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liamdoherty 25 Reviews 568 reads
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Researching is fun and can be hot as hell....if there is something that turns me off i'm gone going to the next one.
I usually find them innocuously and check them out ahead of time.....get pre-screened and all, then we're on each other's list.  I have a long list so it's difficult to keep them all happy. ;-)

I used to be nervous, but the erotic and playful banter eases that these days.
Posted By: CurlyW - Nats Fan
All the guys on the board love sex. Otherwise we won't be here..  
   
 But what about the process?  
   
 The process of researching a new provider. Going back and forth on the emails/PMs. Waiting while she verifies you, or at least says she is verifying you? Then having the first time jitters when you are about to meet someone brand new...Then coming home writing a review....  
   
 That's the process I am talking about..  
   
 I used to hate the process when I was younger in 20s, but now in the 2nd inning of my hobbying life, I am digging it. I used to hobby much on impulse, but these days I can plan weeks, if not months in advance.    
   
 How many guys feel the same way, or am I just a lonesome nerd...:D  
 

SinCitySinner2132 reads

All the guys on the board love sex. Otherwise we won't be here..  

But what about the process?

The process of researching a new provider. Going back and forth on the emails/PMs. Waiting while she verifies you, or at least says she is verifying you? Then having the first time jitters when you are about to meet someone brand new...Then coming home writing a review....

That's the process I am talking about..  

I used to hate the process when I was younger in 20s, but now in the 2nd inning of my hobbying life, I am digging it. I used to hobby much on impulse, but these days I can plan weeks, if not months in advance.    

How many guys feel the same way, or am I just a lonesome nerd...:

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mrfisher792 reads

communicating and anticipation are all part of the enjoyment of the hobby.

But on the other hand, there is a lot to be said for maintaining long term relations with really good providers too.

I try to do both.

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guybeingaguy658 reads

I like sex. I get horny. I call a hooker . She sucks my dick and leaves ...........It's what I paid her to do !
Do NOT stay past the time I paid for. Do NOT send me emails before our fuck session ! Do NOT text me while your getting ready ! I myself personally hate that crap and have cancelled due to those very things.
Did I ask you to send me a picture of yourself getting ready - NO ! Did I ask for 20 damn emails prior to our meeting ? NO !!!
You are a hooker - I am going to fuck you then pay you then you leave - what is so fucking difficult to understand.
Does your dentist send you emails 20 emails before an appointment? Doctor? Dry cleaners? Computer guy? Pool guy? I pay all these "professionals" to perform a service and they seem to get it, but fucking hookers don't - WTF ????
My Porsche and Corvette mechanics seem to get it. I love fast cars. I set an appointment for service work to be done. They don't email me 20 fucking times asking me what type of oil. What tire pressure to inflate to. Should we wash and vacuum it ?
WTF ?
A GOOD mechanic already knows the oil and tire pressure and understands a wash and vacuum will be appreciated.
A good damn hooker knows to enter room, tell me I have a giant dick, scream and call me "daddy", and exactly at the appointed time - GET THE FUCK OUT ! No text and phone calls after you left either - FUCK. If I wanted to hear a womans thoughts (or cared) I would have a wife and would not need a prostitute !
I don't pay them for sex, I pay them to fucking leave !
They are NOT my girlfriend, they are a HOOKER that I pay to fuck and then leave - NOT too difficult !
I think maybe prostitutes/ hookers should go and get ASE certified because my mechanic seems to get it.
You guys find some sort of "fun" in the hunt....Again I myself don't see it. I see a picture, click on a link , I thinks shes hot, THEN I gotta go do some damn work to find out if she can suck a good cock, won't leave with my money, will show up on time and has all her teeth - FUN ? Yeah OK.....For me it's a fucking hassle !
Why in the world you want emails or conversation with her is beyond me, but to each his own I guess....



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SoftlySarah531 reads

Same way. My issue is with his language. Ick

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SoftlySarah534 reads

I take issue with more than his language. I take issue with the fact that he has such a miserable, hateful, and condescending attitude towards providers. This attitude is what media would have you believe most men have towards sex workers, which I have honestly- prior to coming to TER- only seen in the media that tell you that. I have been very privileged to have not experienced such a human being in person. I have experienced a very veiled and subtle condescension, but only twice in many, many years. But I would never have imagined that too many men really feel this way towards the women who open their arms and legs to them.  

We are human beings. Not machines. And you men are all different- as is evidenced by this thread. Why get so angry because your provider is doing for you what umpteen million men before you have praised providers for??? Why the anger??? Why not just look for someone who specifically says "NO GFE" on their ads or sites???  

Don't blame the provider, blame yourself. You're the one who hired her. Do your darned research and quit bitching. Same thing I told Pants for much the same screed.

Honestly- sometimes I just feel the need to bathe after reading TER. ICK.

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common_sense571 reads

And I don't think I want my ladies certified by the same group that certified my car mechanic.  Just saying.

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littlecheddar53589 reads

I love doing the research on providers and reading the new reviews every morning before going to work.  Quite honestly I spend way to much time doing that and checking the regional ad and discussion boards.  It is almost an addiction I guess.  It is frustrating though after reading a great review and thinking "I would really like to see that lady" and then finding out that she is out of my budget range.  The process is sure fun though.  Also it is always fun reading the reviews of the providers  I have seen.  Although it is frustrating to see that everyone, except me, can last at least a half hour and make the lady orgasm 5 times!!

