Just like beauty is in the eye of the beholder, a "10" is performance is also subjective to one's liking. Of course, TER has specific guidelines as to what makes a session eligible for a "10". So let's say if the session is eligible for a "10" in term of TER guidelines, what would make the session a 10 for you?

that the girl must be in the top 10% of all the providers I have seen in order to get a score of 10.  To date, I have actually given a 10 to significantly LESS than 10%.  When it comes to service, a 10 may only be awarded to a provider who has provided the specific services that ALLOW a maximum score of 10.

When she can make you believe that your the only man in the world she really cares for, and show that to you in various ways, then that's a ten.

She is a profession in ever sense of the word in manner and actions.
She has the skills and aptitude (or attention to details) to create that illusion of passion and intimacy you point at. (IOP, IOI)

First of all fella there are only a handful of things that will earn a 10 in service. And they do not include getting a warm towel, making you feel like a man, or engaging you in meaningful conversation  
Anal
Duos
BBFS  
there may be something else but none of the above and at best you can give a 9
As for looks, unfortunately in the Woke world a 300lb 60 yo can get a 10  
In my experience looks are more of a crapshoot than service.  
But yes your beautiful descriptions of the perfect “date” are right out of a touching Chick-lit novel.
Oh you left out “long walks on the beach.”

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But I'll try.

BBFS does NOT figure into scoring.

I view it like I view music.

As one Supreme Court Justice wrote more than 60 years ago: I shall not today attempt further to define the kinds of material I understand to be embraced within that shorthand description, and perhaps I could never succeed in intelligibly doing so. But I know it when I see it...."

Ok I'll try again. Duos and Anal are activities that TER allows a 10 score. Is that ok now Ma'am?  

"Unfortunately in the Woke world a 300lb 60 yo can get a 10- what does this even mean?

It's already been acknowledged that TER has the known and stated requirements that ALLOW someone to submit that score. However, just because one can check all the boxes doesn't mean the score should be given or is deserved.

You think the guys here paying for pussy are woke? Have you read their posts? Their reviews?

I read the OP to ask not what would merit a 10 using the TER scale; we all know that.  
I read it as asking about the intangibles that would make for a 10 in a player's own world.

It's actually Duos, Anal and "more than one guy at a time" which is actually a rip-off, IMO.  The girls charge each customer the full price for the time.  Many will allow spit-roasting, but few allow DP, so there are times during the session when one of the guys who paid full price can only sit and watch or do himself while his co-worker keeps going alone.    

A "9" for performance would be a dirty talking slut who is not self-conscious, but takes great pride in what she does.  She loves the taste of cum.  She will give attention to my dick because she insists on having it somewhere inside her the whole time that we are together.  A "10" would be psychic, that could anticipate every depraved thought in my head, and act on it with a sly smile and a giggle.

With regards to any encounters with multiple clients, I have not charged my full rate per person.  
M/F couples I see at the same rate as individuals and group play is assessed according to the ask.  

These days "woke" means as much as GFE or PSE or VIP. In other words, whatever the writer wants it to mean, though here it's seems to be universally derogatory in the insulting sense.

is a completely different experience than a "more than one guy at a time" gangbang.  When talking about value for the money, I was only referring to the latter.  I have been in many duo's with two providers that were extraordinary experiences and worth the double-rate.  However, I appreciate your understanding that in a multi-male group session, the time allotted for access to the provider for each paying participant is significantly less than in a solo session and applaud you for adjusting your rates accordingly.  Many providers are not as fair-minded, hence my comment.

An 8 is below average, a 9 is average, and a 10 is above average.  The reality is that none of the ladies on TER meet the criteria for a 9 or 10.  A handful are "Really Hot" or an 8 if we truly adhere to the TER rating descriptions.

On that scale a TER 10 is a 7. And an 8 doesn't exist.

DISAGREED

That is the reality of how the TER rating guidelines are actually operationalized: 8 = below average; 9 = average; and 10 = above average to hot.

Hey!!!  

10/10
9/9
7/7
They all mean the same to me. She met the strict criteria and went beyond in some way. Maybe it was an extra hour off the clock. Maybe it was getting me a second or even third pop when I wasn't expecting it.  Maybe her personality made it truly feel like "not a service."

What's hilarious to me is if being "woke" is an insult, then that means those using it as a slur must consider themselves the opposite. So they are asleep? I guess that tracks 😄😄😄 😴😴😴

Perhaps I’m jaded, but I’ve never given a 10! To me a top 10% performance merits a score in the 9’s, say 9.5 on average. A ten represents top 1%! I’ve been with incredibly hot girls for duos and anal, but I would probably rate aspects of those experiences as 9.5 which I view as top 5%, but 10? No. I’ve been with girls who certainly give bbbj’s that rate a 10, but the overall service experience was still not top 1%. As far as looks, I’ve been with plenty of gorgeous and sexy girls - high 9’s, but I don’t think ten!  Perhaps I should search out a few girls that others rated 10, and see if I agree, or open my wallet to a few girls who seem to get a series of 10/10 scores, so I can experience a 10/10 before I retire!  For now, I’ll keep hunting for that 10/10, and I’ll be repeating if I find her!

Your very first one was a 10/10! lol.

and kissable lips. Last but not least, a friendly attitude.

In fact when I repeat with a lady or kept a long term SB, it's mainly for that reason. While the act of physically pleasing me in ways I desire is important, but it's the fantasy and illusion of making me feel a certain type of way that keeps me going back to her. Yes, it's all a fantasy, but when she makes it believable, it gold.

I agree aesthetics that fits my taste of what I find attractive is also very important.

Thank you.

"I read it as asking about the intangibles that would make for a 10 in a player's own world." Exactly...after all we are all seeking an experience that would not have been there if not for the hobbying world.

"I gave zero directions during the session. With fluidity and grace they moved from one act to another with each other and me." For me, that's the ultimate level of 3-some. The ladies just flows from one act to another, knowing exactly what I desire.

MFM Kgirl reviews posted about four or six months ago.

Some bb anal with the provider seemingly not only willing, but insisting on going ass to mouth. Eventually going to finish inside her asshole.  

To each his own, but to me that's pretty nasty.

to an 11 if DFK was next or even 12 for her to let you RIM her^^?

Guess there's different tiers to this thing.  With limitless exploration, one can probably get  11>19  -  Exponentially speaking.

I have many reviews, over 200, and I have given less than a dozen 10s for performance.  I can only think of one case where I gave a 10 without anal.  But the ultimate for me is when I can bring her to orgasm with my cock deep in her ass; that's almost guaranteed a 10.