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escalade1964 65 Reviews 1621 reads
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Your research technique:
To this day, I still get a bit nervous when seeing a provider for the first time.

Websites, Reviews, Paid Boards like P411 and Date-Check all help but I still feel a bit nervous.

Are you fine with only: Date, Time, Duration, Location requests?
OR
Do you like to see "Board activity and/or a bit of dialogue, ie a "PM"  
to put you more at ease?  

When seeing somebody for the first time, what makes you feel a bit safer?

Your thoughts if any?

AlexandraMilw417 reads

Board activity not so much. I have other ways of verifying as well beyond the norm.

I won't meet with anyone I can't converse on the phone with. You'd be surprised at how many people can pass through screening that are still creepy on the phone.  

Better question: What will make me feel uneasy... too much calling/texting/emails prior to meeting. Some are ok, but 30 of them are not.

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Back_In_Black386 reads

No guessing here . And it works !

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Jamie.Solo352 reads

I use many different methods to verify. But when he has written a decent amount of reviews, I feel pretty good about it.(as a starting point ofc)

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Bostonguy57314 reads

Reviews

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Jacque_Jenesais355 reads

Gives me a big smile and a big kiss and ass grab!! :D

Posted By: escalade1964
Your research technique:  
 To this day, I still get a bit nervous when seeing a provider for the first time.  
   
 Websites, Reviews, Paid Boards like P411 and Date-Check all help but I still feel a bit nervous.  
   
 Are you fine with only: Date, Time, Duration, Location requests?  
 OR  
 Do you like to see "Board activity and/or a bit of dialogue, ie a "PM"  
 to put you more at ease?  
   
 When seeing somebody for the first time, what makes you feel a bit safer?  
   
 Your thoughts if any?

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TheSperminator333 reads

Ive got lotsa buds (and bud-ettes) in the "hobby," and while I don't limit meself, I'd rather see girls they recommend.  I"m lucky to have plenty-O-friends to steer me to the Primo gals.  Caring is sharing, boyz an girlz!
Still, just saw a neat kid last weak based only on reviews and pix.  But you gotta know what 2 look 4.

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tg_baby239 reads

p411, date-check...if I see a lot of OK's, and at least ONE of them is from a lady I can trust, then that's a huge plus. If there are just some scattered OK's and I can't get much of a sense of the girls...then it's better than nothing, but not that reassuring.  

Board activity/reviews - NO. Only if they show he's a truly nice, sweet guy...I've had board guys as clients and some are great, don't get me wrong. But a visible, active history on this site makes me worry he'll want to play games, or be up my ass for free time etc. But if I read his reviews/posts and LIKE the person, then it's very reassuring.  

With me, friendliness and respectfulness go a long way. A pleasant correspondence leading up to the date will make me genuinely look forward to meeting the person. Assuming the person's already been verified in some way, of course..

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ra4592296 reads

to find a provider for me. I get nervous still, and I start thinking what if she isn't what the reviews say or is this site full of BS. Eros for example I have gotten both great times and wastes of money on it, and IDK how accurate the new verification feature is.

Still rolling the dice

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London Rayne352 reads

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