o I got a chance to visit a few cities this past month.  

First took a flight to Boston on a Friday. Rented a car and drove 3.5 hours the next morning to New York City. Where I stayed for 2 evenings. Then drove back to Boston where I got a flight home. Yes, I know this was kind of round-about, but it afforded me the chance to visit 2 cities and sort of get a feel of the "hobby scence."

For each city, my goal was to see at least one provider (even if on a platonic level), one sugar baby (also sex-optional), and finally, meet at least one monger for a beer (no, I'm not having sex with them unless they're Lopaw).

Here were my impressions:

BOSTON:
Provider experience: Forget it.
SB experience: Why even bother?
Monger Experience: Very good.  

I won't even get in to the provider experience. All I can say is I feel so sorry for my Bostonian buds. If you came to Chicago and experienced one of our ladies, you would most certainly agree. As for the mongers, the one person who met me for beer was a very cool guy, and agreed to meet very late -- like around 3AM. Again, real nice and interesting dude. As for the sugar babies ... my experience overall with Boston area women has been pretty bad. Plus I only stayed one night, so not enough chance to track one down.  

NEW YORK:
Provider experience: Stellar
SB experience: Oh my Gawd!!!
Monger experience: meh

My rundown here tells it all. New York is a virtual all-you-can-eat sexual buffet of Amazing ladies. More amazing ladies than there are men to keep them all happy. And my sugar baby experience? Holy crap. Don't even get me started. In New York, there simply are no gentlemen. It is the land of douchey guys. So if you can fly in from a nice midwest city like Chicago, where men's mothers taught them the value of respecting a lady .... you are S-E-T!!! Expect a fun weekend if that is you.

Anyway, the juicy details. I met a gal on a popular Sugar dating site. 2 in fact. So I double-booked. Always have a backup plan. Anyway, that worked out GREAT because my first choice would up NCNS on my sorry ass. ha ha!  Anyway, thank God for that, because I immediately called my second choice. And she wound up being second to like NON ONE EVER. Total sweetheart. 200 bucks, and she played tour guide for me all day long. Took me to the karaoke bars. Showed me around Time's Square. Went bowling. Played arcade games. With her at my side the entire time, holding my had and occasionally grabbing my ass. Constantly kissing. She was all my favorite dates I had in college, all wrapped up in to one.

She and I are now planning a trip to New Orleans. She promises that the no-sex dates are going to come to an abrupt ending once we reach the french quarter. Looking forward to it, sweetheart!

Now on to the provider. She is a gal who I have seen multiple times on her many visits to my city of Chicago. But put this little wrinkle in to play: She quotes me this RIDICULOUS discount. Actually making my sugar baby discount seem pretty tame. So it's game on. We start out at her place, lounging on her porch. Smoking copious amounts of marijuana. From there, we move on to listening to lots of music. Both of us were tired as shot from partying the night before. So it just wound up being her and I lounging around her Manhattan apartment.  

What a nice way to cap off a nice Eastern tour.

And for those of you who might be wondering how I might compare New York or Boston to my own city of Chicago. First off, let's just say that I think any city in the known universe could be better, overall, than Boston. Hobbyists are great, but man ...

Chicago vs New York: Sorry, this goes to NY. But only from the point of view of the monger. From the Provider's angle, it is the opposite. If you are a provider, then you will absolutely love my city. We have the nicest and most respectful, gentlemanly mongers. We grew up with Midwest values, which means we respect ladies. Most of us, at least.

Chicago vs Boston: I am so glad I am in Chicago

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i said e, mf!

...how much money one could spend and NOT get laid. LOL

He reminds me of Beavis and Butthead. Always talking about getting ass but ending up in circle jerk.

Considered cutting my balls off.

Getting a sex change.

Becoming a priest or Budhist monk.

Consider it personal therapy.

I seriously need it after Boston.

