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FIV
emsjhs2009 2239 reads
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how do most providers really feel about a finger or two in the vagina?  I usually have a professional manicure before any session.

I am very susceptible to bacterial infections. One guy poked me so hard that I started bleeding (not cool).

What is it that hobbyists who finger-bang find so appealing about putting your fingers in a woman's vagina?  Do you orgasm from it? Does it bring any sort of sensory stimulation at all?  Is it a simple reliving of teenage memories?  Is it "for her pleasure"?  Just something to ponder...

OK, in well over twenty five years of paying providers I've never had a lady ASK me to put my fingers inside of her.  I have had quite a few specifically tell me not to.  I don't even attempt it anymore.  Some will get wet enough to tolerate it, some will lube up and tolerate it but I'm pretty sure at this point that none of them actually enjoy it.  Perhaps some day I will meet the lady that proves me wrong...

What I do enjoy is stimulating her clitoris gently with my thumb or index finger-depending on what position we are in and it seems to go over pretty well.  I'm also a big fan of oral both giving and receiving.   The thing with any sort of stimulation is that a lot of how well it is received has to do with how many guys have been down there that day before you were

.............some gals will actually beg you to put your fingers in there. Short, clean finger nails are a must.

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Depending who is doing the finger-banging, and how this finger banging is executed I can, personally, attest that a 'finger-bang' can be very, very good.  

It can also be very, very bad.  

As PS said: all woman are different---but, of course FIV absolutely CAN be pleasurable. Very pleasurable, indeed. Yes, there absolutely can be sensory stimulation. Nothing to do with 'tolerating it. '....lol...

With that said vaginas are sensitive and fussy when it comes to bacteria. So dirty fingers mucking around with that delicate balance can be a real drag. And ANYTHING charging in there without adequate lubrication is going to run into the "no entry" sign.

so I love to chance to gently explore and pleasure a lady and to feel the warmth and softness of her inside.
Is quite a turn-on to me.
I've had several ladies take my hand directing me to do this too.

It's also not so simple as just stuffing a couple of fingers inside her and "banging."  It's usually very easy to find her G Spot and massage it with a "come hither" stroke.  Combine that with rapid and delicate flicks of your tongue on her clit and magic happens.

I would tend to agree.  On the occasion when a finger or two was welcome it has always combined with oral stimulation.  In any event, guys just need to use their heads (the big one) a bit more.  If it's not already wet down there shoving fingers in is usually not the way I would start things off...

I routinely get manicures and have had providers comment on how nice my fingers look.

BUT...first and foremost - ASK!  Don't assume it is wanted or welcomed - and if it IS OK with her - don't assume more than one are wanted either.....

She's VERY particular and VERY precise about what she likes regarding manual stimulation. She's 100% GFE, but in this activity, it's total Tantra. Amazing!

And, yes, of course, it's all about the money and she actually despises me. We all know that.

If you plan to do this, please use the sink and wash your hands when you arrive.
Please do that anyway.. It takes less than a minute...

Now think of it this way.. You probably like a little bit of hand play on your penis, yes? Do you like us to grab it, thrust it dry.. So fast... Pulling on it? Maybe some of you do, but most of you don't. Look at finger play similar. I'm sure some girls love to have fists shoved up so far that you feel their throats.. Most of us, myself included, don't.

to arrival.  WHEN I arrive I take care to thoroughly wash including my hands.  It makes sense to me...  I will likely have used a bathroom, touched elevator buttons & door knobs...   I have soft soap in my go bag!  
I like to offer DATY...  gently & let her guide me.  I might cup her bottom as she moves against me but I am just the engine & she is always the driver.  She can feel my tongue & lips...  and fingers...   I pay attention to her responses & desires...   I can not "make" her cum.  If she chooses that choice I am happy to do my part.  I typically end up with a pretty wet face...  sometimes requiring a towel...  

My partners usually choose their pleasure...  some don't.

During DATY it's really nice.

FIV not so much but I do like a finger on my clit clean fingers of course that goes without saying.

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