This is a variation on DebbieNoonerGirl's thread about the guy who didn't want her to come.

I hate to spring this on anyone ..........................  but....................has it occurred to those who really believe they can make any gal cum.....that this is pay for play and not screwing your secretary  or significant other ???

...they save their orgasms for when they are with their SO's. It's just too personal an experience for them and something that they don't want to share with a stranger in a P4P scenario.

I have no reason to mislead you...I am a person who enjoys just being in the moment so I may choose not to guide you so that I can just feel and see where the spontaneity thakes me.  I am a serial cummer...that means I have learned how to please my body and soul with many different kinds of touch and the right mental space.  Many ladies do not want to be there...or they may have a partner whp does not want that...or they just cum so infrequently that they are afraid of the letting go process that takes you to a true tantic sensual space.  I will give directions and suggestions if I feel necessary to do so or you just really dig that vibe.

I don't believe hardly any of the reviews I read.  I was laughing when I read the one about the pillow-chewing. I just said to myself, "he believed that?"

Whenever I see a provider I am there to get something I'm missing at home. We are all missing different things and have different needs but, in the end I like a nice orgasm. It doesn't have to be at the end of the hour, it can be earlier, but I like to hold off because it's usually stronger if I do. Having said that - I know it is often harder for a woman to reach climax. Due to the short time involved, I don't expect my partner to cum but, it's a real turn on for me if she does and I always do what I can to make that happen. But, there's always a but, for me it's a turn off if the lady is faking it or if I think she is. Some of you ladies are, in fact, good actresses. Some can fake an orgasm so well a man would never know. More power to you. If we think you're cuming, it works for us. But some of us can tell when most women try to fake us out and that is a real turn-off.

Yes. I'm beginning to think I can't make any provider come, and so I'm just concentrating on what I want that makes me feel good.

But don't ask and continue doing what you want . Actually use the advice given

I also get off more when my partner is getting off. But it ain't happening.

I think your first mistake is believing the providers claiming how great the sex was. Do you think for a second they would ever post anything different? It would just about kill their business if they were honest about how terrible some of their sessions probably are.

which means she can receive PMs.

....or rarely check it. Mine was more of a gentle nudge than anything else  

Maybe because I know what I like.  And I say so.  I want to get off too.

Maybe the woman isn't intune with her body or for whatever reason doesn't have the ability to go into that space. Maybe its just her body language....biting pillows doesnt mean bad experience or that she wont cum....From my experience most of.my.clients I wouldn't hesitate to say what I like best....but sometimes when the connection has been off I've just said "screw it" and let them do how they wanted to.....

Oh, no. I think many, if not most, of the providers here say things they think the customers want to hear. I do believe that sometimes they're telling the truth about having great sex with a guy. It's like drinking cum; many here claim to love it, but I think there's a very small minority of women who truly do love it.

The truth is some women, including providers cannot cum no matter what you do and we don't want you to:
#1 - wear down our vaginas trying too hard
#2 - Feel useless, hopeless in the sack

If I say I had great sex with a man, it doesn't mean I had a orgasm. I've had mind blowing sex with some clients, to the point where I felt like I would like to see them off the clock, and I still didn't cum. That's actually how I found my current boyfriend. He was a client and he made me dizzy in our first session. I wrote a private blog about him on my non-escort blog. I asked HIM out after that session but he had to get home to his wife. I was so sad. He came back to me after a few years and made my life.

Clearly it's not because every guy I see is my sexual hero.  Factually I have posted on my local board that I am truly amazed at how many men over 40  haven't even an inkling of what to do in the bedroom. Some guys are very good in bed.  They are not the majority though.  Guys watch porn and think that's what women want.  I once had a 6'6" 300 lb man in a thong  crawl up my bed like a cat.  Stupidest shit I have ever witnessed in my life.  I had to deter my thoughts to avoid gut busting laughter. If any ladies in the new England area have an opportunity to be with Garymoore.  Do it!  That guy knows what he is doing.

a nudge.  
My reply to you was also meant for her (and others who may not realize about Provider VIP)