if that doesn't wash the "homo" off of you, nothing will. lol

Seriously, there isn't much that you can do at this point. I don't honestly know what I would do faced with a potential "crying game" situation. My guess is that in your position, I would not want to know.

Go get drunk and follow my original advice and you'll be fine, but if you have any sudden urges to start humming show tunes, then it will be time to worry. rofl

You say you had suspicions but you went ahead anyway. Chalk it up as an "interesting" experience and move on. You are doing the right thing by not outing her since you really have no absolute proof of anything.

Since you gave few details, there's no way of knowing anything.  But it is possible that she was a hermaphrodite and was born with both sex organs, such as a clitoris and testicles.

I'm not a medical professional, but I know these cases can cover a wide range of possibilities.  The easy ones are when the person is clearly male or female, with the exception of the extra equipment.  But sometimes it's not so clear and things get more complicated, including needing to take hormones for the rest of their life.

The reason I'm aware of this situation is I once dated a beautiful woman with all the right female parts- hips, waist, breasts, and the right size female frame etc.  But, she had what I would call a very shallow vagina- one that was either undeveloped, or perhaps reconstructed.  She would give me oral for one hour or two hours until I was totally spent (I'm NOT making this up) because she was afraid of vaginal sex.  The few times I did attempt vaginal sex, it was difficult for me and uncomfortable for her.  Her vagina was at most 3 or 4" deep, so I had to be extremely careful and could never get more than halfway inside her.

Years later I dated a woman who was a Ph.D. sex therapist and she's the one that suggested this lady might have been a hermaphrodite.  Whatever the truth in your situation, I wouldn't worry about it because you can't change the past.  You had a good time, so move on.

“She’s one of those providers that is absolutely uninhibited with the most passionate of DFKs, her BBBJs are mind-altering, and her athleticism in difficult positions is phenomenal.”    

That puts her at the top of my “must see” list



“She doesn’t generally allow DATY.  This was no problem for me, since the only time I like giving it is if it is appreciated, otherwise I regard it as a waste of my clock time.”

I agree with you in every way, so far.



“I had some fairly immediate thoughts that she was a TS.

I would think you would be able to tell by the shape or her ass, size of her hands…etc.

The shape of her ass would be the deciding factor for me.  If her ass looks like a man’s I would pay a cancellation fee at the door.

... Fucking many many women and getting drunk.

Very good advice... and a panacea... nonetheless, lol

I mean when in bad mood, drowning one's problems and sorrows in liquor with a bunch of buddies usually takes care of it quicker than sitting home alone drinking juice.

And for fucking 20  women back to back, lol
My back would hurt and end up in a wheelchair  if I went at it so many times back to back.
Most I did was 8 back to back stopped for a week cuz I started having severe back pain and muscle aches. lol

As to the OP for having it analyzed, I'd guess that it would require either a very powerful microscope/sem/etc or some kind of lab test. I have access to a variety of former but not the latter. But since I'll have no idea wtf I'm looking at or what to look for  in order to determine gender, it's absolutely useless to me. lmao

...asks if they are pre-op or post op. If the OP would review her, she'd have to be classified as a post-op TS on TER (if he knew for sure).

I don't think I would want to know, after the fourth or fifth girl and the fourth or fifth fifth, I would have convinced myself that either she was a "real" woman or that it never happene in the first place. lol

I am sure I couldn't do twenty women back to back to back either, the most I can remember doing in recent memory was forty over a ten day period, I really couldn't remember all of them, but I counted all the "extra person" charges on my hotel bill at the Del Rey.

I doubt I will ever get close to that number in so short a period ever again in my life. not because I wouldn't want to, I just doubt that I am still physically capable.

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I’m doing this under a new alias for reasons that should become clear.  I’m writing this thread both for opinions and for impressions, not suggestions, as I have already made my decisions.

I’m a moderately experienced hobbier, and this thread is in regard to my visits with a pretty highly rated provider (8.7/7.9 in about 20 reviews going back several years).  I’m not going to give her name and I’m going to alter any descriptions just enough to make it hard to guess her identity.  I don’t usually visit providers more than once, since variety is my spice.  In her case, she was so friggin’ talented that, when I happened to be in the same town she was touring again, I had to see her.  She’s one of those providers that is absolutely uninhibited with the most passionate of DFKs, her BBBJs are mind-altering, and her athleticism in difficult positions is phenomenal.   One leeeetle thing, though:  She doesn’t generally allow DATY.  This was no problem for me, since the only time I like giving it is if it is appreciated, otherwise I regard it as a waste of my clock time.  Another thing about me, I have a pretty extensive background in sciences.  

