Someone here suggested I stick a min-vibrator into the gift set that I'm going to get a provider (self-indulgence). But whats the best one or a good one? Does it even matter? I figure their all the same...

I've heard the pocket rocket is pretty good. But I don't know...is this even a good idea for self indulgence??

Bronze it, and send that instead.  It's the kind of thoughtful gift she will treasure forever.

Hustler toys makes a great vibrating cock ring. Go to  mypleasure.com  and look up "The Velvet Touch"  No wires and it turns a cock into a vibrator. It's my favorite because it's fun for both of you at the same time.  And she will need your help to enjoy it's pleasures.  That's my idea of a Win Win situation!!!

A finger vibrator is optimal over a pocket rocket. Less work required.

And now they make one where three finger vibrators are attached from a small hand mounted device. More variety and the speed is adjustable.

For just a little more work, I've got this mighty little red pocket rocket that is pretty out of control!  Oh, and a standard one that is for when I'm too sensitive for something quite so intense, and the waterproof one...

I really don't think you could go wrong with one of these.

Netmichelle... now I think it's time to go to the toy store and get the finger vibe to see how it is!  Thanks for the recommendation.

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