Most of the guys who hit me up on TER PMs are great dudes - they ask respectful questions about my reviews and the ladies I’ve seen. I’ve shared my experiences with a lot of TER members over the years, and we’ve recommended providers to each other. I’ve always appreciated that kind of community support on here. But today some random dude slid into my DMs completely unprompted and started trashing providers I personally really like and respect. This individual even claimed he’s seen them himself, but his story had some inconsistencies it was hard to take seriously. And even if it was true - why the hell are you messaging me with this gossip? Who the fuck asked for your opinion? Since when did it become normal to talk shit about women behind their backs after seeing them? I’m pissed off. That kind of behavior doesn’t line up with how a man should act, let alone a decent human being. I thought we’re here to have fun, help each other and warn each other about the bullshit in industry, not to spread rumors and shit on other TER members. Has anyone else dealt with this kind of crap? Swear to God, if this clown was standing in front of me right now, I’d slap the shit out of him.
there is at least 1 or more girls in your review list that have been rumored to manipulate reviews. that's likely why the guy was in your space, either he has been tracking fake reviewers or maybe he himself is a fake reviewer for competitor girls.
I haven’t had those types of messages, ever. I have had someone come at me when my reviews aren’t flattering. But who knows if they’re really a normal monger, or the provider, booker, or friend getting all on the defensive.
Your cases sound reasonable, that’s pretty normal when haters start losing business, they act like this, ya know. Mine is straight-up bullshit though. Some random fella decided to shit on my favorite providers completely unprompted. I didn’t ask for his opinion at all, and we hadn’t even had any previous convos. Holy crap, I still can’t wrap my head around it. He’s probably sending these messages to other guys too, and that’s why I started this thread
But nothing as bad as what you’re describing. Sounds more like a guy she wouldn’t see because he didn’t pass the vibe check, or he pushed her boundaries and she tossed him out on his ear. Could be a provider just trashing the competition.
You’ll never know for sure who it is or why they’re doing that, and it doesn’t really matter.
“When did this become normal?” It isn’t normal. And you’re absolutely right this isn’t how a real man acts. This is somebody acting a fool. But you’re not going to teach them anything or convince them of anything or change their mind. Ever.
Sorry to hear that dude - that really sucks you had to deal with rude-ass messages from those clowns! They’re probably latent gays anyway LMAO Your reasons make total sense though, thanks for clearing it up for me!
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