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serpius 316 reads
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... doesn't make sense at all.

You say that you're divorced from that snooping ex-wife, but yet she STILL snoops around your stuff?

Unless you gave her your TER password, the ex-wife has no way of knowing your TER ID unless you told her.

You need to clarify your post,

Serpius

Posted By: russbbj
I use my alias because my original screenname I chose before I met my ex wife (I'm a member since 2005, although I didn't start hobbying until after my divorce). My ex wife knows that screenname and she still snoops in my stuff even though we are divorced (snooping was one of the things that led to my leaving her). So, the reason I use my alias is more to evade her snooping and not to decieve or evade anyone in here. As with anything, there are more reasons people do things than what you think. It's too broad of a brush that you are painting with.

Genie2471907 reads


Yup I've been saying I need to sign up for a while. Finally did and past the inspection they do on us. Feels good! Now I need to find you men who are a member also to try it out lol

Women and men here, do you all like that site and does it help you out a lot?

Genie

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Duplicitouslust497 reads

It does help tremendously because the verification site is extremely well know in the circles of the hobby. Also it is quick and is a good alternative to just giving the last two providers that you have seen.  Also usually the women on there are good about approving you if the date is okay. However it is good to have a number of encounters under your belt before you do apply for membership because it makes the process of your online application faster.

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macdaddy1944528 reads

checked it out..looks great..hopefully you get a lot of appointment requests now..add a few pics to the one you have already..get on that first page under 'top listing'..that always helps..good luck..i like Mickey Mouse too..

Posted By: Genie247

Yup I've been saying I need to sign up for a while. Finally did and past the inspection they do on us. Feels good! Now I need to find you men who are a member also to try it out lol

Women and men here, do you all like that site and does it help you out a lot?

Genie

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juliewantsu551 reads

The days are numbered for that board

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macdaddy1944603 reads

another malcontent...their days are numbered...

Posted By: juliewantsu
The days are numbered for that board
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STPhomer438 reads

would you mind clarifying?

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polite_visitor456 reads

Someone has been attacking the p411 - DDOS attacks, spoofed emails, etc... With his anti-hobby attitude - and bragging about getting on a blacklist site - maybe this poster is the one behind it.

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AliasForGoodAndEvil458 reads

P411 is a great asset.  Highly secure and tough to get in...for good reasons.  

I don't know the full details, but understand some women or agencies were "asked to leave" in recent months.  The reasons for doing this included fake photos in their profile and/or other credibility issues.  

The kind of people that use fake photos are the same kind of people who are highly vindictive.

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serpius372 reads

... are the ones that are vindictive.

Hiding like a coward behind an alias is a surefire way to have your so called opinion totally ignored.

Serpius

Posted By: AliasForGoodAndEvil
P411 is a great asset.  Highly secure and tough to get in...for good reasons.  

I don't know the full details, but understand some women or agencies were "asked to leave" in recent months.  The reasons for doing this included fake photos in their profile and/or other credibility issues.  

The kind of people that use fake photos are the same kind of people who are highly vindictive.

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AliasForGoodAndEvil355 reads

Go ahead and hit the "ignore" button big boy.

I don't need to ignore you.  You have just labeled yourself.

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jeanvaljean24601309 reads

Hysterical...like you use this as your everyday name?

And since you have used more handles/aliases than most posters here...hypocrite  :(

When a member puts up their real legal names and such, then all you have are these fake names...right?

So get the ball started Serpius...put up your real name, pics, real contact info (as in NOT a hobby email or phone).

I'm waiting  LOL

Posted By: serpius
... are the ones that are vindictive.

Hiding like a coward behind an alias is a surefire way to have your so called opinion totally ignored.

Serpius
Posted By: AliasForGoodAndEvil
P411 is a great asset.  Highly secure and tough to get in...for good reasons.  

I don't know the full details, but understand some women or agencies were "asked to leave" in recent months.  The reasons for doing this included fake photos in their profile and/or other credibility issues.  

The kind of people that use fake photos are the same kind of people who are highly vindictive.

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serpius250 reads

... behind an alias.

