what is your selection criteria for the ladies involved?

Specifically, do you want them to be as alike as possible or do you go for the greatest contrast possible between the providers?

I've done this a few times, and i always went with contrast.  I'd be very interested to hear the reasoning re pros and cons of either choice.

If you're going for contrast, in what characteristic[s]?  Ethnicity [yes], age [yes], body type [yes], personality [not sure], other things of importance to your unique purient tastes?

Threesomes are not always easy to set up, and often you don't have a great range of choice, but in an ideal world, what's your druthers?

TY, I hope to learn a lot from this one.

I had a most enjoyable threesome last week in NYC.  Key to it was knowing one of the ladies well, and her having an establsihed relationship with the other lady and with me.  As a result, all were able to establish a comfort level with each other, making for a spectacular three way.  That's the way to do it...

CD

I was in one threesome where the women were friends but not really bi.  I had a good time, but because they were making sure not to touch each other, it seemed too rehearsed.

..Was the married (of course in Massachusetts) lesbians who loved to please men.

They have since moved on to another state.  Oh Well!

I have had several threesomes, and the main problem has been that there was very little interaction (if any) between the two ladies. They stated that they wanted to focus their attention solely on me. When the ladies are not into each other it gets really strange..you are having sex with one and the other one is just lying there like a stiff. Sometimes I had the feeling that I was having two separate sessions instead of one great one.    

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My best threesome was with two ladies both of whom I was familiar with(had seen individually), and who were into each other. Everyone was comfortable and everyone got lots of attention.

I agree
For me it is too much at once.
I prefer 2 separate sessions

Only 1 experience and what a birthday present.  I had seen one of the ladies previously for more than 1 date.  She and her friend wore my ass out in 2 hours.  They could have been into each other some more but they took great care of me.

Have had private sessions with both, and a great double with one.  This will be the first professional double for the other, so it will be very interesting.  Both are really-bi, so I'm looking forward to great spectator sport during my recovery time(s).  Breaking several of the doubles rules here, but what the hey!!