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What's funny is that they are only buying the "illusion" of low volume
Bucky11 115 Reviews 5236 reads
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Many ladies advertise themselves as being "low volume". Low volume can mean different things to different people. Is it 1 friend per day, 4 per day, 8 per day?

Personally, I am fine as long as service is excellent, hygiene is on point, and the lady doesn't look disheveled.

lololancer 32 Reviews 89 reads
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I think it’s more of a marketing PLOY, but an effective one at that, IMO.
In a sense, the “pro” is indicating that she’s conscientious, and that she values the INDIVIDUAL session over a rote, assembly line, “wham bam, thank you ma’am” approach.  🤔

Drumguy25 23 Reviews 113 reads
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It holds as much weight as VIP, exclusive, highly rated, or any other marketing moniker....
Who knows what the truth is....
I would say low volume means however many clients she needs to make her nut at any given time, and it's more than likely meant to make you feel like you're treading on hallowed ground...for that day anyway.

JIMBOY 149 Reviews 84 reads
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inicky46 61 Reviews 112 reads
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Which means most of the OTHFBs on Twitter are obese.

MDSTUDS2003 93 reads
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Once a year I or virgin. Works a W-2 job on side.

lester_prairie 12 Reviews 77 reads
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JackDunphy 87 reads
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Why would I want to be with a girl who so few find her hot and skilled?

100ProofOfLV See Agency Profile 93 reads
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Some girls family, living or civilian work situations won't allow them to be available as much as other girls, hence the term low volume because they are more or less doing this on a part time basis. Sometimes it's as simple as that. They have a busy life outside of this business.

lololancer 32 Reviews 59 reads
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“Momma” aint raise NO fool!  😳
About as cogent, smart and HONEST a post as I’ve ever read here on “T.E.R.” (and don’t even bother mentioning Twitter!” 🙄).
“Sista-girl” got ONE (among many!) things right - gots to pay “your dues” before you come on the “market” DEMANDING “X” amount.  🧐
I’m gonna assume “Mya” gets what she asks because, 1. She’s got a proven track record; 2. Her customers leave SATISFIED.
Love when these ENTITLED “kids” come on here commanding “x” rate just BECAUSE.
GTFOH!  🤬
World don’t work that way, “kids!” 🙄

GaGambler 63 reads
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I was just getting used to you being the latest board piñata and then you have to go on a string of writing, rational, "reasonably" intelligible posts and I now I have to go find someone else to make fun of. lol

 
AAR, you are proof that you "can" come back from a very inauspicious start here on the boards. I had no problem blasting you when you were posting like a moron, I guess the least I can do is give you credit not that you've appeared to have stopped.

 
As for Mya, yeah "she is ok, and "kinda cute" and I certainly wish all the girls had her upbeat attitude. Now I better quit before some asshole accuses me of "sucking up" lol

lololancer 32 Reviews 53 reads
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My DEE... (sorry!) deepest apologies, “honorable” Gagambler.  😔
I failed to realize I only needed to FIG... (sorry, old habit! 🙁) figuratively “kiss the ring” of the great “ga (georgia!) gambler” in order to fall under his “good graces,” and THEN, and only then, would I be able to peaceably post my minor missives on this here site... this despite my being a member for ONLY 15 years! (CAPS intended!).  😲
Where were my manners?  🧐
Let that be a lesson to all you “young’uns” out there! 🤓
Just like in PRISON... the first day, look for the roughest, toughest S.O.B. in the yard, and then... kiss his ASS (or is it punch him in the NUTS?! I forget which... 🤔)
😆😂🤣

KnightDriver 3 Reviews 80 reads
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she is still fucking more guys than you would like to know

the only real low volume are men since you can only do it so much in one day before it just won't work unlike women whose hole is as good as long as her stamina and tolerance is.

36363jensen 4 Reviews 120 reads
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is we will probably go through these types of rehashing the old stupid discussions more frequently for a while.

Who cares. You looking for a virgin here?

The only issue is how well your session goes.

36363jensen 4 Reviews 58 reads
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lololancer 32 Reviews 92 reads
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GOOD, but not obvious, point.  🤔
This is why we should ENCOURAGE, rather than discourage, participation from EVERYONE on these boards, not just men/mongers/hobbyists.  🤓

GaGambler 81 reads
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I heard that even though you are a midget you are capable of taking several dicks up your ass in a typical work day.

 
I am sure your TAP isn't quite as resilient, but it's not like anyone could even feel it anyhow, right?

