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MarkusKetterman 150 Reviews 250 reads
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I spent the first couple of decades of my sex life going without condoms. So, I rarely finish in one.

But sometimes, with just the right person, in just the right position, I can be right on the delicious edge for a  long long time.  That is a lot of fun in its own right.

Getting there is way more than half the journey, and how you get there makes a huge difference.

CaitlynKennedy1364 reads

What was the longest amount of time you were on the edge during a fbsm/gfe session without letting go?

Please feel free to add details if you would be so inclined.

P.S.

this is really more for FBSM gents, but we don't have a FBSM board...


Curious in FBSM sessions  mainly how long you have been on the edge before the "release" is what I meant I suppose... and what types of things can a woman to do to keep you on that edge... :P


xoxox
caitlyn

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mattradd264 reads

to impress, or perform.

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CaitlynKennedy257 reads

I didn't mean to insinuate that it was about performing or impressing... this is really more for FBSM gents, but we don't have a FBSM board...


Curious in FBSM sessions how long you have been on the edge before the "release" is what I meant I suppose...


xoxox
caitlyn

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mattradd185 reads

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G2261 reads

Usually, it's something sex books teach guys to stay on the edge, but not cross it.  But it work just as well for a FBSM lady who could learn the signs of male arousal, and then back off a little bit to extend the time surfing the edge.

If you rated a man's arousal from 1-10, the technique is to learn to recognized when you get to about an 8 or 9, then relax and ease off until your arousal subsides to a 5 or 6.  Once you learn how to do this it can go on for hours.  LIke I said, this is usually for the man to learn, but I think you could learn to recognize the signs of arousal- the hardening of the penis, the heavy breathing, maybe tensing muscles etc.  The key is you've got to back off before what they call the "point of inevitability" is reached.  As the name implies, once you get to that point, it's too late- you're going to cum.

I had a Tantra massage with male G-spot stimulation from a tantra practitioner a few years ago, and between what she knew and what I knew, she kept me on the brink for nearly an hour!  She finally had to ask me to cum and allowed me to finish between her breasts as an incentive.  While that was very unusual for a FBSM to keep you on the edge that long, it is possible.  I'd say most FBSM's finish in less than 5 minutes.

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Duplicitouslust204 reads

Dear Caitlyn:
I was wondering what have you experiences been with men and what was there ability to prolong arousal without coming to resolution? Do you feel or have experiences where the time was brief or has it been a marathon in the past? Also have you men been doing their kegels and using other techniques that are critical to prolonging arousal? Please elaborate on your experiences.

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Duplicitouslusting172 reads

Dear Dulplicitouslust:
Elaborate on this!!

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CaitlynKennedy195 reads

well for me I can prolong by teasing with licking and flicks of my tongue, a little slow sucking, bringing them to the brink then moving off to massage other areas again, I  also can use my hands to seduce them, slowly to the brink while using my tongue on their neck, and nipples, then again backing off again... these are the 2 most common ways I have done this

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MarkusKetterman251 reads

I spent the first couple of decades of my sex life going without condoms. So, I rarely finish in one.

But sometimes, with just the right person, in just the right position, I can be right on the delicious edge for a  long long time.  That is a lot of fun in its own right.

Getting there is way more than half the journey, and how you get there makes a huge difference.

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channelguy212 reads

I don't time it but I've gotten pretty good at tantric.   So the build up and down from almost cumming is something I've pretty much mastered.

There is one lady on this board that can confirm I'm telling the truth :-)   Of course she's so hot it was easy to perform....

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CaitlynKennedy157 reads

nice! I am gonna have to try to practice some of this with my gentlemen friends

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niceenuf145 reads

There's a big difference her between personal life and the hobby...obviously in the hobby the time is limited by the length of an appointment.  To use someone elses scale I've gotten to a level 7 very early in both FBSM and FS sessions and stayed there or above the entire length of the appointment so the answer is anywhere from 45-90 minutes.  For me its no fun in a session to go from a 0 to a 9 and back to a 0 so it has to be intense pleasure, followed by something mutual, then close again, then to slowing down, then to close one more time, to naming all the members of the 1961 Yankees...you get the idea, anything to cause a distraction to finishing is enough to prevent an early finish.

But there is a difference between peak/arousal and denial.  I had a civvie SO years ago that would really get off on getting me close and not letting me finish, and then coming back to it later.  It wasn't unusual to spend a day walking around the City where she would get me close 6 or 7 times by rubbing, teasing, or sucking as we walked around, then she would finish the job once we got home, so in that context it would could be 12 hours!

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CaitlynKennedy125 reads

That really sounds erotic and hot :) I love to go around town in a skirt, no panties. Go off to a side street so he can slide a hand under my skirt to feel my bare ass.. and then walk off to continue to shop, as he follows hard as a rock LOL !

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niceenuf112 reads

Yeah, she was something else!  There were afternoons when we were out that she would take me "up and down" 10 times throughout the day.  By the time we were in a private spot that we could actual finish the act I had a severe case of "purple balls" (well beyond blue!).  Unfortunately, after what amounted to 12 hours of foreplay it would typically take me all of 30 seconds to finish!

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Lanforce172 reads

This is a terrific topic Caitlyn.  

I am pretty much an even mix of FBSM and traditional "dates".  One of the nice things about FBSM is that the provider pool is smaller and you tend to end up seeing x number of providers repeatedly - which intrinsically results in them striving to "do better than last time".  They also have benefit of knowing you better - the same way in the civvie world sex gets better over time with an S.O. - both people know what the other likes.  

I have one provider that, if she chose to, could pop me in under a minute - she is that in tune with what I enjoy.  

But with knowledge comes power - through a variety of techniques mentioned in previous threads (tease/denial, plateuing etc.,) - she has been able to hold me "right there" for almost an hour, with the resultant release a shot that would have taken out an eye if aimed wrong.  I should also add she is the only one who can make me achieve multiples within a compressed time frame (less than 10 minutes).

With guys there is always the territorial imperative to get er done - but never has the expression "good things come to those that wait" (apologies for a bad pun) been more appropos.

You are to be commended for exploring this topic and also for trying to hone your professional skills - there is NOTHING more sexy than a woman who knows exactly what she is doing and making the next experience that much better than the last one !!!

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CaitlynKennedy114 reads

I agree that drawing it out intensifies everything... I hate when they make the massage about "number of pops" and I try to redirect them to the " experience"

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mrfisher93 reads

because "on the edge" can have several meanings.

In any case, I usually like to engage on serious sexual activity for at least 30-45 minutes during which I often have orgasms without ejaculation.  Normally I can have six or more such orgasms which I define as a mental state of bliss followed by a period of less intense sexual pleasure as I build up again.

Eventually I do release and this is where is gets complicated again but in general the "on the edge" moment is only a half a minute or so until I ejaculate, but recently a very skilled tantra kept me "on the edge" for around five minutes after which I felt like I was on another planet for about fifteen minutes.

It was incredibly intense.

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