Men with worries about penis size [is it big enough?], or women with regard to breast size [are they too small?] and butt size [is it too big?].
It just dawned on me that women have to worry about two secondary sexual characteristics, while men have to worry about their primary sexual characteristic. Who got the better deal here?
Also, when it comes to measuring size, is that measurement thought of in absolute terms or as relative to the rest of the relevant sexual population? It seems to me that men worry about penis size relative to other men [well, i sure do]. Are women doing the same with regard totheir breats and their backsides? Or do we worry about size in terms of the expectations we belive are held by the opposite sex? Or is this whole thing just plain unhealthy and misguided?
Personally, I don't worry about my size. Many guys do, but more privately.
Women, I think put more emphasis on breast size because it's outward and noticeable. The trend of breast implants is proof. I think they put too much
into their breast size, but there are psychological
issues here too. I would take a B cup over a DDD cup anyday.
women should be more worried about their " pussy size"... oh, mine is very TIGHT.~! LOL I had no idea!! So , of course I like a man with a smaller than normal size ~~~~
I don't worry about the size of my tits because someone will like them, same with my ass. But I worry about how tight my pussy is. Even when I hear "gentlemen" tell me I am tight I still worry.
My tits and ass get them in the door but my pussy keeps them wanting more. So I tend to worry about that aspect of my body more.
...i've never worried about either my breast size or the size of my bum. i have a plump, round, nicely put together bum, if i say so myself....and as far as breasts, i've never thought large breasts were attractive. i'm a B cup, and always thanked my lucky stars that somehow the family "big boob" genes didn't get passed on to me. i think smaller breasts look better on slender women, just healthier and more youthful.
have shown me that you LOVE ALL different types of a woman's body. Yes, I used to be insecure over my smaller breasts and somewhat poochy tummy; but whenever I am with you, you all make me feel like a million dollars...or my current donation (lol. jk).
I read all of your reviews not just on myself, but on other ladies as well, and I cannot believe how you don't even notice what we think are flaws. You are in reverence of a our unique bodies. When did men get so perfectly perceptive?
I have this ultimate loving acceptance of my body because of YOU!
Thanks for the confidence gentlemen. Keep up the good work.
communications between men and women, but rather that it is a demonstration that true honest communications about matters of erotica and sexuality are possible between men and women... and that they are not practiced more uniformly and openly outside of the hobby.
I know of women who are upset by one man's opinion of their body... when all others find them unbelievably attractive.... and you are correct, what we perceive as tragic flaws in ourselves - often they are simply not even seen by others.....
and thank you for noticing that we do love you ladies... it is appreciated.
Personally, I like humongous tits, and I like humongous asses. The problem is, in order to find big breasts or a big rear, you usually have to go for a BBW. But at least a BBW is better than an emaciated waif with a chest and ass like a 15-year-old Asian eunuch. I never understood why women worry about their asses. The black community clearly understands this issue better than the white community. This is why I support Barack Obama for president -- someone at the top needs to stop the anti-ass campaign in the American media. Just flip through the latest issue of Teen, or US Weekly, etc., and you'll see that our nation's Ass Deficit has reached nightmarish proportions.
And, yes, I only "worry" about my penis size relative to other men. If I lived in a land of midget-dicked dudes, my Cockasaurus Rex would be the king of the JurASSic jungle.
migrated to the District of columbia... Seems that there is a virtual kingdom of asses in the district. Several of them vie to determine who is the biggest ass of them all... and the race is truly astounding... take your pick... the Dems seem to have just as many as the Rep.
This ass shortage in the rest of the country makes it harder and harder to say "that guy/gal is an ass" as we all know that most of the asses are not here.. but in DC. LE through their dilligence made if harder and harder in the country to get a piece of ass (no matter which sex you are looking for, that is according to Sen. Larry Craig)..... Which supports my view that one needs to go to DC to get an ass....
yea, ass, it is hard to find. Then there are those poor hapless dudes who seem not to be able to find their ass with both hands and a flashlight... I digress.....
I read the 5/4 of the people have problems with math? (J/K) We have to be comfortable with who we are at some point - otherwise it becomes too psychological to deal with! Everyone I have been with has been great - B cups and nice (well I did have one D cup) - but I don't think about it! I just enjoy the moment and feel they enjoy the same! If you read all the reviews - there is a real mix of size and no matter what - there are great reviews among the ladies! I worry more about attitude that obsessing about size!
