...to be "adopted" by you?  Maybe to her you're just a trick, a john or an ATM.

- not saying I "fell in love"

but rather, that I met a lovely young woman who could have been built from every preference of mine and every archetype in my imagination with respect to appearance,  manner,  and sexual style....  including certain things that I never put in reviews when encountered....   and with whom I found a never expected and truthfully never sought degree of compatibility which gave every evidence of being mutual...

I *hope* I'm nothing more than an enjoyable "trick" to her -    

and I did say "adopt" her - not marry her

Sentiment memorialized...

in song:

You might change your mind by Tuesday

Oh, that's so nice to read.

I wonder if some of us just have a flaky love switch.  I can't sustain a relationship to save my life, but there are definitely (working) times I'm overtaken by "Oh I wish we could make fat babies and move to a ranch in Montana."  Just great chemistry I think, and since it only exists in pretend land, I just enjoy it.    

God help me the couple of times I've run into a man with impregnation/damsel-in-distress fantasies. Best f'ing sex of my life.  

xo,
Marie

P.S.  I have an IUD and those two gentlemen had vasectomies, so it wasn't ever an actual danger.