relationship remains fresh and exciting.  I always look forward to these trips and catching up with these wonderful ladies.

i have been seeing my atf on an irregular basis just a little over 2 years now...

don't see her every month, but oddly enough, with the exception of 2 or 3 other women, when i do see another lady, i usually walk away saying to myself "damn, i could have spent that money on my atf instead!"

she's great, always makes me feel like she is very happy to be spending time with me, and not just the envelope, and yet i can go months without communicating and there's no problems, she's still very excited to see me when i make an appointment (or at least she pretends to be, and she's convincing enough that it's ok with me if she's play acting).

when i first started hobbying years ago there was one lady i saw twice monthly for about 5 months, tho i wasn't that taken by her skills, i was green enough to enjoy it.

the longest relationship i have ever had is still ongoing, it's been about 7 years. I have hooker "friends" that I have known longer, but we don't fuck so I really don't count them.

I have one now ex provider that I have know since she first started in the biz at age 18, I think i was one of her first 5-10 clients. Our relationship has gone from being hooker/john to Boss/Employee when she quit hooking to come work for me (and fuck me on the side of course) to SD/SB to "real" BF/GF to a current relationship of FWB

Now as far as strictly client/John with no blurring of the lines, I just ran into a chica last night who I first slept with about 8 years ago, but haven't slept with for quite some time, and I often see women at both the Del Rey and the Co Cal in CR that I have known and have had sex with for 5-6 years, but there are very few of them that I still fuck as they have gotten older, and I am a shallow pig who prefers the young hardbodies.

Something always happens:
1) they leave (move, quit, etc.)
2) I lose interest from no fault of their own
3) they tell me they're in love and wish I could whisk them away from their current troubles, ie want to convert to sb/sd
4) they become stalker ish +- 3)

I'll "go there" too. I'm going on seven years now. Had another two of about 2 years.

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Unless she tells you something different. Even then she would probably be lying to get more money out of you.

Trust me you will become bored with her and not see her as much. Sometimes that is when it gets better.

M

6 years on & off...  was very regular the first couple of years...  sporadic since.  My third attempt & first success.    
I have a second that's also in the 6 year category just slightly less than the other by start date.

8 yrs and I still rock it with so many of my friends.

A Provider I used to see on a Regular Basis lived in my City. This was in 1993. For over the next 20 years I would see her on a somewhat Regular Basis. Then around 2008 she moved out of state. I drive to visit her about 3 to 4 times a year. We've become Good Friends. She's Retired from the Business. She doesn't even advertise in her area. We still have Sex when I see her. But it's more than the usual Client / Provider Relationship.

My All time ATF.........

I've known him little over 2yrs, one of my first clients when I started providing.... I was brand new & didn't know much about much... He's been a loyal clientele, recently he's been coming to see me at least once a week..... Very nice & very generous.... He lives 4/5 doors down from me..... Lol.    Loyalty is hard to find in this biz but I'm very lucky that I have almost 2 handful of Hobbyist that repeats on a regular basis.....  Wished few of them wrote reviews.... But they are very low keyed hobbyists.....   I appreciate & adore them!!!  

Xoxo
GC

I met her at a MP, and after a few years asked if we could meet off-campus and do more interesting things, and we never looked back.

The most sane and drama free person I've ever met in or out of the hobby.

I see another gal who I have known on and off for about 18 years.  She's a bit crazy but we like each other a lot

I'll be hitting the 10th anniversary with another gal this year.

I do like to stay with the gals I like a lot

He's the one I've seen the longest. I met him through an agency, and he's the only client I still see from any agency I've worked for.

I will make exceptions for him that I won't make for anybody else. He is retired and on a fixed income...but even so, he volunteers his time quite a bit. He's a good person and someone whose company I enjoy. And he is genuinely appreciative. So I do not mind going out of my way for him, even though what he pays me is fairly negligible (about half of what my cheapest date costs).

I didn't always appreciate him so much. When we first started seeing each other, he made some of the most insensitive/ignorant comments about providing to me (both of these: 'I should be paying YOU', and 'I would NEVER pay more than $[insert cheap agency price here] for sex')...he was both cheap, and more than a little demanding in bed (tied into his happy-go-lucky blitheness toward this service we provide). I can't say that I always treated him the way he deserved to be treated...at one time, I really didn't want to see him again because of that attitude. He was fairly new to hobbying at the time and I guess he suffered from selective blindness - these days, he's much more considerate/appreciative than he used to be... so I think he's learned some lessons from myself and the other women he's seen...

He's a good person and, thank goodness, we've both been able to look past the things we might not agree on...and continue to have a great time. The money he gives me is kind of negligible at this point, but I'm happy to see him all the same

Longest/frequency: There was one provider I saw 10 times in a year. It got better each time. She is now out of the business. That is the most visits in the shortest time. There is one other I saw 10 times in a year and a half. This also got better as we went. She is now out of the business. There are two I've been seeing since 2010. There are two others I've been seeing since 2011. All of these are as good as the first time and occasionally better because we try something new or a bit different. So far I haven't quite seeing someone for any reason other than they left the business.

...and it still gets better every time!  F'ing amazing!!!

I would see about 5 or 6 times a year whenever I traveled to her area.  This lasted for about 5 years until she retired.

..... eventually became an exclusive arrangement (for the most part -- on his and mine) during the last few years of his life during which we saw each other several times each week.  

And those "for the most part" classification were gentlemen who I saw for well over a decade, too... and we NEVER plateaued or burned out.  

Then again, we only saw each other three to four times per year, so perhaps that's why we never tired of one another.

Just a random comment to add to the element of the thread...

AR