Therefore, your posts in the forums are meaningless.

Serpius

Posted By: jeanvaljean24601
Hysterical...like you use this as your everyday name?

And since you have used more handles/aliases than most posters here...hypocrite  :(

When a member puts up their real legal names and such, then all you have are these fake names...right?

So get the ball started Serpius...put up your real name, pics, real contact info (as in NOT a hobby email or phone).

I'm waiting  LOL
Posted By: serpius
... are the ones that are vindictive.

Hiding like a coward behind an alias is a surefire way to have your so called opinion totally ignored.

Serpius
Posted By: AliasForGoodAndEvil
P411 is a great asset.  Highly secure and tough to get in...for good reasons.  

I don't know the full details, but understand some women or agencies were "asked to leave" in recent months.  The reasons for doing this included fake photos in their profile and/or other credibility issues.  

The kind of people that use fake photos are the same kind of people who are highly vindictive.

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russbbj302 reads

I use my alias because my original screenname I chose before I met my ex wife (I'm a member since 2005, although I didn't start hobbying until after my divorce). My ex wife knows that screenname and she still snoops in my stuff even though we are divorced (snooping was one of the things that led to my leaving her). So, the reason I use my alias is more to evade her snooping and not to decieve or evade anyone in here. As with anything, there are more reasons people do things than what you think. It's too broad of a brush that you are painting with.

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serpius317 reads

... doesn't make sense at all.

You say that you're divorced from that snooping ex-wife, but yet she STILL snoops around your stuff?

Unless you gave her your TER password, the ex-wife has no way of knowing your TER ID unless you told her.

You need to clarify your post,

Serpius

Posted By: russbbj
I use my alias because my original screenname I chose before I met my ex wife (I'm a member since 2005, although I didn't start hobbying until after my divorce). My ex wife knows that screenname and she still snoops in my stuff even though we are divorced (snooping was one of the things that led to my leaving her). So, the reason I use my alias is more to evade her snooping and not to decieve or evade anyone in here. As with anything, there are more reasons people do things than what you think. It's too broad of a brush that you are painting with.

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Posted By: serpius
... doesn't make sense at all.

You say that you're divorced from that snooping ex-wife, but yet she STILL snoops around your stuff?

Unless you gave her your TER password, the ex-wife has no way of knowing your TER ID unless you told her.

You need to clarify your post,

Serpius
Yes, he said so here:
Posted By: russbbj
I use my alias because my original screenname I chose before I met my ex wife (I'm a member since 2005, although I didn't start hobbying until after my divorce). My ex wife knows that screenname...

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russbbj246 reads

All she would have to do is get her own membership for $25 and search for my original handle, then she would see all my reviews. Now, why would she do that being that we are divorced? That still baffles me, it's what broke us up and it's clearly over but this is who she is.

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Posted By: Genie247

Yup I've been saying I need to sign up for a while. Finally did and past the inspection they do on us. Feels good! Now I need to find you men who are a member also to try it out lol

Women and men here, do you all like that site and does it help you out a lot?

Genie

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TrulyMsMocha370 reads



-- Modified on 11/10/2012 8:54:39 PM

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Genie247319 reads


Well that's good to hear. I wasn't sure what site to join, they both seemed the same. It was kind of a eenie meenie thing for me

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TrulyMsMocha292 reads

....if I really really had to pick lol I might like date-check a tiny bit more.

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TrulyMsMocha262 reads

...then on date-check we can add visiting dates for different areas without paying and on p411 you have to pay for visiting ads IF you don't do enough signups/referrals already and their message board to advertise on date-check is free vs on p411 ad boards you have to pay for each area you want to advertise in also. Small differences but can be big sometimes.

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natashalynne293 reads

(This is copied from a post on the Newbie board I wrote in August)

1.  P411's layout is more intuitive and ad-free.  Date-check is a clusterfuck of ads.

2.  The okays are monitored by Gina (the owner).  You cannot be subjected to a vindictive 'do not see' just because you write a less than flattering review.  Either you get the okay, or we have to explain to Gina why not.  We also do not have the option of not responding.  At the same time, I trust Gina to listen to reasons for not giving an okay, and to remove someone who is not safe.