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SinCitySinner612 reads

that one gets from seeing a regular, but I am finding out these days that personally speaking, the first time excitement triumphs the former.  

It may be a function of the fact that I only hobby once a month or once every couple of months...

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lungman586 reads

we"WOULDN'T" be here?
Lonesome nerd? ( never mind )

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cspatz657 reads

opefully the appt will be also. I am not spontaneous in the sense of same day appts. I have never done that. I set things up a few days in advance.

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PhillyAbbey636 reads

As a provider, I love the process as well.  I look forward to meeting someone new, having that connection and keeping in touch.

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macdaddy1944586 reads

true..all men are hunters..always were..always will be..each hunter has his own personal " process "..cavemen used clubs..we use computers..the quarry is always the same..sweet enjoyable pussy..

Posted By: cspatz
 
 Hopefully the appt will be also. I am not spontaneous in the sense of same day appts. I have never done that. I set things up a few days in advance.

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adrianamonet550 reads

No worries.. We are all slaves to the chemical synaptic process.  

I have to admit meeting a new gent can be highly endorphic! --- but then again, I also adore the long term connections I have made. Isn't that what the hobby is about? The various series of connections and collisions...

 
Disclaimer:  
I just finished watching Big Bang Theory. Sorry, lol ^_^

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SinCitySinner592 reads

You (universal tense) are doing it for money...A new guy poses risk no matter how much you have screened him.  

I won't blame you, if at the back of your mind you (universal tense) are a tad bit worried about him turning out to be a whack job, brandishing a weapon or just shorting you. So it is but natural that you value repeat guys more. I highly doubt that it has much to do with "connection", as you put it. May be 1 in 1000 but not with the frequency as some of you (universal tense) make it out to be..

We, on the other hand, are doing it for pleasure and pure pleasure only...We can get bored with the same ol' pussy rather quickly...

So that changes everything...

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adrianamonet591 reads

..but thanks for giving me your opinion as well as that of a providers point of view ^_*

It is okay to disagree and not have the same experiences nor opinions. That's the beauty of it all :-)

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inicky46537 reads

But, IMHO, you are right.  I love going back to a select few women, but the thrill of the chase, doing the homework, waiting to see what she'll look like when she opens the door....intoxicating!  Then writing the review lets me re-live the whole thing.

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case321515 reads

I personally love a little back and forth banter before a first meeting. Lets you feel eachother out. I sometimes send a hey how ya doing get acquainted email before requesting an appointment or sending screening info. Kind of let's you get a feel for eachother. In my experience its better that way sometimes based on response you can tell she's not the one for you. I won't burn a lady's inbox up but a few messages back and forth leading up to a first "date" can be a nice icebreaker. As for day of a nice confirmation email from the lady is nice and gets me to watching the clock. On another note I usually send a thanks for meeting had a nice time hope to see ya soon afterwards as well. It is really great to have a mix of established relationships with lady's you have a bit of connection with but still nice to feel the butterflys before a first time meeting too!!

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aragorn69491 reads

I think most of us are looking for some "strange" here and I love the first date jitters. Searching can be fun sometimes but other times I find it frustrating (when no one is available). Usually, I like the hunt and checking out who is out there to see, then finding out if we're a match. TER makes the search much easier though.

The first date can be great, if it's with someone that you click with. It's awesome to be with someone new and it's that perfect meeting. You enjoy every moment with them and then fly high the rest of the day in euphoria.

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liamdoherty569 reads

Researching is fun and can be hot as hell....if there is something that turns me off i'm gone going to the next one.
I usually find them innocuously and check them out ahead of time.....get pre-screened and all, then we're on each other's list.  I have a long list so it's difficult to keep them all happy. ;-)

I used to be nervous, but the erotic and playful banter eases that these days.

Posted By: CurlyW - Nats Fan
All the guys on the board love sex. Otherwise we won't be here..  
   
 But what about the process?  
   
 The process of researching a new provider. Going back and forth on the emails/PMs. Waiting while she verifies you, or at least says she is verifying you? Then having the first time jitters when you are about to meet someone brand new...Then coming home writing a review....  
   
 That's the process I am talking about..  
   
 I used to hate the process when I was younger in 20s, but now in the 2nd inning of my hobbying life, I am digging it. I used to hobby much on impulse, but these days I can plan weeks, if not months in advance.    
   
 How many guys feel the same way, or am I just a lonesome nerd...:D  
 

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RokkKrinn443 reads

For me, part of the fun is the banter of the email exchanges leading up to game-day.  Flirty texts ("Can't wait 'til tonight!") also keep me excited and in a bit of a (good kind of) haze as our time approaches.

Followup email the next day, telling the provider how much you enjoyed is "part of the deal" for me also; it's plain common courtesy, and smart business practice also, since it will make that provider more likely to say nice things about you, should you need to use her as a reference.

idk, from my perspective, the emails and texts are part of what makes for the GFE-ness of it all.  Without some verisimilitude (go look that word up!) of a "real" GFE, the whole thing would feel terribly empty to me.

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