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 112 reads
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First thing that came to my mind, too, but you beat me to it.  Lol

OldRanger 62 Reviews 86 reads
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Think you ability to both elevate the experience ( beyond menu) and raise rates has made you a survivor in his business. Think it takes a special mentality to last beyond certain amount of time.
I would bet also that if your sessions today were the same as 2011 you would not have a myriad of happy clients.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 55 reads
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As you moved up the provider food chain from your humble start.  The ones that stand out for me are . . . .

1.   When guys have money, there is social aspect to seeing a provider, something you don't get at a low price point.  At the lower level, its ONLY about sex.  When the meeting is more than just the guy getting off, you are also more likely to get tips, and good ones at that.  

 
2.   Cultivating regulars is the best marketing strategy.  It takes much less marketing effort and cost to make another "sale" to an existing customer than it does to find and sell a NEW customer.   Regulars are more consistent in their tipping, and book multi-hour dates much more than new customers.  

 
3.    You have learned to put a little of your money in reserve so you don't have to do anything "desperate" during slow periods in your business.  Working girls need to be able to say "no" once in awhile to a new customer who doesn't "seem right"  (Could be wacko or LE).   If you are always in desperation mode, living John to John, you will need to see everyone who calls, regardless of anything suspicious.  

 
Kudos to you on your success story.  It should be inspiring to others.

TennGambler 19 Reviews 51 reads
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I would definitely see you for an hour if you came to Nashville and agreed to finish me orally.

herbtcat 6 Reviews 62 reads
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You only had to kiss his ring.....  
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Who knows how long it's been since he washed his ass?  :P  
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Life is good.

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 91 reads
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But I do say, who even cares?

I've noticed the more I look busy online, the more people want to book. The slower I look, the less interested people are.

If it were my choice, I'd have three a week. But I generally have about 5-7 dates per month, most of them multi-hour or extended, and a couple of arrangements are usually going on in between.

Sometimes, maybe 1-2 dates per month, and occasionally one month where I make enough to pay for three months' expenses while doing 1-2 dates thereafter.

Ebbs and flows, yadda yada yada...

So my friends always say, "I don't know why you're not getting any dates..." When I'm considerng it a busy month! Lol! (7 dates in a month is busy.)

Granted, that volume is actually by choice. I say no to a lot of people. I don't do last minute, my screening is harder, and I take deposits. (I do take same day nowadays, however, since I'm not a primary caregiver anymore... or on the days I don't have classes or am not out with family.)

So, people, when they actually see my schedule, are like - shit - she really has super low volume lol! How tf does she make money?

It's always been like that for me. I'm stubborn as fk, I like my things the way I like them, sure... I'd like to up the volume a bit to maybe 10 in a month... and things have changed that can achieve that and beyond... but to me, I don't really call my way as "low volume" as much as I call it "part time, plus arrangements."

So that's my life story, how has your day been going LOL

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lester_prairie 12 Reviews 84 reads
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It's so crowded, no one goes there anymore. -- Yogi Berra

lololancer 32 Reviews 45 reads
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VeryFriendly 256 Reviews 64 reads
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Back in the day of Craigslist and lady posted an ad that stated:  

I am a beautiful young lady "with very low mileage.'"

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coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 82 reads
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when you get your head down between her legs, it often looks like a retread.  

foguete69 38 Reviews 122 reads
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The only verifiable and meaningful def of low volume is...
she showers and washes that thang between appointments.

Oldtimemonger 88 reads
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LOL.  Nobody has *ever* been able to define " low volume." This is after approx six million threads about it spanning twenty years!

SirSmiley 56 Reviews 77 reads
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I do think that “Low Volume”, is a term used by a classier lady, with the pricing to match like Mya said. Whether they mean “Low Volume” because they have a nice civvie job, and want to get paid, fucked and left alone (mostly!); or just that they spread it around less then nasty crack whore doesn’t matter much. AND, I have noticed “Low Volume” ladies have the time to clean their room before taking pics!!! And they also matching bras and panties!

Robertini 4 Reviews 87 reads
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Black-Panther 62 reads
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Mya,

I truly think this is hands down the best post ever on TER. Thank you for sharing, greatly appreciated!

BP

CalliaAlexandra See my TER Reviews 55 reads
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Mya, thank you for your honesty.  