3.  Gina holds providers accountable to be professional.  If you send an appointment request, or an okay request, we must respond within X number days (4 maybe? - not sure) or our account gets suspended.  It helps weed out the flakes.  Many girls bitch about this requirement - I think it's good.

4.  Gina is transparent with the issues she has had.  When accounts have been compromised by LE, she has posted the details on her site.  I have never seen anything like that from DC, and yet I'm sure they have had similar issues which they just pretend didn't happen.  It opens Gina up to scrutiny, and sometimes people use her transparency against her, but she maintains her integrity as far as I'm concerned.

5.  The P411 encrypting is significantly better - and in my relatively uneducated opinion - safer - than Date-check.

Just my .02, which probably isn't worth that.  

-- Modified on 11/12/2012 6:29:35 AM

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London Rayne298 reads

Date-Check is just too easy to be on and get verified, so that in itself makes you wonder. The only thing I like better is the option for giving a reference there. It is not just "ok" but you can flat out put a ncns or "Do NOT recommend" for other women to see, and I like that feature. 411 is more red tape to get verified which is GOOD for the provider. It shows Gina does not just allow anyone to be on her site, and that is worth more in the end.

-- Modified on 11/12/2012 3:15:48 PM

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SoftlySarah324 reads

One interesting thing I have noticed is that I don't get any traffic from P411 on my stats, but I have booked an appointment or two from there. On the other hand, I get significant of traffic from DC, but have never had a serious inquiry from there.

I also like the idea that it is harder to get on P411. But I really appreciate that we have both services. I am glad I do not have to choose between them. :)

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SoftlySarah240 reads

Thank you, Natashalynne! That was a great list, and I tend to concur. I am happy to know that Gina is so professional about this, and it makes me more comfortable with the system of a third party screening thing.

Thanks for posting that! :)

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cwillzx325 reads

being on your list of try-outs Genie.  
I am brand new to P411, having been referred by a recent provider. With the help of another favorite provider, got my plus two status in no time. So far so good.

Posted By: Genie247

Yup I've been saying I need to sign up for a while. Finally did and past the inspection they do on us. Feels good! Now I need to find you men who are a member also to try it out lol

Women and men here, do you all like that site and does it help you out a lot?

Genie

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Genie247283 reads


Well bring it on honey! You might be my first ok. Depending on where you are located.
Call or email me anytime hun

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beach6216349 reads

I didn't have good luck with DC at all.  Signed up on P411 with no problem whatsoever and have had great luck with it.  It's all I'll use from now on.

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SoftlySarah252 reads

What do you mean by  not having good luck? Did ladies not accept it? Did you not meet anyone there (if that's even what you're referring to)?

Sorry- asking all these questions because I have no idea what the differences are and would love to learn more! :)

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Tamara G346 reads

is that Gina and co. are caring and careful, and there are some lovely men to meet on there!

Tamara G x

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earthshined415 reads

is that, at least in my experience, ladies that have strict screening requirements( and by that I mean their websites say you HAVE to provide such and such info to be verified) will take your membership and provider ok's as sufficient screening to see you.And, in some cases WITHOUT looking at your profile.

The "provider view" shows your ok's but i'm not sure some of the ladies actually contact the providers to verify.

btw, I ONLY use P411 providers because I don't do BP or Eros and I won't fill out online website verification/appt request forms that require employment info.

Posted By: Genie247

Yup I've been saying I need to sign up for a while. Finally did and past the inspection they do on us. Feels good! Now I need to find you men who are a member also to try it out lol

Women and men here, do you all like that site and does it help you out a lot?

Genie

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USGrantlover311 reads

LOVE IT. Never had a bad date off it.

Posted By: Genie247

Yup I've been saying I need to sign up for a while. Finally did and past the inspection they do on us. Feels good! Now I need to find you men who are a member also to try it out lol

Women and men here, do you all like that site and does it help you out a lot?

Genie

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SoftlySarah264 reads

Neither have I!

Actually, I have never had a date off of Date Check. So P411 has been good to me.

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