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a question for the ladies - facial hair
MarkusKetterman 150 Reviews 597 reads
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Good Evening All - Either a fair percentage of the ladies do not like my facial hair or I am for other reasons getting YMMVd (25%) of the time for other reasons, where kissing is concerned. My breath is fresh and I have good teeth btw! I am also not a fright! I wear a very short, neatly trimmed, and conditioned for softness mustache and goatee. I've never received a complaint (many ladies have complimented the look due the gray, calling it distinguished looking)  or had any lady decline daty ';-) I wear the fur because it helps to camouflage an injury and a only modestly successful restoration. So, would you ladies rather see a guy with the aforementioned facial hair, or obvious scarring and deformation  of part of the lip and chin? Would such facial hair impact your interest in lfk/ dfk in and of itself? I'd appreciate honest opinions - I might try going without if this was highly supported....  Cheers - Gregory

HarleyDSimmons473 reads

Gregory...I myself like facial hair as long as it's not overgrown (which yours sounds just right)...if you feel uncomfortable because of the scar without the facial hair, then of course keep it, because we have to be compfortable in our own skin...Don't change it because of someone else's opinion...

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little phil264 reads

The only thing I can really add is that it might make sense to mention the facial hair during the pre-date dance.

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CiaraPhx456 reads

A smooth and soft, well-trimmed beard is okay. However, a long and bristly one hurts. Thank you.

Hugs,
Ciara

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MarkusKetterman130 reads

I will make a practice of mentioning the facial hair in my introductory note to the ladies to whom I'm providing screening information for first time visits.

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hungry1951451 reads

I have similar issues with a harlip, and some additional scars, and have a full trimmed beard.

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CiaraPhx346 reads

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Mary O Malley468 reads

I don't think your facial hair, as you describe it, is the culprit for you getting YMMVd unless you are getting women who simply hate any facial hair.  A neatly trimmed mustache, goatee, or beard is never a problem for me.  It only gets "not nice" when it is over-grown and there are food bits and such mixed in with the hair.  Don't think I want the left-overs from dinner with a nice kiss.  I know, EEEWWWWWWW, what a visual huh?  LOL.

I agree, though, that you shouldn't shave your beard.  You should look the way you choose and if wearing a beard makes you happy, by all means keep it.

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MarkusKetterman702 reads

I am always extremely well groomed (big me and little me), and CLEAN! So it probably was not last nights dinner. Two ladies told me as soon as they saw me that they did not like facial hair. In some other cases, who knows. And I really am not a fright. I can't see myself as handsome, but I've been called "good looking". Maybe just not clicking factors in here somewhere. But I'm feeling a bit self conscious about it right now. My regulars don't seem to mind, though..............

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HaleyOrlando159 reads

and it doesn't bother me in the least. I have never had a problem with kissing anyone with a beard and my kitty has never suffered either. Most men know when to be gentle.

I think most important Gregory is what you are comfortable with. I love a man who wants to please me but it's not necessary for you to make those changes to please any lady here.

If you would feel better just mention your facial hair and how much you love to kiss. This way you have and idea if it is a problem for the lady or not. I know it won't be for most ladies.

Kisses Haley

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charlie445182 reads

I have a big bushy beard just for you.

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RaeMonroe382 reads

Has a goatee. I think they are hot.

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GFE.inspector500 reads

Thanks honey

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someguynamedp289 reads

I have a short goatee.  It is, however, just long enough to be reasonably soft.  I have found it drives the ladies wild, so to speak.. by not being prickly, it adds to the sensation. :D

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SinsOfTheFlesh476 reads

As someone else sad, stubble is definintely worse than a neatly groomed mustache and goatee. I am only turned off by facial hair if it is either of the 3-days without shaving variety (OUCH), or an untamed mass of fungal growth that hasn't seen a trimmer in decades (SCARY!). A neatly trimmed stache and beard/goatee however, can look very sexy indeed.

I was going to tell you one secret one gentleman told me once, but it appears you already know it. The first time he kissed me, I simply could not believe how luxuriously SOFT his beard was. I expressed my delight over how soft it was, and he told me he used conditioner on it. I couldn't believe how nice it made his beard feel. Not only was it not the least bit scratchy, I couldn't help but run my fingers through it and stroke it while we were kissing, which he very much enjoyed.

So it sounds to me as though you have it down perfectly. Nicely groomed and conditioned - so please by all means, keep the facial hair if it makes you more comfortable. It wouldn't bother me in the least.

PS. I also found it extremely delightful when he used that oh so soft beard to tickle my thighs before getting down to dining. He had me squirming and giggling all over the bed. Ahhh, the memories :)

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