Have many of you encountered providers who return to work too soon after their period? Twice I have been with ladies where after I withdrew in the middle of a session the condom had reddish brown stains on it. One of the ladies told me she had finished her period and didn't realise there was still some remnants inside...but I wish they'd been smart enough to insert a sponge or cap. Don't those things exist?  I think it is very unprofessional to see a client when you are still spotting. It's just gross. Some of the stains got onto the crisp white hotel linens too!

Usually when Aunt Flo leaves I'm sure she's gone for good then she comes back after a day or two. No spotting or discharge. Then tah-dah! You go to pee and it's an Egyptian plague and not the boils or frogs or locusts.  

She could have done everything right to prepare but some vigorous fucking dislodged a few remnants that remained.  Calling her "unprofessional" over that and assuming she knew she was still spotting is being a dick.

Neither are people. Relax and go with the flow, no pun intended.

These were not just spots, it was the full blown visit on everything on the bed, including my favorite pajamas which I obviously had to throw in the garbage can.   Of course, we tried to clean up which only meant that we also got it all over the white towels.    It was a really small boutique hotel and when we went to check out later that morning, I told the clerk that I needed to know how much to pay for the linens and he sent a person from housekeeping to look.  Next thing I know, the guy from housekeeping brings everything down to the front desk, the whole bloody mess on display.   So, here I am standing with the lady, the clerk, the housekeeping guy and two bellhops looking on, praying to God that other guests don't walk by.   The funny thing is that they did not charge me for anything and the lady and I laughed our asses off at a coffee house a few doors down after the incident.

The way you said it sound like it was more of an amputation lol

....I got MY period the day before. Normally I would have cancelled so as not to put the her in an awkward position. But since she was in town for only a few days, when I met up with her I told her that under the circumstances, we could just mess around a little instead....at full price, of course. Not only was she not spooked, but iinsisted that we play as normal. What a trooper! Now THAT'S customer service

Looks like this is the consensus. Thanks for all the responses...I have to learn to lighten up and see this as no big deal.  

only see post-menopausal women or those who have had the menses surgically removed (as Melissa stated).  

She arrives.  Steps into the washroom and comes out telling me we have a problem.  She has started early and is completely unprepared.  She talks about being embarrassed.  I keep telling her that it was no big deal.  Then we took a walk together so I could show her where to buy some Tampax.  

I mean, lets be honest here.  Me, myself? I can't afford to take an entire week off with no appointments. to those of you who can, good on you! But most ladies have the period issue solved and down to a science.  

heres a virtual high five to you!

That were not born of natural conception?

Posted By: Alyssa Marie

heres a virtual high five to you!  
   
 you came here with what was a taboo topic to you. something you were a little offended by.. you got many replies that came from people who at one point may have felt the same as you, and now you see a different picture.  
   
 its awesome when this happens and this happened so quick.  
   
 we are all grossed out by certain things, we are human. its similar to having guys in a circle and a girl interrupts and says, "who likes fingers in their butt?" it only takes one to say yes before you are all talking about your favorite prostate exam.  
   
 nothing else needs to be said here. we were all born from a period, or rather lack of. its just part of mother nature.  
 xo

Yeah. Caca-babies like you.

Actually I think there is another term.

Went to a swingers event in my area some years back and locked eyes on a soft butch Latina lady, OMG, she was nice! I was so into her, we spoke and flirted, and being the soft butch she was, she wanted to please me only. Being the undercover aggressive I am, I had to get her panties off and taste her. She told me no go, she was on her period. Asked her if she had a tampon in and she said yes. Fresh and clean I worked her clit, thighs and belly, into an awesome O! I just wanted her! No icky moments, being a clean person she was fine and there were no issues. Have had the same done to me while in full flow. All depends on what someone is comfortable with but people are people and after having a kid, bodily fluids are just whatever, you learn to get over it.

