For those that remember this post just wanted to give an update since the original is burried...I was told nothing is going to be done.  So protect yourselves and remember the basics rules:
1. Burner phone.
2. Never give your real info (sorry ladies).
3. And if you're ever caught, Deny, Deny, Deny!

For those that want to see top shelf girls that regard their safety and comfort as much as they do your discretion:

be wary of women insist knowing EVERYTHING about you so they can assure themselves of nothing but 10-10 reviews because they can threaten any client who catches her on a bad day, and then has the unmitigated gall to write a truthful review.

Don't use a burner phone?  Ridiculous.  I don't use one any more either, but I did.  And I was never denied service because of it.  I understand about girls not taking calls from blocked #s, but that's different.  
Same thing with real personal info.  No way am I giving it, even though all my info is public.
If P411 isn't enough, I won't see you.  Funny thing is I've never, ever been denied service and I've seen some of the top women in this game.

GaG, agreed, my rules don't work for everyone, and I'm perfectly okay with that.  Just sayin' that going the route of seeing someone that doesn't give a hoot who you are as the OP has suggested isn't smart either.

but there are a LOT of us who wouldn't give your screening form a second glance and who would immediately move on after seeing "your rules" I just checked out your form and I see you don't only ask for age, but an actual birthdate. I am "blackmail proof" and I would never dream of offering up that information to book with a woman, for any guy with anything to lose to do so would be sheer madness. Real name, address, work info and date of birth, all you need is a SSAN and you have all the making for a complete identity theft.  

95% of my friends are married with lots to lose. 0% are sorry they gave me what I asked for.

...her contact form.  I never fill out contact forms but DOB would be a deal-breaker in any case.

and the OP is proof that not all "well reviewed" providers here can be trusted with personal information that can be used against a client at the whim of a woman who even thinks she's been scorned.

Two sides to every story GaG...you're hearing his the loudest.  Doesn't make it true...

Good old introduction is far too, well, just what you said it is: old. And far too common.  I'm sorry you feel it's pretentious, but those that have met me know I'm anything but.  My site was labeled such far before I was ever Ms. TER, BTW...in fact, I believe Arovet and I clashed pretty hard over my site labels at one time.  Then he saw me.  You can ask him how pretentious I am.

There are simply too many cases of some BSC or vindictive hooker totally ruining a guys life, or threatening to do so over a slight as minor as an 8-8 review.

Again, safety and discretion are not the same as anonymity.

I recall I generally made fun of the term "honorarium" and you jumped on me with both feet! And yep, regardless how one might feel about website terms there ain't a pretentious bone in your body...and after a quite thorough exam I believe I know what I'm taking about!

but no, I don't think you would guard your friends info even a tenth as hard as you guard your own.

Hey, I don't pretend their aren't BSC women out there.  I'm not saying it can't and doesn't happen, but I think some of them drive themselves BSC by taking unnecessary risks as I've listed and then getting royally screwed over.  And some are just plain BSC, no ifs, ands or buts.  But if they were smart, screening better, and didn't want to commit career suicide they would never attempt such nonsense like blackmail.

I'm nearly exactly the same boat. I already have told virtually everyone in my life what I do.  I don't have a job or a wife.  And, like GaG, I've been outed even though absolutely no harm has come from it.  The only thing it did, ironically, was to completely inoculate me from any further damage.
And yet, even as I respect your right to require any information you want, I simply won't give you my personal information in order to see you.  Call it "general principles" or sheer stubbornness.  But for most guys it's sheer survival that's at stake and I don't blame them a bit.

Your situation is a bit different.  And I won't call you out on it here over the sheer fact that it's distasteful to do so on a public forum.  But we both know why I wouldn't see you even if you chose to give me everything I requested.  Yet, you still have girls that will okay you. Do you see my point now? Again, you two are only proving my need for my stringent screening.  

I couldn't agree more. I would never give my personal information. Just as the provider is worried about the client and his trustworthiness the opposite is equally true: what happens to our info? Still on their PC when they are busted or hacked? Maybe they aren't so "normal" and decide to "out" us. So...we just don't go there. There was a woman I had long been trying to see in NYC. When she became available she asked for all this info. I protested, she insisted saying that it was totally "confidential". I moved on but unhappy that I could not see her.

That's right!!! You gave Arovet the heads up I'm not in the least pretentious ; )  My point they don't know what they're missing.  They'd rather assume incorrectly that I have very unattractive qualities...

But it's not an attractive trait.

Obviously you failed to read completely through the thread when it comes to why references aren't enough...

