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Debra_Hollander See my TER Reviews 547 reads
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Always have been.   You know the saying, "march to the beat of your own drum"?   Well, I've got my own entire marching band playing for me! (Actually, a HS teacher said that about me and it still rings true today.)

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How are your experiences, your attitude, your cultural background or your general mentality different from the woman who would never escort?  
   
 Have a fantastic 2017!
I'm certain my upbringing has had a lot to do with my attitudes toward sex and this business and am always happy to talk about it. ;-)

My parents are nudists and also used to be swingers, which was never a secret. They'd hang/play with other couple friends on Saturday night, take the kids to church & Sunday school the following morning, and then (in the summer months) head to their fave nudist resort to sunbathe the rest of the day away.    

My father had subscriptions to "gentlemen's magazines" for as long as I can remember and left them lying around in the family room.  He didn't care that I read or borrowed them, ever.  

I never got any kind of sex-talk from my parents, unless you count my mom telling me, "When you need to be on the pill, let me know!"   And that was it.  Nor moralizing, no lectures.  

When I first became a stripper, my mother was impressed and proud of me.  After I was outed to my family as an escort, she read EVERY SINGLE ONE of my reviews.  All she had to say was, WOW.  

 
I'm happy and grateful that my parents have the opinions they do about nudity and sex.  It's led me into this career, which I enjoy very much!  

Happy New Year back at ya!  xoxoxoxo

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GoogleWasMyIdea2175 reads

The escorts I've met are fascinating, thoughtful and often very smart. All work hard to make their clients happy, create fantastic memories and probably save marriages by providing a safe outlet for frustrated men.  In my 2+ years in the hobby I've become friends with a couple and really enjoyed many others as people in a "OK, we may not know each other well and this will always be a client/provider relationship, but if we were in the same high school I bet we'd be at the same lunch table" sense.  

The vast majority of women would never consider escorting. This doesn't necessarily even have to do with their attitude toward sex. Lots of women out there can separate sex from love, have had countless one night stands, but still wouldn't do it. Lots of women who separate love form sex and could use the money/hours/freedom of escorting but wouldn't do it.  

But you are different. You know the risks, legal and social, but you've decided either they don't matter or don't matter very much and gone ahead as an escort. You are also brave.  

How are your experiences, your attitude, your cultural background or your general mentality different from the woman who would never escort?  

Have a fantastic 2017!

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VelvetVacation643 reads

To sum up your questions quickly, coming from my point of view:

I have found that Sexual Energy is the number one  
most important energy one can conjure up
in the body for Physical Health and Mental Health.

I believe to my core that  
Orgasms are for Health
  for both men and women
      and
I Loooove promoting and facilitating Optimal Health  
  for both men and women

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coeur-de-lion591 reads

I think most successful ladies here are working tonight.  If you don't get a response from Fancy, then you know I'm right. Ask something of the guys and you'll get more participation.

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IslaFlores388 reads

Interesting question....

To answer what makes us different than those that would never consider it given the social legal and otherwise consequences I think most of us by nature must be more daring and risk takers and more business minded. I'm sure a lot of us are comfortable being outsiders and have likely lived in other alternative lifestyles even before escorting (I have anyway) I can only speak for myself really

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UOnlyLive2x681 reads

Had 3 great dates with 3 different gals in 3 days while I was bachelor for 3 days before the holidays.  

Saw one new established provider; one UTR ATF overnight; and one young gal whom I've seen the third time.  

All very special in their own ways and the variety keeps the hobbying fresh and exciting.

Merry Christmas to myself and Happy new year all!

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breannabreeze476 reads

Well I've always been a very sexual person but never viewed sex as this super special thing.  Even when I lost my virginity I was thinking it was fun but didn't understand why people attached so much significance to it.  I was never molested or witnessed anything innapporpriate but I eventually learned my mother was quite promiscuous back in her day so I'm thinking maybe it's genetic?

I was also very poor growing up and I have a bit of "oldest child syndrome".  From talking to other providers it seems like something a lot of us have in common.  Many of us start because it's such great money and allows us to help out needy family members with our spare time or our money.

Another factor...though I dabbled in this world a bit beforehand...was that I started doing this after a four year enlistment in the military because I was tired of being micromanaged and taking orders and wanted to make money on my own terms.  I enjoy my freedom quite a bit and it's nice knowing that I can work when I want to and can pack up and move somewhere else and not have to worry about finding a job.  

I will have to agree that many of us are risk takers by nature and don't have any issues being outsiders or living an alternative lifestyle.  I feel like this could be my dream job if this wasn't so bad in the eyes of society.  People have their judgements but at the end of the day those people are asking me how to go about doing what I'm doing.

In all honesty though all that separates us providers from your normal civvie woman is that we went through with getting paid for "companionship".  I don't think many people realize how many women have contemplated going into sex work.  Once you take that step it will always be in the back of your mind on how easy it is which is why I don't think many providers really ever "retire".  

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RobbinYoung648 reads

Robbin, "Your body makes you sexy. Your smile makes you pretty. But your personality makes you beautiful."

I'm Passionate About Life, Love, and Sex!

Robbin
xoxo

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eroticspirit507 reads

WOW!! I so agree---that line is worthy of Robert Frost, Walt Whitman, etc!!

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oldwarrior423 reads

That is well spoken.  He was a master of verse

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rrasha88515 reads

To succeed you suck seed.

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Debra_Hollander548 reads

Always have been.   You know the saying, "march to the beat of your own drum"?   Well, I've got my own entire marching band playing for me! (Actually, a HS teacher said that about me and it still rings true today.)

Posted By: GoogleWasMyIdea

How are your experiences, your attitude, your cultural background or your general mentality different from the woman who would never escort?  
   
 Have a fantastic 2017!
I'm certain my upbringing has had a lot to do with my attitudes toward sex and this business and am always happy to talk about it. ;-)

My parents are nudists and also used to be swingers, which was never a secret. They'd hang/play with other couple friends on Saturday night, take the kids to church & Sunday school the following morning, and then (in the summer months) head to their fave nudist resort to sunbathe the rest of the day away.    

My father had subscriptions to "gentlemen's magazines" for as long as I can remember and left them lying around in the family room.  He didn't care that I read or borrowed them, ever.  

I never got any kind of sex-talk from my parents, unless you count my mom telling me, "When you need to be on the pill, let me know!"   And that was it.  Nor moralizing, no lectures.  

When I first became a stripper, my mother was impressed and proud of me.  After I was outed to my family as an escort, she read EVERY SINGLE ONE of my reviews.  All she had to say was, WOW.  

 
I'm happy and grateful that my parents have the opinions they do about nudity and sex.  It's led me into this career, which I enjoy very much!  

Happy New Year back at ya!  xoxoxoxo

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lester_prairie391 reads

I don't think so. I've met weirdos. You're not even in the same galaxy as they are.

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GaGambler581 reads

Personally, I am with you. Debra is hardly weird by our admittedly rather low standards here.

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MILFCARESSA356 reads

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