When I first joined TER I was young and didn't have a damn clue of how things worked. I had previously worked as a stripper, in a massage parlor and for a quasi-agency. I went independent and thought I knew what I was doing, I drew hard lines, listened to other people, and honestly just didn't enjoy myself very much. I was in college full time, didn't have the best attitude or business acumen, and turned down so many good potential regulars. Shame on me. I would call that stupid and "low volume" lol

This time around after being UTR for a few years, I get it. I put the effort in and I cultivate relationships as much as I can while still being professional and keeping those lines in place so no one has any hurt feelings. This leads to longer meetings which are better for me due to my "civie" career and other responsibilities. Due to this, I consider myself low volume. As a specific example, when touring I see maybe 3 people a day.  

I also would like to note that some gentlemen will request they be my only meeting that day and I am happy to HONESTLY accommodate that as they will compensate me for it by either booking longer, booking an outcall, or reimbursing me for the hotel. If I am not already scheduled, this is something that can happen. I know some guys have feelings about being the 2nd, 3rd, etc visitor of the day. That is their preference and I don't judge.

If I could be available and tour more, I absolutely would. I would take as many appointments as I could get and pad that nest egg. Just being honest.  

xo Callia

JackDunphy 63 reads
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Some think it's one guy per day, several per week, bc that is what SOME girls have said on this board over the years as THEIR definition of "low volume."

 
That is why this whole discussion is so silly. Who knows what you do, and how many times you do it, outside of our knowledge? IDK.

 
As long as you are clean down there, not worn out, pleasant and I am not standing in a line, I honestly don't care. Lol

 
Much like "GFE", "low volume" is just a marketing gimmick that doesn't have any real meaning, imo.

JIMBOY 149 Reviews 124 reads
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And, as you pointed out, this OP is a prime example. Maybe one way to battle against such posts is to reply with something simple like "Who gives a shit test - FAIL!" That probably won't have any effect on trolls but it might make some think twice about whether their pointless speculations and/or meaningless ruminations are really worth spending any time on.

JackDunphy 69 reads
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Things tend to repeat here, as there is only so many times we can discuss where to place the envelope and what color it needs to be.  

 
Sometimes fun train wrecks occur on the most innocuous thread starters, so you never know where an OP will eventually lead.

GaGambler 42 reads
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When was the last time we had a "dick size" or "no AA's" thread around here? Those were always good for a few laughs.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 81 reads
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Another valid equation is . .  . . .  Low volume = Ugly.  Some providers are low volume because they CHOOSE to be, and others are low volume because it just worked out that way.  

QueenBia See my TER Reviews 100 reads
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I have a career & kids, so if I am lucky I get 1 date a month.  lol Smile 4 me!  My goal is to have a dinner date every weekend.

CalliaAlexandra See my TER Reviews 78 reads
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"AND, I have noticed “Low Volume” ladies have the time to clean their room before taking pics!!! And they also matching bras and panties!"  

HAHA love this and it's so true! I always clean up  and put some effort into my outfits ;) Thanks for the detailed observation and giving me giggle to start my day SirSmiley, glad it is noticed. xox
Posted By: SirSmiley
Re: low volume
I do think that “Low Volume”, is a term used by a classier lady, with the pricing to match like Mya said. Whether they mean “Low Volume” because they have a nice civvie job, and want to get paid, fucked and left alone (mostly!); or just that they spread it around less then nasty crack whore doesn’t matter much. AND, I have noticed “Low Volume” ladies have the time to clean their room before taking pics!!! And they also matching bras and panties!

CalliaAlexandra See my TER Reviews 80 reads
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Well darn, thanks for bursting my bubble. Here I thought I was low volume. (smile)

No, you are totally correct in that everyone has a different opinion. I agree with your entire post. No one wants to pay to see someone who looks exhausted, unkempt, and has a dirty kitty : /  

Ultimately, it is about your own fantasy fulfilling experience when you are with the provider you choose, regardless of if they see 1 person or 100 people that day. You should always feel like you are #1 when with her.

OldRanger 62 Reviews 108 reads
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Not sure what low volume is, but I know that when the massage provider is changing the sheets for the next client before I am dressed or even barely off the table she is high volume.

Foodyguy 29 Reviews 95 reads
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You do not want to feel like if she was just a little busier she would have a take a number dispenser outside the door.

imanalias 46 reads
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While she has yet to attain the rates you mentioned the justification is the market accepted her increase and changed the types of clients she got, more generous gentleman then the low budget guys.

