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What to do when a client has poor hygiene..angry_smile
MochaNautteBBW See my TER Reviews 2062 reads
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I had to send a client away...because he had a nasty red rash between his legs and under his family jewels.

The rash emitted a smell so bad, I nearly vomited.

Another one had skid marks on his drawers.

EWWWWWW! NAAASSSTTYY!

What's up with guys not cleaning themselves up before an appointment?

Because of one client not washing his hands, I ended up with a nasty infection that took me nearly a month to heal from.



and did not have the opportunity to clean up before the appointment, I'd do the same thing that a coach does...

Send him to the showers!!!

However, I have been fortunate as my clients will ask me for the opportunity to clean up if they are coming straight from work.  I have heard of this happening to other providers, but have been lucky so far as it has never happened to me.

As for the rash, I'd start asking questions immediately about what type of rash it is.  If its merely heat rash, its one thing.  But, I'd still be leery.  They could be transmitted to you.

I usually take a shower before a session starts. I even bring my own towels just in case there none at the incall.

What this guy had looked (and smelled) worse than a heat rash.

It was bright red, peely and crusty looking.

And he expected me to lick his family jewels.

IICCCKKK!

I am always sensitive to a man's feelings, but never careless with my own body. After all my physical health is my first consideration and I literally can't afford to allow someone to contaminate me. Summer's Eve wipes are great for freshening up a guy who may just be a little sweaty, but there are ways to make hand washing, showering, etc a very sensual thing to share with the guy. Especially if you approach it that way: "Hey this water feels sooo good, why don't you grab that soap and wash me up, cuz I'm suuuuch a dirty girl!" Then return the favor.

Lamaya,

Next time a client  (a non-regular) shows up in any way below health code standards, lean in close to him, like you're going to start getting sexy, and then start spastically coughing!!! If you can elicite some phlegm, better still !!! Then, tell him you just about done with your infection medication, and your doctor said that by now you should be able to be with the public !!!

I always do my best to arrive freshly showered, but I would welcome a girl who made a shower avaialbe. I am amazed at the number of incalls I have gone to when there was not even a clean hand towel in the bathroom!! Girls, it's a two-way street ... if you want clean, help make it easy for the guy.

Ms. HumpAlot1450 reads

That would have been enough to have cancelled the appt., right away. No shower/bath, would have cleared that up, right away lol

As for the stinky butts, a shower/bath (preferably shower), would have been sufficient enough for us to continue our sessions.

To me, anything that ia unusual, such as bumps, rash, just anything that is not "healthy looking", with the naked eye, is enough to cancel the appt. right on the spot.

You would be surprised, that there are men out there, who may even have a yeast infection down below (the rash/bumps around the penis area), and they know they have something and may not be aware of what it is, but chose to "play" anyways, with rashes and all.

Be safe! :)

Ms. HA

LaylaSouth382 reads

How nasty !!!  I think each client should be respectful not only of themselves but to us  and take a shower once they arrive at our location .
It is uncomfortable to point out the obvious when clients  just refuse to  take pride in their hygeine ...


Layla South

He may not know that asking for a shower is acceptable.  I know that my first time was late at night, I had been at work all day and in the casinos all evening.  Upon arriving at the "place" I KNEW I was not fit to be near, so I very hesitantly asked if I might take a shower.  I hadn't the slightest idea whether this was normal or even acceptable, but I did know that if I were her I wouldn't get near me in that condition!

I guess what I'm saying is that you may need to gently let him know that a shower is indeed available (I love it when she joins me), as it's possible that he just doesn't know...

This, of course, doesn't address the other issues, and doesn't attempt to do so.  But you're right, a heat rash can be incredibly disgusting!

Thankfully I've never had this problem...

I don't do incall, though, so by the time I get to people's places, they've already showered and all that jazz.

If a man reeked and had a rash, I'd be out of there so fast all you would see is a blur.

Katie

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