I see so many people waste time talking while the clock ticks away.
I'm the kind of guy who, 3 minutes in, is like "why the fuck aren't you naked already?"  
Recently, I had one provider who was kind of hesitant and slow in the beginning. I was buckass naked on the bed, and she was still fully clothed in multiple layers of lingerie, slowly crawling up to me on the bed. She was no fatass either, so that's not the reason she was slow.

If it is with someone I have been with before then I am all about let's get naked and start having fun. With someone new I like to spend a little bit of time, 10 minutes at least trying to get comfortable with them. That is why I like a longer appointment the first time with a provider, but if I have seen you before I love those half hour fuck sessions.

Maybe you need a SW...and a car?

sound like a real cheap-ass?  With this approach, good luck getting a connection with anybody.  Romantic fantasy is definitely not your thing.

I have hug some providers and made small talk for a while before and after that part on them. Once I pay she take her undies off I will get grappy if she tell to get conforable on bed she must nude first and beg to see me nude.

to Fancy or her sister?

...the jumping jacks, but those six-count burpees are a bitch!

The thing is, as Jack said, why bother with TER? He can find what he wants elsewhere for a lot cheaper.

And for a lot less than 600/hr.

Why eat steak with a knife and fork when you can have it intravenously injected as a slurry.

$300/hr hookers and stop whining about the $100 for a little bit of get-to-know-you time.  Its part of the fantasy that he doesn't seem to appreciate, so maybe he's spending more than he should. Besides, even though he uses an alias, I'm pretty sure he's an LA Kgirl guy, so he's not spending $600/hr in the first place.

pushups with his tongue.

If she is taking things too slow, you can always take the lead in moving things forward.

O....K, so basically you are not into the GFE, ok and perhaps if you are seeing minutes as $$ signs. Eh....maybe you should try something a bit low scale but that's just me.

there's 2 consecutive people that can post in public what I just finished reading.

One day, I had a bad car crash, and had both legs and arms in a cast.

Last I checked, emails are free. Correspondence is free. Getting to know you is free. This is P4P. The OP doesn't sound cheap, he actually sounds like a client who gets the run around that a lot of providers are guilty of.  $300/$400/$600, is a shit load of money. Maybe y'all have been jaded by the profession from being in it for some amount of time, but money doesn't grow on trees. Some may look at it as chump change, but for the majority of the working class, that's a weeks worth of salary. If I want to sit and chat for 30 mins of an hour session then I'd go see a therapist, it's much cheaper and in most cases you won't be disappointed.  

Amen to Dfuse. Totally nailed it.

...more so to help acclimate the provider in case she gets nervous, especially if she isn't used to seeing female clients. It helps to set the mood and establish the pace. I don't worry about the clock since once we do get going it will all be over too soon anyway.

I like to jump right in and get to good naked fun too!  Hell, I always greet my friends with a very friendly kiss.   That usually gets the ball rolling quite nicely.  The tongue-tango is my version of getting to know you chit-chat.  

Thankfully, I encounter this sort of thing very infrequently.  

Because the first part of what he says I can absolutely agree with. I don't need a lot of "warm up" time. My favorite type of sessions start with a DFK before I am halfway through the door, but I most certainly don't expect to be inside of her three minutes after having walked in the door. That's where he loses me and starts sliding into troll territory.

So, I have been anticipating the session for at least 3 days (typically much longer), I don't spank my monkey for at least 3 days prior, so by the time I knock on the door I ready to get a nut. This is not to say that I expect action as soon as the door closes, I like a little hello kiss and hug, then I hit the shower and give her a moment to ensure my math is correct, but yeah once I'm out of the shower it's game on. We can "get to know" each other during the down time after my first pop. I feel that it's nice and preferable to establish a good vibe, but ultimately I'm there to get off and she's there for the Bennys, so why not get at it.  

This totally proves my point. I guess everyone is conditioned to skim through, not read or critically think about what my post said. There is nothing wrong with getting to know someone. But In my opinion there is everything wrong with purposely talking to a client for 30 to 45 mins, and only leaving time for physical acts to take place within 15 minutes only to be rushed during sex with "hey Hun your time is almost up" then immediately putting on clothes or offering a shower to usher the client out of the door. That's not a service, that is taking advantage of the system and the client. If the shoe fits, try it on and buy a couple of pair. Sorry if I offend anyone, but if this is your tactic or you know any providers who do this, then you should look in the mirror.  

his is why I don't offer 30 min anything and prefer clients who don't clock watch  
 and like to take their time. I absolutely hate it when I have no idea of the time and  
 the gentleman is checking his damn watch every 5 mins. Makes it hard to meet  
 their needs. This is an industry or whatever where desires and stuff can be catered to and explored

Totally agree with you sweetheart  

...I have never run into the situation you describe.

...Isn't that what the business is all about? Passion...Sex...Excitement and  Fantasy....
So why wait...

I agree with you too but unfortunately, at least in my experience, your attitude is not very common with most of the providers I have experienced. A majority like to get you in and get you out the door so they can see the next guy and run him through the line. I have done as much research as I can beforehand but where I live a lot of the reviewed providers don't pass through much so I am left taking my chances with BP girls. So be it I guess.  To those it is just a way to make money and they don't really enjoy it. Those with your attitude get a lot of my repeat business for sure!

Every woman I have hooked up with via TER has always gone over the hour that I book.  I get plenty of chitchat and plenty of sexy time, and they get gifts and tips for going above and beyond.  Dfuse obviously is not doing his homework.

Back in late December I was with a provider who was a former porn star.  We had an hour appointment and her rates were a bit higher than I was used to paying. (it was not Becca Blossom BTW....she is great).  

Because in life, the same things happen to the same people right. Oh and everyone has the same experiences. And the world is just lolly pops and daisies. You're so right.

when a girl is aggressive and kind of GFE/PSE from the outset, but you have to wait to see if she takes the lead on that.  If she's a little shy at first because you're a new customer, then I think a little get-to-know-you time making out, etc., is going to make the rest of the session much better.

I think the OP just did a VERY bad job of articulating his point.

Use your alias just to say you agree with another poster. You must be some kind of extraordinary wimp!

I generally let the lady take the lead and this has gone everywhere from chatting for almost an hour while drinking wine to having the lady sitting on my face in less than 10 minutes.  

(From your quick apparel change in the phone booth) I bet you're quite the Captain Save-A-Hooker.  Or maybe you're the rat who leaks Reviewers Only material to providers.

This message should be under that main thread

I'm only going to get off once anyway. Ten minutes chatting matters little. I don't prefer it, but will tolerate it.  Only a few times did I feel slow rolled and it still didn't matter....

mom know you're on this adult board?

among providers that are not that busy and are lower volume by circumstance and not by design.  They can take their time and don't need to watch the clock.  Its why some hobbyists seek them out, arguing that they get more for their money, even though there may be valid reasons for the lack of customers.  

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fulfilling his obligation to defend his serf.  

To tell anyone else what they should or shouldn't prefer?

Really, 3 minutes? I do not like time wasters either, but there should still be some time to get to know a lady a little. I can't just jump into sex and I dont see ladies who just want to jump right into it either.  

Who says out loud what other People are thinking but don't say because it might cause blowback.