I used to think that OTC meant Over The Counter and that CG meant Computer Generated. So I'm still learning, still developing, still evolving. But even an upside-down BJ can't be "doing it wrong..." Unless, of course you're doing the upside-down BJ all wrong, then it just ends up being an uninspired facefuck, which is probably okay too if you have a cold.
And if we're just splintered manifestations of the One Life Spirit having a brief material experience, as some religions suggest, maybe the default setting is Existence...or Isness if you're the Hoity-toity type. I like Isness, though, as it seems more precise than "existence." I mean even concepts that could never be realized and erroneous notions "exist," but they aren't. Sorry for the digression.
But needs are dependent on what actually exists. We can need something, or even crave something that doesn't exist. So sexuality just means that we all crave to express what we know exists somewhere. People do live without having that craving satisfied (hopefully it's never TOTALLY satisfied for anyone), but the craving seems essential.
I try not to think about these things too much, and I advise you not to either.
Just my 2 cents worth.
Posted By: JohnyComeAlready
What people fail to realize, or simply chose to ignore. Would be that having sex is simply going through the motions of procreation. Any body having sexual relations beyond the penile penetration of the vagina, is actually doing it wrong. There is no such thing as having sex.
I wouldn't even describe sexuality as a need, I'd classify sexuality male or female as a default setting for living organisms. Everything else is the confusion that persist from the over complication of going through the motions minus the necessity for procreation.