Never said it was true.  I just don't care to take the risk if it is.  And I'm not talking about the RT junk that we all know was fake.

But the lies go farther and deeper than that.

It did take me less than three minutes, but only because I had reference info readily available.

...for hobbyists and providers, there are...

I am sure he won't lose anymore sleep knowing you wouldn't see him than you will knowing that neither BPS or I would ever think about booking with you. See how well some things work out?

Absolutely! We agree : )  

Why did you feel compelled to start a post in this thread telling us about your screening methods? We don't care. Protecting my family is more important than seeing any one girl. I have seen plenty of top shelf girls with P411. Real info was not required.

when I contacted her about a visit.  I too balked at her screening requirement and asked for a waiver based on my board history and P411 ok's.  She held to her position and politely said so and why.  I held to mine.

I require this ONLY in the town I am from ( I do not need to run into my brother or his friends, a former professor, work associate, etc. or someone who might know my family) and for newbies. When I travel, I don't much give two shits about it. Real info and ID check are going to keep me from being stuffed in a suitcase, how exactly? If I am dead, I can't exactly use the shit against him and if his info is stored on my puter, well shame on me.  

Absolutely, positively, correct, and amen!

I have been a provider for almost 10 years.  I don't have 1 bad review in all of those years.  I am well known and well trusted.  Yet,  it totally amazes me how some men still refuse to share with me their name and work information if they don't have references from other ladies.  If I haven't blackmailed, threatened or harassed a gentleman thus far,  why would I start now after I have worked so hard to build my excellent reputation.  I agree with Alexandra when she said,

Well, he's gone now, we can all play nicely in the sandbox together now ; )

Thanks, JD ; )  

While there are a few exceptions such as GaG who is blackmail-proof the overwhelming majority of us DO have something to lose.  

I see you working here/her...trying to get that freebie with all this mindless rhetoric...slick dude

On the Carolinas board...I feel the same way. I only ask for name and references.I can also use P411 for screening. I probably need to take the "age" thing off but, it was default. I do not keep any information. And like you, ask my clients about my discretion.

I think we can all agree you should not only stop mongering, you should also stop posting.

But facial recognition software can easily out you.

Out me to who exactly since everyone I know, knows what I do? Escorting is legal.

And I never felt prior to meeting you that you were and certainly didn't after our first meet. Sorry I'll miss you in Chicago later this month.

We will make up for it ; )  

If you're trying to avoid them, you should have attended a different school! Lolzzzzz

I'm sure that no one would ever be able to match up your public pics to your hotel rendezvous.

Exactly! And a lot of ladies indeed ask for a name, but won't check to make sure that's actually his name. I find they tend to not only mind their manners more often when I know who exactly they are, but my chances of having a bad experience because I'm not seeing a BL'ed guy or a convicted felon is much lower. Everyone is completely entitled to do it their way, this is just the way I chose to do it and haven't had a problem since.

See, no harm, no foul ; )

That GaG would do anything to be friends with the ladies who post on here.  
It's what he dreams of...  
He tries to impress the men by talking a big game and tries to act better than to impress the ladies.  
He's going to be butthurt wondering how he can get you, a man who actually does p4p, to change your perception on him...
 
This is no different then him saying that bigguy30 is hiding his true feelings, GaG does the same thing. Day in and day out confrontations with ladies. And men. All to look like the cool guy. It's ridiculous. I wish people wouldn't copy and paste what he says so it would be easier to ignore. No offense, Alex.. I just can't stand his obvious bullsh!t.  
 
I can't believe he mentioned how he used to be a moderator on this exact board! Lolzzzz.. And how his handle holds so much, what? Integrity? Please. His posts on that big in Texas board are hilarious. No one would entertain his attitude, so he just posts here. He signs in there every day.  
 
Alex, not to mention, he would never book you because he can't afford you. His stories are the biggest catfish stories I have ever read on the Internet.  
Buenos noches,  
x

Because everytime I'm in a hotel I'm escorting?! Wow, it's worse than I originally had thought for you : (

And I think Ragnar has a crush on you......

Oh, wait...

If you're that worried, then maybe you shouldn't see, ahem...prostitutes!

I am so glad you brought this up. I would probably be more lenient on my screening if someone such as yourself was to request an appt.  However;  In all of my 10 years as a provider,  I have had several instances where either gentlemen have let their buddies use their handle or other gentlemen would write me seeking an appt. and claiming to be a certain gentleman with a certain handle.  I actually had a guy who contacted me and used his brothers handle and phone number. At the end of our visit he shorted me tremendously on my donation.  When I called him to let him know,  his brother answered the phone and didn't know what the hell I was talking about.  He spent 3 hours with me. I also had a guy who admitted to me that he shared his P411 handle with another guy.  If you can assure me that you are indeed the "real" person with that handle,  I may consider visiting with you without anything more.  It's unfortunate that some do this,  it ruins it for others.