It will cover all areas that may still have something hiding from Aunt Flo and since removing them is close to childbirth, LOL, you can excuse yourself and go into the bathroom and he won't see the spotting that happened from when he pounded your cervix. Been using FC's since 2012, and yes, spotting happens, part of being a woman.  

It would explain a lot

Some babies are derived from nature and some babies are derived from science.

You would be one of those, Slingy.

Sure there is fluid, blood, and mucous in period blood, but for her to catch HIV from her uterine lining shedding, ummm NO! Doesn't sound right. And I am not sure how much period blood a guy would have to have co-mingle into an open sore or cut for him to get an HIV transmission from a lady. Have to contact the CDC directly on that one there.

Since you partake in risky sexual activities (just meaning with more than one partner) I am sure that you get tested on a basis to keep yourself and the community safe, yes?
Just ask your dr to help you with any questions on your next exam.
xo

I take a couple days off when Flo comes to town.  I get really irritable and crampy and dont feel sexy at all.  I did once have Flo show up on a vacation with a guy once and used the sponge thing before sex.  That avoided any bloodshed and he knew about it so we just skipped certain activities.

All humans still come from an egg that didn't explode.
Some lady didn't have a period which in turn produced that child.

I cannot work when I have that visitor. I get very bloated and retain water and feel very unsexy! I take off the allotted time for it all to clear up. No I don't return to work unless it's completely over because then I can wear my sexy panties again and not the sternum covering grandma period panties lol. I just enjoy my cravings for salty things and ride it out.

it's gotten a little quiet in here.

I have no problem swimming in the Red River, but I don't want to drink from it....

I guess we can't talk trash no mo.

I have no problem at all and most of the providers I have seen lately enjoy and have really good intense orgasm's.

with a provider...I was a nervous wreck....put 400 donation on the counter and 1 minute later I find out it's bloody Tuesday. Didn't stop me from going in. Lasted a mere 25 seconds haha

and I'm just asking if exposure to menstrual blood heightens risk to the guy.

Female condoms are like "pussy liners" when used properly.  They stay relatively stationary in the lady, you add lots of lube to your cock and the inside of the condom, and slide in and out of the condom.  Not only does it feel more like barebacking if it's properly lubricated, inserted correctly without twisting, and warmed up to your body temperatures, but if there is any spotting, it stays completely inside the lady the entire time, on the outside of the FC2 (female condom) and away from you, your cock, and the sheets.  When you pull out, the condom should stay inside of her.  If the FC2 sticks to your cock when you pull outwards, you are not using enough lube which is a problem in and of itself (less pleasurable for for parties with FC2's and more likely to make it feel like a plastic bag as you may have heard some guys complain about).  Only when the lady removes the condom from herself when you are done would you notice any spotting that may have occurred.

I hope they left a piece or two in place....

It's good to be a man because that would suck ...

Amazing client status because you actually saw her as a real person and that she did not manufacture this unexpected arrival as a reason to cheat you out of services. Kudos to you!!!!!

...restroom to shower and all of a sudden there is a problem. I told her no problem. She had what she needed. We had the session. Everything was fine. We all "got what we got", stuff happens. No need to freak over natural occurrences.

Thanks.  Appreciate the comment.  Maybe it is not coincidence that the subsequent session kind of went to a new level in terms of passion and intimacy.  As a relative newcomer to this hobby, I have been pleasantly surprised how the experience can go well beyond a simple sexual transaction.  I am still smiling over just how mortified she appeared to be that we might have our session derailed.  Quite charming actually.  I see myself repeating with her for years if she sticks around that long.

Wait! ... you ladies poop? Now you tell me LOL

among other reasons but primarily the two final times with her specifically end of Dec and end of Jan she charged full boat yet knowingly had her period which limited her ( not me ) to Greek and that was extra!. It reminded me just how much money meant to her despite 4 months and a very large sum spent together. I won't divulge her name so if anyone really WANTS that action don't ask or pms  ha