I have heard most men in New York are gay, so women are looking for men.  Like I said I just heard this I do not know how true it is.  Please correct me if I am wrong.

Orange County ladies are right up there with New York.

Simply amazing. Almost all of them.

by los angeles, i have to admit i'm referring to the entire metropolitan area, from santa barbara down to tijuana.

great women in san diego, too.  gorgeous and priced reasonably, too.

but the la girls really knock me out, they leave the rest behind!  the o c girls make me scream and shout, that cali's always on my my my my my my my my my mind

can't believe she would make you swear off of sex

Why post it here for all to see? No need to lash out right or wrong. Noone likes your drivel.

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Consider widening the sample before making a blanket statement.  Heck, even a great restaurant can have an off night, or even an entrée that seemed good on the menu but turned out not to be my style.
A single disappointing experience isn't enough to ruin a town in my opinion.

And on a practical level, unless there was a major cost savings then flying open jaw (in and out of different cities) could have saved you half a day of travel and provided a chance to meet someone else.

I think you pissed off someone(s) from Boston......I say all you beautiful ladies need a Dallas tour....Let us show you how a lady is treated. And for the record, I know a lot of people from Chicago(My company I work for has a big presence there and we get a lot of transfers) and they're not the nicest people around. That's for sure. Just sayin

I met with three fabulous guys BCD and another for a platonic dinner with a lady in the biz bud of mine! All 4 were outstanding!

Boston is absolute favorite cities to visit. I've attended a few M&G there and met some fun and FAB ladies. The guys there are always great to me.

Steph

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I'm definitely coming back to Texas

I spent a fair amount of time in the Boston area, matter of fact I saw my first real provider there, and subsequently my 3 or 4 too...Between my southern accent and saying yes ma'am I could have had freebie after freebie if my schedule would have permitted, so your 1 "alleged" encounter holds zero weight.  

As far as New York, I never bothered...I had Jersey girls that were as hot as I could have ever wanted and Philly was like a second home for a number of years, but I'm sure New York has plenty of fine ladies as well.
Chicago....well that's where the tale of 3 cities changes. Unless you had RSK2000 or whatever that damn verification is, you were pretty much SOL with any of the better girls. I saw one and I never even bothered to write the review, I was that un-impressed.  

Yeah I'd say you just wanted to create a little drama so you decided to tell everyone how much you spent on no sex and smoking a little weed (which was way overpriced I'm sure).

As for SB's...plan ahead, way ahead.

 
To everyone else, sorry felt a little reminiscent...LOL

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The person I actually did wind up seeing ... was very similar to Octavia in a lot of respects. Pretty, young, blonde, smart, etc.

... Only with about 1000% more CRAZY.

And as we all know, Octavia certainly has her own brand of crazy! ha ha!  But this woman, I'm afraid, re-defined just how crazy ... crazy can be. That is how crazy this woman was.  

I will never, ever reveal her true identity. But trust me on this ... it probably should have been Octavia. And I probably made a mistake not seeing her instead, because there may have been a fighting chance that I would have had fun.

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with Lithium and Saltpeter.

purpose? I'll be honest sometimes simple,short and sweet goes a long way

The city itself is just kinda' bad overall, don't you think?

I mean ... I remember when the BIG DIG was going on. I kept praying that they'd just dig the whole city up and accidentally bury the whole thing in dirt.

I know this because many of them are my friends. (and yours, lol)

No one, man or woman, should be threatened, stalked and coerced simply because they choose to participate in P4P and/or post here on TER.  The OP of this thread has displayed this behavior in another recent incident as well.  I have seen his words.  It's ugly, but more than that, potentially dangerous.  I'm in favor of a free flow of ideas and sometimes the interaction here is wild, but when someone displays by their words and action that they can't play by the rules of the game, that person should be banned.  Threats, stalking and coercion violate the rules of this game that we all play by, not just TER rules.  The OP has also displayed a complete disregard for the truth.