I always felt those who can afford paying those prices probably appreciate they are lower volume and not seeing low budget guys.

GaGambler 69 reads
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Some, ok a LOT of guys think that women who charge more necessarily see less clients, but they have ZERO idea how many guys she's actually seeing.

 
That said I think we are all at least a little bit guilty of a bit of prejudice where it comes to price. There is a certain black girl in Dallas who even in 2020 charges $200 hr on P 411, I am sure a LOT of guys look at her ad and think "tramp" and skip right by her. I will confess I had a lot of hesitations before booking with her, but I was VERY pleasantly surprised. OTOH some of the most entitled women who provided the most lackluster sessions in my experience have been on the opposite end of the rate spectrum.

 
That said, I would have to agree that not only "some" guys, I would say that MOST believe rightly or wrongly, that higher rates equate to a higher quality companion. I just don't happen to share that opinion. I like "well grounded" women, who aren't too full of themselves, I find that the higher the posted rate, the higher the "entitlement quotient" seems to be.

GaGambler 88 reads
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but for the last couple of years it's been the wild wild west in the P4P world and there really were no consequences for horrible service at outrageously high prices except for the lack of repeat visits.

 
IMO this is what's accounting for the huge amount of push back on TER from the TWATTER crowd, they LIKE it the way it's been, and they HATE the fact that clients have recourse once again. OTOH, good providers like yourself, with "fair" rates and great reviews should welcome the fact that the more the bad providers are shunned, the more in demand the good providers will become.

 
BTW speaking of our $200 hr provider in Dallas, on my second visit to see her I did make the typical male mistake of "mansplaining" to her how much below market she was charging, she "very politely" told me to mind my own business, not in so many words of course, but that was the gist of her reply. She is still on P 411, still charging $200 hr and apparently very happy with her life the way it is. Hmmm, come to think of it, I haven't seen her in a few months, it's probably time for a return visit. She's actually very hot and provides a great session regardless of what she charges.

Sexysophia91 See my TER Reviews 68 reads
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Posted By: CalliaAlexandra
Re: Matching Bra and Panties
"AND, I have noticed “Low Volume” ladies have the time to clean their room before taking pics!!! And they also matching bras and panties!"  
   
 HAHA love this and it's so true! I always clean up  and put some effort into my outfits ;) Thanks for the detailed observation and giving me giggle to start my day SirSmiley, glad it is noticed. xox
Posted By: SirSmiley
Re: low volume  
 I do think that “Low Volume”, is a term used by a classier lady, with the pricing to match like Mya said. Whether they mean “Low Volume” because they have a nice civvie job, and want to get paid, fucked and left alone (mostly!); or just that they spread it around less then nasty crack whore doesn’t matter much. AND, I have noticed “Low Volume” ladies have the time to clean their room before taking pics!!! And they also matching bras and panties!

thats fucking hilarious and very true. Low volume basically means more for a better experience and this particular provider would be doing multiple hour dates of course. But it is true "Low Volume"girls do have the extra time to clean up their background and match their lingerie (might i even say its not old and ugly either)

adelinedare See my TER Reviews 94 reads
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I consider myself to be low volume. Three a day is typically my limit. I like to provide an exceptional level of service and i can't do that seeing 7 people a day. I dont know how girls do that

justsauce16 4 Reviews 72 reads
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I'd imagine it'd be pretty trivial, if a little cardio intensive, to just do the pornstar bunny thing 7+ times a day. Heck, I did that, albeit just 4 times, last Saturday with some rando tinder girl, all while getting over a headcold, and I'm far from a professional.

So like, mechanically? Totally possible. With your 'salt of the earth' passionate subtext that you're spinning up? probably not, but only because that's alot of mental/emotional energy to be exerting.

GaGambler 67 reads
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She would be highly disappointed if she "only" had three or four appointments in a day, she was much happier at around six or seven and she ALWAYS had plenty of "gas in the tank" for me at night. I can't remember even a single time where she turned me down for sex because she was "too tired" like many hooker GF's do.

 
Lets face it the average john probably spends less than ten minutes actually fucking during an hour session, from what I've heard from both my hooker GF's and my hooker buddies, a lot of them are even quicker than that. So seven sessions equals an hour of actual fucking.

 
I would have to say that no hooker is high volume in my book unless she fucks more than me, and most of the answers here have been considerably less than me.