Anyway, when I initially met her, I sensed that her voice modulation was kind of tight and with just a hint of lisp.  Also, her body is feminine in every way, but fairly tall.  By now, you can probably see where I’m going on this, so I’ll just get it out of the way:  I had some fairly immediate thoughts that she was a TS.  As noted, I let the session progress and, as noted, it was incredible; so much so that I saw her again.  It was then that my suspicions were further bolstered.  Though there was again no DATY, I did some digital exploring and discovered what I believe to be a truly masterful surgical effort.  To shorten this otherwise long story, this time I sequestered away the condom and kept it for a few days debating on whether to have it analyzed.  In the end, I decided to toss it and leave the issue alone.  

I’m a fairly liberal and accepting guy, but the thought of personal homosexuality makes me whither like a spider on a hot rock.  This experience has therefore left me a bit conflicted.  Clearly, I am not going to out this provider, as she already has somewhat of a following and really is a star at what she does.   Furthermore, I’m not likely to see her again, but this is mostly because I rarely repeat.   As mentioned, I’m writing this thread for general interest and to hear other impressions.

As one professor to another,(if I'm wright) just another learning, or life experience for better or worse. I once picked up a (tall) street walker & to this day I still don't know, even after getting it in...

A protruding Adam's Apple used to be a strong give-away but they can even shave down the cartilage and make it more feminine these days.

As for yourself, what's done is done, you can't change the past and it isn't worth going back to do a gender test: http://www.hhmi.org/biointeractive/gendertest/gendertest.html

From your aliased post, I'd say you're OK. Carry on!

So just enjoy it for the good time it was, if your now uncomfortable, don't see her again.  The fact that you now question her nature does not mean anything rubbed off on you to change your inclinations.  

Your thread title is interesting as I do not perceive this to be a challenge to your masculinity.  The sex you had was clinically heterosexual.  Your provider gender identifies as female and if she were biological male at one point in her life, she is not now.  She was a child once too, but that does not make you a pedophile.   Your squeamishness is understandable given the stigma and hostility of being TS or associated with them engenders.  I applaud your efforts to protect her identity.  If she has successfully transitioned, she does not deserve having her hard fought gender identity needlessly questioned.  

I see and review TS providers.  I identify them as female even though the sex act is obviously different.  If you forced me to label myself, I would probably identify as bisexual, although many men that see TS providers consider themselves heterosexual.   I mention my experience only to contrast it with your own.  You were clearly attracted to a female where my own attractions are more confused.  That you are uneasy now due to your suspicions is likely a result of deep ingrained fears of homosexuality and the social stigma associated with it.   I hope anyone reading this very informative thread would translate your experience into empathy for those that are TS and live with this unease from others every day.

Is a Male...

Maybe it might show she has high doses of estrogen injection though, but I wouldn't know.

I got nothing against TS, people are free to do as they wish. I admittedly have never seen one since I prefer real females. It has less to do with not accepting them as female but more to do with modern technology not being advanced enough to transform them 100% into a real female... All of which are necessary in removing the stigmas: able to conceive, ovulate, sound like a female with higher pitched voice, no big adams apple, post-op scars, etc.

After seeing a gender change operation, turning the penis into a vagina... I was kinda grossed out though. The first thought that went though my mind was, "Not too sure if I wanna stick my sick in it." Lol
But the end result was rather miraculous in another sense... Still grossed out but it made me think, wow science has come a long way if modern medicine is capable of doing such a thing that totally goes against  what nature intended.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WOwp3IBQ_Sc

I still prefer a real female, but maybe my mind would change if she looks smoking hot and near flawless like some celebrities. Jessica Biel, Alba, angelina jolie, Scarlett Johanson etc etc,...
And she has to sound like a real female.

After all, I do believe that science is capable of, some day in the near future, creating the most perfect bodacious babe out of who was once a man.... But my hunch is that we're not quite there yet. Hence the stigma...

i would submit a review based on how the provider gender identifies.   if she wanted to ID as GG, i would comply.   it has no impact in my case though, as with TER reviews, the first review defines all of those parameters.   I will never be the first reviewer of anyone.