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What makes a Bad Provider
Blackprincemdr 5 Reviews 1419 reads
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What makes a bad Provider? 1st I am opening a discussion whereby fellow Hobbyist and Providers can get the word out to those ignorant Providers that they can become educated and bring their game up, making our community that much better. I hate it when a provider who has a racial/ethnic preference DOES NOT STATE IT IN THEIR AD & the unlucky hobbyist calls them up and 1 or several unfortunate things happen to the unlucky guy. He is by his manner of speech is recognized as the ethnic group not Liked by the provider and he is hung-up on (No explanation! No matter how nice a guy he is) or if the poor sap is educated and his racial background is not identificable by the phone talk, but when he arrives at the provider's apartment or hotel/motel and through the peephole the provider sees him and the door is not opened/answered-leaving the befuddled hobbyist wondering just what happened. Key questions these racist or racially biased providers  asked or is asked by their bookers as part of their screening; is "What is your Race?" You know that is something I never encountered at an AMP. And frankly I do not get offended when I see an AD stating they like whatever racial group that appeals to the provider. Heck even young guys get shotdown because many providers will not see a guy under the age of 35!  Being much older I do not have that problem however I do emphasize with them. No flame wars are sought or desired. I valued honesty and honest providers are to be cherished.Should more Providers bring such honesty to our unique lifestye-we would ALL not waste our time in NO-Win Situations, instead we would be using our valuable energy getting with those of like minds & bodies instead of getting involved in Negative situations. We Hobbyist have enough problems with the Occassional  Ripoffs ie Bait & Switch, Cash & Dash that are the Pitfalls of Hobbying; that we sometimes run into. Now lets get the ball rolling and keep it civil-Okay!

terrev481 reads

and if by chance they do, they sure as hell don't learn anything here if they continue to be ignorant, do they?

I will, however, still answer your question.

What makes a bad provider?

In a word...dishonesty.

Lying about what is provided

Lying about what it will cost

Lying about being independent

Lying about their rules or lack there of

Lying about stupid crap that means nothing but makes it clear they are lying and therefore everything they have told you becomes suspect...maybe I'm not the best she's ever had...damn!

Lying about being new

Lying about being experienced

Lying about the fact they never lie...this one is one of my favorites.

Lying about them being real...especially when they have a tattoo thanking Dow Corning...and Dr. Mammary Inflatenheisen.

Lying about our performance when we ask for honesty and pointers on how to improve

Lying at a MnG about their reviews....like I'm not gonna check when I get home...

Yes, I realize that there is supposed to be a fantasy element to all of this, and sometimes I am all about the fantasy, but there is a difference between fantasy and just bold face lying.  

Don't know if that is what you were looking for or not, but it is....

JMTC



-- Modified on 7/26/2008 11:25:00 PM

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944146408 reads

I've been fortunate to meet some honest courtesan's. I think that's the appropriate description for what you want. Do you have to read TER to be honest? Nope.

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Sexy Carolina248 reads

But I still don't understand.

I do think because of what this hobby entails...lying and cheating go hand in hand.

I can tell you this. What you gentleman experience from a provider is NOTHING compared to what a provider will do to another provider out of hate and jealousy. And with them they bring their white knights and these "special" people think they RULE the roost.

The gifts that are given get in the way of the PLEASURE.

Greed begets desire.

Throw in alcohol, drugs and psychosis and you have the right ingredients for drama and deceit.

So many times I have considered how this yucky part of the hobby continues to flourish.

I figured it out.

Good Head. Some guys will look past it all for Good Head. Before you know it you are addicted and the addiction(provider) has so much power...she feels like she can do anything. And she does.

The race card is not an issue with me. I could care less if a Caucasian guy won't see me if I see a Black fella. Seeing a Black fella does not make me dirty. They still think that in some parts of this country.
Sometimes a Black guy will not tell me he is Black or an Asian for that matter...because they fear we might not see them I guess. And then we meet and I see who they are and everything is great for me.
But

I WONDER WHAT IT MUST BE LIKE TO NOT BE ABLE TO BE PROUD OF WHO YOU ARE

and have to hide your race or weight.

I do provide companionship to younger guys...25 and up. They are awesome and sensual and SEXY.

The worst part about this hobby are the liars and clicks.

Most of them are on Big Doggie. They breed it there.

They decide who is who.

I have concluded that they are not a review forum but instead a high school club.

Unfortunately for us...lots of them are coming over here.

They bad mouth us and then use us!!



Love

Sexy Carolina

-- Modified on 7/27/2008 5:31:23 AM

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1)bad attitude
2)disinterested
3)lazy

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GingerRed295 reads

Honestly I have never understood the point of acting like somneone your not..over the years i have always felt a person should know who is really walking in the door..
hell I am a tom boy who likes sci fi, graphic novels(comics),tats, motorcycles and godzilla movies, sneakers versus heels and jeans versus a skirt..and so vanilla I make my mom look a wild woman..and it has never been a problem cause i have zero problem letting a caller know that who they are seeing..
a damn good time thats who..LMAO!

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-- Modified on 7/27/2008 10:05:04 PM

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Lusty_Lolita532 reads

...in the rough. We are out there, and still can't get a good rap when things like this happens. It happens to all of us then.
What makes us different are our good reviews and reputations.

I've been approached once by a person of ethnic decent. We had a wonderful time and I look forward to seeing him again!

What makes a bad provider in my opinion is:
-NCNS
-Rate increase with no notice
-Switch and bate
-one who gives you the run-around.
-being unclean.

What makes a bad Hobby:
-Shorts the donation
-expects more time if he is late getting to you
-Tries to uncover it
-shows up unclean and expects to get right to it
-gets rough
-shows drunk or on drugs

There are a multitude of reasons that makes a person 'bad' to see.
Whatever I list on my website I do.
I stand by what I put up there because if I don't, it would be considered false advertisement.

Come play with ME and let me show you how your SUPPOSED to feel! lol

xoxo
Lusty

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charlie445355 reads

Are you a good client? Leave nothing to chance. If you are in doubt always ask. Never trust cyberspace ads.

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