Just put some cash on the nightstand and say nothing? Hand the lady some money and say hanks for the great time? Is an envelope necessary? Does it matter? What do you prefer ladies?

I usually just hand over some cash to her.  Since I just fucked her so, no way she's cop or I am a cop.

incall:
Honey, I want to help out with the hotel cost.
Outcall,
Honey, thank you so much for the good time, can I help out with some taxi money?

"ATF"
"Listen, can you give me a lap dance so I can tip you?"
"get out of here!"

Leave it and don't make a big deal one way or the other. I don't know a lady that cares how she gets the extra. She knows if she did a great job because you'll have a shit-eating grin on your face wishing you scheduled more time.

They tell me 'thank you' and leave the envelope I had for them right where I left it in the first place.

Sucks to be me sometimes.

So you just load up the envelope before you leave?

The best tip is a good review and a return visit

First time seeing a provider I have a 2nd envelope ready including a card.  If the time went well I give it to her as we part, if not I keep it.

Usually for ladies I've seen before I have a gift for them at the beginning of the time since I already have a very good idea I will have a good evening with them.  Sitting and opening the gift is a nice way to talk for a few minutes.

I never expect a tip, Christ, we make enough as it is, But....

Anyway you want,

Anywhere you wish,

That's the way I like it....!!!  

It's always a mild surprise, really.

just tie some kite string around the top of the Walmart bag it came in?

Include it in the envelope with the regular donation.

completely empty.

Instead, envelope or gift cards work perfect. Prefer gift cards personally, and they come with its own envelope. When you put the Gift Card on the dresser, both party know what it is and nothing needs to said. Works like magic!

someone just handing me cash may make me a bit uncomfortable.  Not because of any legal issue, just because I feel awkward.  I NEVER expect a tip, but for the times I do recieve one, they generally say something along the lines of "I had a great time, let me help with the hotel cost."  (Like the above post mentioned.)  Then just set it down on the dresser, and I'll say thank you.  As far as gifts go, if someone brought a Walmart bag I might be a bit surprised , as I've only seen gift bags.  But it isn't the packaging that counts!

But all in all, I do agree that the absolute best tip is a great review and a return visit, no doubt!

I enjoy watching her unwap it and finding out if I was correct in what I picked out.

As to the high class post below, I am afraid my gifts are not up to your standards.  I'm still stuck at places that haven't progressed to kite string.  Anyway, my fingers can't tie the small knots in the kite string around the diamonds.

diamonds to a HO that you also are paying, you are too foolish to be seeing her in the first place!

Maybe try some advil about an hour before wrapping that Zirconium Silicate up!  It should loosen those old bent fingers well enough to make a bow with the kite string!  LMAO

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Looking for the x are ya.

You really want to be careful agreeing with me.lol

I've been known to 'bend my elbow' now and then. You take a chance on my present condition when you agree or disagree.LOL

BTW; I wanna party with you dude. LMAO

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As I already know to a moral certainty that any woman I see will have fantastic performance; I include the tip in the initial envelope.

Actually, the tip is there for two reasons. First, to compensate the lady in case we go over time by a few minutes. Second, as a sign of my faith in her.

Gifting, when I do it, is done separately. I do not give big/expensive gifts; nor do I give Walmart gifts.

If I can get a good enough "read" on a lady, I will bring her something I know she'll appreciate and/or find interesting. Usually a book or something of the sort.

If she's local and the season is right, I might bring her some fresh eggs or seasonal produce.

On extremely rare occasions, I might give a lady some wine that I have made. Alternately, I have also written one lady a musical composition.

Basically, if I'm going to give a gift (which I seldom do on a first date because I don't have sufficient knowledge of the lady) it is something that either required me to specifically search it out; or something made personally. But it isn't monetarily expensive.

Envelopes are nice but to me not necessary just have the appropriate amount in plain sight...slide it by the tv or the nightstand by the bed something like that for the tip same as the main donation.

I roll it up and stick it in her cooch!!