So my SO was bitching and complaining about work (shocking!) and a thought dawned on me.  Do the ladies here talk about the highs and lows of their daily sessions with their SO?  

I am mostly interested in those instances where a provider is in a relationship with a man (or woman for that matter) who not only knows what they do but also FULLY supports them.  I am not talking about talking it over with a couple of girlfriends or other providers, that's girl talk.  While interesting for sure, not what I am getting at.

I am somewhat fascinated about the potential dinner table banter.

"So honey, how was your day?"

"Well, my 11:00 was an absolute gem.  Smelled great, perfect manscaping, complete gentlemen and thankfully, a below average sized cock.  All had to do was one squeeze and a "deeper, I'm about to cum" and he popped in no time!  But my 2:00 was you know who"

"Oh your kidding me, not ______.  I didn't think you were going to see him again?"

"Well you know we've been talking about getting a new dining room set and as much as he is a deviant asshole, he always gives me an extra Benjy tip so I figured, why not.  So anyway, he is spread eagle and I am licking his balls and taint and before i know it..."

"Don't tell me, he tried sticking his toe in your ass again?  Wow, that guy will never listen!"

"I slapped his hand away and he got all bitchy.  Well I gave him a surprise ending.  After he blew in my mouth, I acted like I swallowed but instead I crawled up him and snowballed him!  Serves him right, him and his asparagus flavored cum.  What a mindless jerkoff."

"Ah honey, let me give you a back rub..."

After rereading this it appears that in my head, Mrs. Cleaver has stated turning tricks...

Anyway, curious to know if this topic comes up with the few ladies here who are in that type of SO relationship?

he kind of guys I date would not find anything erotic about this...they would find it disgusting, so would be pretty stupid for me to ever bring that up. I think most couples who can discuss such things are either swingers are in open relationships, where the other party does not care who they fk. I mean, it would have to be like that for it to work, without someone getting hurt.  

I have a friend who has been with the same man for 10 years, knows what she does, drops her off at appts. but she still does not discuss the business unless someone hurts her or rips her off. She does not go into sexual details.

Thanks London.  The open "swinger" relationship is the one I am hoping to get some feedback on.  

I actually met a girl in Atlanta several years ago who was married (wore her wedding ring during the session) and when the topic came up, she said that her husband loved the idea that his wife was hot enough to make "piles of money" fuckin other guys.

I totally understand that this question is targeted at a small number of people but in that relatively rare instance, the discussion between a provider and her SO about the biz fascinates me.

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I never get into details about any of my provider GF's sessions, and quite frankly I don't read their reviews either.

Just like most ladies compartmentalize their two lives, I do the same, I know what I share with a GF who is a provider is different than what she does for a living.

I think some guys ARE turned on that other guys are paying for what they are getting for free, I am not one of those guys,

Dated a provider for about 5 months. It ended because she had to move out west for family reasons; we were not at a point where I could consider going with her.

We rarely discussed specific intimate details of her dates, though she did share a few with me because they were funny, or because she wanted my feedback on something that happened. We often talked about general stuff, I occasionally drove her to a date or met her afterwards in a hotel lobby for drinks and then off to dinner. I'm a pretty weird guy, and I don't get jealous easily - and I am very turned on about being with a woman who is sexually attractive to other men. As some have speculated, the thought that men will pay a lot of money to be with "my" woman, and then she will come back to me by choice and really share herself with me, is the ultimate turn-on for me. I have been in a number of civvie relationships in my younger days that were "open" - sometimes they worked and sometimes they didn't, but when they did work, they were awesome.

This is how weird I am. If "my" woman said to me "listen, there is this hot guy giving me the eye at the gym, I'm going to meet him this afternoon and fuck his brains out" I'd say "great, do you want me to cook dinner or do you want to meet out somewhere?"

If she said "I'm going to go out for drinks with my girlfriends after I work out this afternoon" and then I discovered that she was with a guy, I'd pack my shit and she'd never see me again.

That's my story and I'm sticking to it

With my last GF I actually did get a bit jealous at times if she did a dinner date, or shared a bottle of champagne with a client and was still a bit tipsy when we got together later in the evening The actual sex she had with other guys didn't really bother as I knew it was as your said, "just business" , but anything that smacked of a real connection with another man was a different story.

Ha! You are fkin human afterall! Well said Gambler. See, you guys know that a woman can fk for money and it not play on her emotions, BUT having dinner, talking, drinking, and connecting is another thing. This is the very thing that most wives would go nuts over as well.

Dear Gambler:
As you know providers like some clients more than others.With that said, would any of your SO's have friends of the opposite sex that they have met through the business and how are you with the nature and scope of those relationships? Also what type of person does it take to have an intimate relationship with a provider psychological and intellectual perspective?

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So, would it not be MORE of a turn on if she was NOT fking other men, and still came home to "her" man? Damn.

And he loved readin my reviews....which kind of messed me up a but lol because things were being written that I had done in a certain way, and he said "how come you dont act like that to me?" or come you dont RIM me like they are writing there?

 
SO that was the only thing I diisliked

I draw the line at a GF of mine becoming friends and having "outside the job" contact with someone that she is having sex with. I would consider that "cheating". Male friends that she is not having sex with is one thing, but you have to draw the line somewhere, and that is where I personally would have to draw the line.

he is really hoping that Natasha will go away soon.  

But in the meantime we do talk, but not in a huge amount of detail.  I don't mention specific sex acts, but I do mention if I particularly like or dislike someone.  That's about as far as it goes.