CamilleUK See my TER Reviews 70 reads
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...it’s all relative
At the higher price points I charged I saw maybe 3 or 4 gents a month at the most. At a lower price point I saw perhaps 15 a month. Some would say both of those numbers are low volume others would say the latter is high. If there isn’t an agreed bench mark that everyone works from there is no such thing as high or low volume...

BathtubGin 32 Reviews 57 reads
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No AA's was always my favorite!

justsauce16 4 Reviews 85 reads
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I've certainly been with women who get sore easily. Give em an hour or two of action and they're out of commission for a day or so, and they'll probably have difficulty walking afterwards. Doesn't really count as "high volume" though.

 

 I guess I hadn't considered that most johns are two-pump-chumps, but then, maybe that's why they aren't getting any from their wives, the logic pans out at least, but I'm not judging.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 98 reads
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is that they are soooo hot when they are dating you, but once the wedding day passes, its like that hot woman slowly dies and you are left in 3-5 years with a frumpy MILF, so enter P4P with all the hot young women you can afford, and you're happy again.  If you're careful, no need to consider the nuclear option of divorce.  

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 64 reads
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That's why smart men don't let their wives control the family finances.  Once a wife gets control, you are little more than another one of her kids.   As GaG said recently on one of his posts, there are guys bringing in a quarter million a year, and their wife gives them $100/wk for lunches.  Any other money they want, they have to beg for.  If you are this guy,  why should she give you sex, too?  She already has you by the balls.

GaGambler 92 reads
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Yes, it can be expensive, but so are most worthwhile things in life.

 
I try not to judge how other people live their lives, but I see how almost every guy on TER lives his life as a lie, scared to tell ANYONE, not even his best friends about what he does behind his wife's back. I am sorry, I am many things, not all of them good, but I HATE to lie, and I can't imagine lying non stop to the woman in my life that I profess to love and who I claim is the most important person in my life.

 
Sorry CDL, but I don't need to be careful, I much prefer to be free.

coeur-de-lion 400 Reviews 85 reads
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When you have children, its a nuclear option.  If you don't have kids, its not.  That's the primary reason there are so many married guys that are in the P4P arena.  Its not because they are whipped or cowards, its because they have kids.  If I never had children, I would agree with every word you said.

maxon1000 98 Reviews 60 reads
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Thankyou for probably one of the most honest assessments of your mindset and insight I have read from a companion in this hobby  

AllbSure 16 Reviews 77 reads
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Agreed and I hope to be free like you someday. For today I have to be careful.. starting over with no money will pretty much kill my p4p for a few years.. not to mention my soul..

Jacque_Jenesais See my TER Reviews 95 reads
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I know a few ladies who really do well with the last minute markets and they're usually pretty slammed with requests.

You just have to know how to work the market and keep bumping ads, pay more for ads/put them at the top, be constantly visible.

But as far as touring, yeah, lots of people don't like it here. I'm starting to travel again. It's kind of neat, a lot of my Chicago regulars travel and sometimes we see each other in different states when I tour.

I've noticed most of my market here are guys traveling in from places I've toured.

This business is so weird.

Boobsman100 20 Reviews 82 reads
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GaGambler 91 reads
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It was the best decision I ever made, it undid the worst decision I ever made. lol

 
My advice to anyone hopelessly "out of love" with their spouse is do it NOW, not "someday" the longer you wait, the more intertwined your finances will become and the harder it will be to start over. I could have thought of a thousand reasons to put off my divorce, my ex wife was more than willing to continue living in the purgatory we found ourselves in. I could have easily still be married today, sneaking around on my wife and living my life as a lie, NO THANK YOU!!! You can't put a price on freedom once  you have reached the undeniable fact that there is no "fixing" your marriage. Now for those of you who still think you can find happiness with the person you are married to, you are in a different situation than what I describe. I am talking to the people who are ONLY remaining in their marriages because of financial reasons, or even worse "for the children"

TheVoiceOfReason 104 reads
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Kinda a BS term used for marketing.  Many ladies *claim* to be low volume just like many ladies *claim* to have advanced degrees and such.  Usually just marketing so that they could charge more.  A higher (or lower) rate isn't necessarily indicative of volume.  Many ladies have multiple ads/profiles.  Sometimes at different price points.  Anywhoo, it might be easier to describe what it isn't.  The worst is when you knock on the door and the lady is chewing gum.  Odds are that lady just finished an appointment, didn't give herself 30 minutes between appointments, and well you dunno where that mouth was 10 minutes ago.  Definitely not low volume.  

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