So, I had myself an aha moment over the weekend. Went and saw a great young lady that took me to the top 3 times in an hour. A first for me. Later at home while writing a review of her I realized that she did a couple of things that I don’t really care for.  Uh-oh.

I says too myself is it really fair to write about that????? The bottom line is I didn’t tell her what she should do. She was a willing and enthusiastic participant in our tryst. She has been in this game for less than a year. Maybe she just needs some coaching. So I left those things out and gave her a glowing review(well deserved) and decided that when I see her again I will nicely give her a little coaching.

Some may say it wasn’t an honest review because I didn’t put that info in there. However, if I didn’t speak too her about it how can I hold it against her and possibly damage her credibility in a review. If I ask her to do or not do something and she disregards that then hell yeah I’m going to write about it.  

I am sure I will take some heat for this , but isn’t it our responsibility to teach these young ladies? Men, if we don’t tell them what we want or don’t want them to do…. how will they ever know?

Too the ladies out there. First, I do actually think about what you have to say and it has changed my opinion in some ways. Good for you. I applaud you. Second, how do you feel about a little coaching  

Enjoy your Memorial Day weekend!!!!!!

You could mean anything from a "toothy" BJ to the way she flips her hair. The one needs addressing, the other is just nitpicking on the part of the guy.

What did she do that you took issue with?

lacrosse. LOL

She is who she is BCD and I would leave it alone.

That said, if it is things like the cell phone constantly going off
or the incall was a nasty dump or my favorite 20 towels in the bathroom.

Coach I Say!

Coaching in sex is great! Each of us is different in how we react to physical stimulation. None of us gets off in the same way. The challenge is to be able to communicate respectfully with each other about it. As long as we can give and take direction, we can all have fabulous experiences!

it wasn't a question. It was a statement.  

I didn't take issue. That was my point. It was teachable moment and I failed. In the future I will try to teach.

Got you off 3 times an hour, while doing things that you didn't caare for? Must not have been too disconcerting. I agree with Gambler- too general. Also, what you didn't care for, could be a turn-on for others. Some guys like feeling a little tooth on their BJ, others don't.  If you don't tell, "Please dont do that", how is she to know that you don't like it?- you were bviously enjoying yourself (3 times in and hour)!

First of all, most people don't put every last detail into a review.  Sometimes it's because of a YMMV thing she did but does not want others to know because she doesn't want everyone to expect it.  That's fine with me.  Other times, like your example, it was a couple of little things she did that were not what you might have wanted but the session was so good you didn't want to lower her scores. Also fine with me.
As for coaching, I'll tell a girl what my preferences are and I encourage them to tell me what they want me to do, and what doesn't work for them.  Because I want them to have fun, too.

Whether or not "to coach" and you did phrase it as a question, Hence my response that some things should be coached, others are just nitpicking.

There are a lot of guys who seem to want to teach women "how to fuck" most of their well intentioned "coaching" is not appreciated by the "coachee", I have had more than one young provider tell me exactly that. Not to mention that said, well intentioned coach, while not being put on a DNS list, was put on the "I hope I never see him again" list. just saying, not all unsolicited advice is appreciated.

oaching is something you do when you're roaring from the sidelines. If you want to shout instructions while she's with another guy then go ahead, if that's what you all want?

Just talk to her. During a session if she's doing something you like say so, if she's doing something you don't like say so. If she asks whether you want her to do something then suggest it and see if she agrees. Likewise ask if there's anything you can do for her, anything she prefers or doesn't like.

Even if you're just meeting for a short period of time good communication between both people can greatly increase the enjoyment, you don't need to try to 'teach' or 'coach', just talk and listen.

Remember, whatever she did that you didn't care for could be something she enjoys with others, if you don't say anything to her at the time it's a bit unfair to include it in a review where she can't react or reply so on that score you were right not to do so

REALLY? REALLY? REALLY?    You got off 3 times in an hour and she did a couple of things you didn't care for.... REALLY?  

I do not care what age you are, if she got you off 3 times in an hour you have absolutely nothing to complain about. Absolutely nothing.  

As for coaching her.... REALLY? ...... Who in the world are you? You say she has been in the business less than a year but got you off 3 times in an hour. She needs no coaching from you. If she does a few things you don't like, aw........... REALLY?

Get a grip. You should be ashamed you had the balls to even write such a post.

So maybe she doesn't really need any "coaching" after all?

END OF MESSAGE

Sometimes I notice little things that kill the illusion, but never put in a review. Answering phone and such is one thing, but dude she got you off 3 times in an hour. You can't complain about shit!! Not to be a dick here but she may wanna coach you on controlling you're self. If you got off 3 times in 60 minutes, counting at least a little bit of introduction, getting dressed, and recovery time, you couldn't have stayed in the saddle long. We've all had those times where round 1 was a bit too quick but dude 2 and 3 in an hour? You must have gave her 30 seconds of pure hell each time!!
Here is my advice to you if ya don't mind. Try and whoa up in you're release even if ya have to wait till round 2 to do so, and really focus on her, try and move with her vary the pace a bit, really try and work together. And I'm pretty sure you won't have anything to complain about!!

appreciates getting off once, let alone three times.

HONESTLY... if she did bad I swear to fricking god you would never get off three times in an hour. SO whatever she did, she sure fucked you GREAT. Pass her number onto the rest of us. Sharing is caring bro.

You are looking like a picky ass beotch atm. Seriously? Many men would bow down at her feet. Not everyone is perfect dumbo.

I have been wrestling with whether to delist myself and go low profile. After reading that post and a few others, it became very apparent to me that some men are just too hard to please no matter what a lady does. The nit picking and overall BS has gotten way out of control

Hell yes. Mutual enjoyment and  I want any lady I see to tell me what see she wants

So without being there you can talk trash. Did I say anything negative in her review, Oh wait you probably can't afford to see my full review Your one review is a joke

Thanks for your input, and you are correct. Hell no, I don' want to teach a lady to fuck me. Its more about.... I don't want to put the condom on. When we finish, take it off and clean me up please.
 Its the little things. I will take any experience as it is. If I can "coach " Awwww fuck. If I can suggest a way that you make me happier, then what did I do wrong? I like you to suck and bite my nipples. hmmmm I just coached you in what I like.  

I was talking too you GAG. I want you to bite and suck my nipples