I think one of my biggest fears is the dissappointment I would see in someones eyes after they see me. Im not too worried about my ass as I am worried about the way my body will be drooping as I get older. It's nice touching a body that is toned, and smooth, but I think that whats inside a person makes them more attractive. I don't know why I don't see that about myself, but maybe thats what we all have in comin. We all see ourselves thru that mirror. We flex, we pout, we preen, just to see what others see...and to ourselves, it's not always what we want to present. As for size in guys...I really think it's HOW it's used that matters. You can be a 9, but crappy in performance, or you could be a 5, and ohhhhh so erotic in using it. It's not JUST for pumping...experiment with it!
xoxo
Diana
"As for size in guys...I really think it's HOW it's used that matters. You can be a 9, but crappy in performance, or you could be a 5, and ohhhhh so erotic in using it. It's not JUST for pumping...experiment with it!"
Yeah, but what if you're a 5 incher AND crappy in performance? I always chuckle when women say things like "it's all in how you use it," or "it's not the size of the boat, it's the motion of the ocean." That implies that one has to either a) be born with superior skills in bed, or b) work hard on developing said skills. So how exactly is this supposed to make someone feel better? Hard work sucks, in case you've forgotten LOL. No one wants to think of sex as something that requires work in order to perfect a "skill." It's supposed to be fun and relaxing.
Thats what I MEAN! If you enjoy it, it should come naturally.
You ENJOY the feel of a womans 'Playground' and make mental note when you see what your doing is getting her hornier than a rooster in a henhouse. Just as I make note of when I lick finger and tease a guys nipples, or their Asshole and they start squirming like a worm on a hook. You test your skills on others and some like it some don't...it all comes from trial and error. I ENJOY what I do...and I ENJOY learning what others like. Thats just how I feel.
I get so peeved when I see the late night infomercials about hair products for men, with the penis size enhancing ones to follow. Notice how the female actresses sneering, "Oh, I would never date a balding man! Gross!" are all donning low-cut dresses to emphasize their implants and spray-on tans? Nice. So this naturally means if you have a big penis or full head of hair, you will automatically get a super sexy woman as your mate. Better call that 800 number fast!
These companies are simply trying to make money off of insecurities and reinforce feelings of having "physical inadequacies"...insecurities and inadequacies that would NOT exist if society wasn't brainwashing us in the first place.
I don't know of ANY woman who views a bald/balding man as unattractive--unless he's doing something obviously lame to "cover it up" like the comb over or a bad plug job. My bfs are mostly in the world of cosmetology/hair, so I've learned the tell tale signs. If you're going to do it, get a high quality transplant.
Come on guys, let your baldness shine through! In fact, I rather prefer a bald man to a man with hair. Bruce Willis is so much hotter without hair! Yabadabbadoooo.
And as for the penis issues, my gfs and I are also with LJ: if you're tight, they just don't fit.
Placing XOXOs on your smooth head,
Selena Scott
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At first, I didn't know if I should be upset with what you wrote. Then I realized that I only have one bald head, so by default you'd be smooching that one, and I realized that it's all good.
You are correct though, that advertising preys on people's feelings of inadequacy, and would love our last buck in the hope of us losing weight without diet or exercise, making our dicks bigger, our ass smaller, and being able to sleep (in spite of our little dicks and big asses, lol)
I was just waiting to see who would make usage of my play on words with kissing a bald head! I almost even posted "head(s)" but wanted to see who would say something. LOL.
I guess I'm just that predictable, but if you rub my belly, I'll wag my tail.
Does it take more than ringing my bell? :p
vin Diesel, patrick stewart.... hummm.... Natalie portman.... ummmp......
comeback after some jerk passed his milk truck and yelled "hey baldy" to him.
First he cut him off and wrecked the guy's car, then he grabbed him my the throat and staring into his face he said: "I'm not bald, I cut my hair this way on purpose."
I worry about size all the time. Most of the guys in videos seem larger than I am. Also, my best provider friend in the hobby mentions the size of her boy toys more than I had ever known anyone to do in the past.
I've thought about trying some stupid cream or pill and then I decided that as I've been praised enough for my skills in bed such that if there's one thing that I don't bring to the table, it's OK.