Of course there's the guys who call to book an appt. and are just talking to you on the phone to get off - free phone sex.  You can recognize these guys by the converation and by their breathing.  You can get them "off" quickly (no pun intended).  If a guy starts to talk about sex at all - I hang up.  If he calls back - then I tell him I'm not going to discuss sex with him on the phone.  If he's LE - they usually don't call back.  I have been confused by phone conversations that seem to go on and on and on - with no mention of money or meeting.  After a while I figured out - those were LE trying to get me to mention things "first" so I couldn't cry entrapment.  I just have a lovely conversation and they get bored and move on to someone else.  If a guy insists you call him inbetween appointments - it's likely he's trying to make a gf jealous - be careful.  I have had it happen many a time where the guy will deliberately set things up for us to get caught by wife or gf they want to piss off. I personally don't call anyone - they have to call me for that reason.

I can understand the simple desire to feel a bit of a connection via phone before meeting...but the calls that I am receiving as of late are not of that nature TRUST ME...what kills me, is when I give my number out, I clearly state that there will be no discussion of money or sex over the telephone...and yet these ass clowns go against what I tell them...this tells me 1 of 2 possible things...they have their pecker in their hand when they call OR they are just that stupid and don't get it

I find chatting on the phone before finalizing arrangements to be benefitial for potential encounter.  And my sexy accent does not hurt either

However, there are those who tend to use providers's phone numbers as "cost free dial an orgazm" service.  That's where caller ID comes in handy.

thanks for all the input...I think I am going to add something to my website that states I am not a phone sex operator and I'd rather chew my arm off at the elbow than talk to whack jobs on the tele

I love getting emails . . .

as long as I'm not expected to go back and forth with someone on a daily basis. It's hard enough keeping up with clients contacting me and doing my other work, too. And, please guys:  Don't send a bunch of jokes. I don't even like cluttering my email box with those from really close girlfriends.

Thank you!


Hugs,
Ciara