Why is everyone assuming that the OP is telling the truth? He could be telling the gospel truth, or he could be engaging in a fear mongering tactic to pressure some chicks to lower their screening standards. Maybe he's beating off while watching how long some of these branch arguments are getting. Probably the latter.

Because we both know, Tobi, if you have a P411 account and some money, us ahem, prostitutes, are not supposed to say no! Otherwise we're pretentious bitches 😂...

Please don't tell me I'll go blind. rofl.

And anything posted by you should not be read.

F*ck, not another one of those :-

Tru dat, I mean obviously our only goal is blackmail and other douchebaggery. I also hear we smell like cabbage and have no souls.  

Well, I was once accused of having a satanic vaginal canal, and his sins with me were being projected onto his kids, Jesus Tits with Applesauce Christ!

but I'm out on the cabbage business

...even though the potential client has been around for years with a solid reputation. Why would he want to screw it up now?  

A well-known provider in FL emailed me a referral for a guy she claimed was a regular, generous and sweet. Gave me his phone number and first name, and explained that he doesn't do email- only phone and text. I instantly trusted her judgment based on her board presence, and phoned him to chat. Some things he said set off a few red flags, so I did some research. This is what I found:

I definitely think it's a decision influenced by your own situation.  I'm not married and I don't think rumors would significantly affect my career. So my desire to see the girl and review history directly affects how much info I am willing to divulge.  I am willing to give name, location and age for well reviewed ladies because I see it as only a small risk.  However, I will say that when the girl's website says 'your information is never stored', that's NOT always true.  I know this because I did see a well reviewed that claims that on her website.  But whenever she replies to an email I sent, my real name is in the from part of the original message.  My real name not attached to my hobby account in any way, so it has to be stored in her address book that way.  I personally don't care all that much, but I could surely why people in some professions would care.

Isn't he swell?

Please don't put words in my mouth. I never said they were wrong for not doing it my way, but I don't feel it's smart putting your safety at risk for some cash. It's simply my opinion : )
 

Hobbying with a burner phone, not giving personal info to anyone but some one like P411, seeing only well reviewed ladies - clearly the safest way to go for guys.  May miss out on a few lovely ladies if minimizing risk is an extremely high priority (like it was for me) but so be it.  It's all about playing percentages.  Give out info once, or potentially hundreds of times.  Was a no-brainer for me - I wouldn't have gotten into this hobby if not for P411 and the ability to minimize risk.  And I met so many amazing, beautiful, smart, and yes, high quality ladies, a great experience.

you are indeed a top provider!

iso: hi! I'm looking for a big boobie blonde haired lady to take out to dinner on friday night!

its another one of those that i just dont get.

Quote: "For those that want to see top shelf girls that regard their safety and comfort as much as they do your discretion:"

If that is your concern,  then I am sure the companion you are wanting to visit with will be happy to accept your information by text or you can call her to share the information with her.  I can't speak for all ladies but I am sure some will agree to do this.  I know I certainly do.  I don't care how I get the information as long as I obtain it somehow.  Once I receive your information,  it is automatically deleted from my computer or I throw away the paper in which it is written on.  

I gotta go post elsewhere.....

What is a lady going to do, tell my wife? That wouldn't be wise, kinda like kicking a bee hive bur worse, and she already knows. Tell my boss, well I already know. He isn't one in a million.

Or you can see girls that just don't care who you are, like most and have this happen like I did last night around 11 pm...

It's not a valid point when you're saying I said they did it "wrong", but read a few
posts down. You and AM can giggle and grin all you want until you have what happened to me last night...then you'd be happy you were seeing a pretentious bitch like me that screens so hard and doesn't take P411 as the fucking gospel...
 

I don't think a person said to not screen in any way shape or form that makes YOU feel comfortable.

Hey, AM, if you want to bet it's a shitty ex and risk your safety, I mean, damn, he's got 14
P411 Okays, he's good, right?!, then by all means, you take him. I won't.

That's just it, P411 got me nothing. The other stuff he left on my screening form got me to the herpes stuff...I'm betting no other girl dug deeper, he didn't think I would either. He got busted. Although who am I to say conclusively he has it?! I'm not...just sayin' I didn't take P411 as the gospel. If I had, I'd have seen him and maybe ended up with herpes....