for a good time when I visit a provider.

I expect myself to be a good client - clean, well groomed, friendly and outgoing, respectful, fun to be with.

What do I hope for in a provider?

She's prepared, timely, friendly, and focused. She looks like her pics.

The acronyms?

DFK Daty BBBJ (CIM is nice...) CFS

I appreciate a lady who is a good time manager and orchestrates a session so that the client does not feel time pressure. Ie get to the business at hand and bring things to conclusion in plenty of time.

Beyond the pleasantries I'd rather save getting to know you convo for afterwards.....

unless they want raw sex with no interaction. What you say about yourself is very important and how you write it is more important.

You can call yourself anything but the delivery will be the same. Some a little better than others.

Kisses Haley

the same respect that the ladies expect from me. That seems to be an excellent starting point. It's pretty clear from the beginning what we are both there for, so a little mutual respect, understanding, and perhaps some admiration will usually lead to a pretty damn good time.

"Managing expectations" is a big part of creating a satisfied customer. If I show up at 2:15 and said I would be there at 2:00 -- I'm late. But if I said I would be there at 2:30 -- I'm early. Same action, different expectations, thus different interpretations of performance.

That having been said, I read a provider's ads and/or website very thoroughly. Generally, I can tell what to expect from that.

I find that most providers, except for those who are really new to the business (or a few liars out there, who are banned from TER), do a very good job of conveying an accurate impression of what they are like.

Though I'm not widely experienced, I've never received a lesser service than what I expected; though I've occasionally received substantially more enthusiastic service than I expected -- and I'm sure not going to complain about that!

But, as I noted, I read ads and websites thoroughly because I want an impression of the lady's personality. If the personality is right -- everything else will be perfectly fine.